sassa Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 Can you really be friends with someone from the opposite sex and not expect an attraction? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 26 Report Share Posted October 26 absolutely. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
adonis55 Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 nooo, you might think your friends but thats probly not what the guy is thinkingthere is no such thing as friendship between guys and girls unless one of you wants something from the other, or you are friends through someone else (ex: like you girlfriends' boyfriend) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 yeah, definitely~In fact, i think initially you are attracted to them for one reason or another, you just decide not to take it to the next level. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted October 27 Report Share Posted October 27 Originally posted by sassa Can you really be friends with someone from the opposite sex and not expect an attraction? i think in order to develop any sort of realtionship there needs to be an attraction, no? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 28 Author Report Share Posted October 28 Originally posted by marcid21 i think in order to develop any sort of realtionship there needs to be an attraction, no? true, but i mean more physical attraction...i have many good looking friends, but would never hook up with them... but that doesn't mean the same goes for them.do you allow it to continue or do you bring it up....or what...this is what i'm asking... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 Originally posted by sassa true, but i mean more physical attraction...i have many good looking friends, but would never hook up with them... but that doesn't mean the same goes for them.do you allow it to continue or do you bring it up....or what...this is what i'm asking... you never EVER bring it up...if you value the friendship, that is.I had a friend, not too long ago, that I was absurdly attracted to. I listened to my gut, and somehow pushed the feeling outta my mind. I had a feeling that my friend felt the same way and was attracted to me, but I was sure that he was also smart enough to know not to mess with our relationship....so now the two of us are still pretty close, and I look at him and get a lil' feeling every once in a while...but I love him like I love none of my other male friends, and I'm glad I listened to myself...for once. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 of course. most of my closest friends are mainly guys. and i have never really had an attraction to any of them that caused uncomfortable tensions... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 Originally posted by sassa Can you really be friends with someone from the opposite sex and not expect an attraction? To be honest, if your both mature adults that value your friendship then yeah you shouldnt have a problem. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irenegade7 Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 Originally posted by linabina of course. most of my closest friends are mainly guys. and i have never really had an attraction to any of them that caused uncomfortable tensions... Only if you knew!!!!!!!!!!!!!These guys are like alligators in the river waiting for you to swim up stream. As soon as you jump whack you will be screaming oooooooohhhh yesssssssssssss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 28 Report Share Posted October 28 Originally posted by irenegade7 Only if you knew!!!!!!!!!!!!!These guys are like alligators in the river waiting for you to swim up stream. As soon as you jump whack you will be screaming oooooooohhhh yesssssssssssss. uhhh im sorry what?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
irenegade7 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by linabina uhhh im sorry what?? I'm sorry let me explain. The majority of these guys are just waitingfor the chance to bang your brains out....maybe not now 1 year maybe 2 maybe in ten.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 watch the movie "when harry met sally"...you CAN be friends, but someone in the friendship probably would hook up if they had the chance... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by sassa Can you really be friends with someone from the opposite sex and not expect an attraction? It is definetly possible. Most of my very good friends are guys, some of which I have known for 12 years or more.....They are my boys and I love them, but we also know that that's where it ends. They know everything about me and vice versa.... Being a big flirt makes it kinda fun, because I know that where it ends.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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