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Being too Picky. . .

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as they say... if you are too concerned with how your food is prepared, you may starve yourself. ;)

sooooo step 1: Go to a quality restaurant.

2.) Treat the waiter nice, after all they can spit in your food or do

worse to your clam chowder ;)

3.) Tip generously if the service was good.

4.) enjoy the atmopshere and ambiance of the place... after all the true experience of fine dining centers not only on the plate, but on your surroundings :D

*MUAH*!

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i am way too picky in relationships, lol--i always find some little thing wrong and then that is just IT, i can no longer date that person...it kinda sucks, but i think in the long run, it will help me find just the right person :)

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Originally posted by fierydesire

. . . does it sometimes affect your decisions a little too much, too the point where you would completely not date the person?

I have found that, this tends to happen to me:( . . . well sometimes

I'm not sure it is so mucg being picky, but knowing what you want and don't want. There are some things that can't be overlooked for whatever reason.....When you find the right person, everything will fall into place.......You won't have to change or try to change them...:D

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..I harp on small stuff...I give the benefit of the doubt in the begining..but the MOMENT I find something...anything wrong it's hard for me to focus on other stuff about the person..I point out things I shouldn't even really notice or let bother me..guys have taken that as "I think I'm too good for everyone" at times..but it's not like that...I've probably even missed out on some great opportunities w/ guys..oh well :( I trust my intuition & judgement :tongue:

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When smurfette and i took a break from one another, she told me of some of her "not-so-great" experiences with some guys, and i couldn't believe it!

One guy she went to dinner with, she didn't like the sound he made when he chomped on his fork when he ate. Another guy was So into U2, that she didn't dig him for that.

I think it would be terrible if you negate a guy or girl for silly reasons, and then months later realize that you made a big deal about nothing.

But spygirl is right about people knowing what they want, that it's not always picky, but just what you're looking for ;)

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Originally posted by gmccookny

When smurfette and i took a break from one another, she told me of some of her "not-so-great" experiences with some guys, and i couldn't believe it!

One guy she went to dinner with, she didn't like the sound he made when he chomped on his fork when he ate. Another guy was So into U2, that she didn't dig him for that.

I think it would be terrible if you negate a guy or girl for silly reasons, and then months later realize that you made a big deal about nothing.

But spygirl is right about people knowing what they want, that it's not always picky, but just what you're looking for ;)

Thanks.... When you know what you you are looking for and certain things that elate or deflate you for that matter, it makes it easier. Being selcetive about who you share you share your time with should matter;) :D

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Originally posted by suthrnbelle

i am way too picky in relationships, lol--i always find some little thing wrong and then that is just IT, i can no longer date that person...it kinda sucks, but i think in the long run, it will help me find just the right person :)

same here, I hope your right:(

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mmm yes for me is hard to make my decisions in any type of thing daly life , buying something , eating something etc...

with guys is difrent i tend to be objective and see why iam doubting or why i cant make my desicion welll is a hard question

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Originally posted by spragga25

what?

Hole and a heartbeat is all I need :tongue:

you are SUCH a liar, lol...should i cut and paste our convo from AIM? ;) you are just as picky as the rest of us, mister-over-2-years-cause-i-don't-want-to-settle!!! :eek:

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Originally posted by suthrnbelle

you are SUCH a liar, lol...should i cut and paste our convo from AIM? ;) you are just as picky as the rest of us, mister-over-2-years-cause-i-don't-want-to-settle!!! :eek:

um....um....um...You don't have THAT!!

do you? :confused:

God I need an escort :rolleyes:

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I think that if you're too picky, you miss out on soooo many good people and good things in life....

Falling in love is all about loving someone despite their faults, with their imperfections, no matter what....

Now if you're too picky, you might lose the chance to meet and get to know someone bc you judged them on small, superficial guidelines.....

~Mystify :);):cool:

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