fierydesire Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 . . . does it sometimes affect your decisions a little too much, too the point where you would completely not date the person?I have found that, this tends to happen to me:( . . . well sometimes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 as they say... if you are too concerned with how your food is prepared, you may starve yourself. sooooo step 1: Go to a quality restaurant.2.) Treat the waiter nice, after all they can spit in your food or do worse to your clam chowder 3.) Tip generously if the service was good.4.) enjoy the atmopshere and ambiance of the place... after all the true experience of fine dining centers not only on the plate, but on your surroundings *MUAH*! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 i am way too picky in relationships, lol--i always find some little thing wrong and then that is just IT, i can no longer date that person...it kinda sucks, but i think in the long run, it will help me find just the right person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by fierydesire . . . does it sometimes affect your decisions a little too much, too the point where you would completely not date the person?I have found that, this tends to happen to me:( . . . well sometimes I'm not sure it is so mucg being picky, but knowing what you want and don't want. There are some things that can't be overlooked for whatever reason.....When you find the right person, everything will fall into place.......You won't have to change or try to change them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 ..I harp on small stuff...I give the benefit of the doubt in the begining..but the MOMENT I find something...anything wrong it's hard for me to focus on other stuff about the person..I point out things I shouldn't even really notice or let bother me..guys have taken that as "I think I'm too good for everyone" at times..but it's not like that...I've probably even missed out on some great opportunities w/ guys..oh well I trust my intuition & judgement Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 When smurfette and i took a break from one another, she told me of some of her "not-so-great" experiences with some guys, and i couldn't believe it!One guy she went to dinner with, she didn't like the sound he made when he chomped on his fork when he ate. Another guy was So into U2, that she didn't dig him for that.I think it would be terrible if you negate a guy or girl for silly reasons, and then months later realize that you made a big deal about nothing.But spygirl is right about people knowing what they want, that it's not always picky, but just what you're looking for Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by gmccookny When smurfette and i took a break from one another, she told me of some of her "not-so-great" experiences with some guys, and i couldn't believe it!One guy she went to dinner with, she didn't like the sound he made when he chomped on his fork when he ate. Another guy was So into U2, that she didn't dig him for that.I think it would be terrible if you negate a guy or girl for silly reasons, and then months later realize that you made a big deal about nothing.But spygirl is right about people knowing what they want, that it's not always picky, but just what you're looking for Thanks.... When you know what you you are looking for and certain things that elate or deflate you for that matter, it makes it easier. Being selcetive about who you share you share your time with should matter;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by suthrnbelle i am way too picky in relationships, lol--i always find some little thing wrong and then that is just IT, i can no longer date that person...it kinda sucks, but i think in the long run, it will help me find just the right person same here, I hope your right:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 for little shit i am not too picky. however, if he is unmotivated, lazy, constantly ogles girls in my presence (once in a while i don't care), and other such things, then he is out the door! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 mmm yes for me is hard to make my decisions in any type of thing daly life , buying something , eating something etc... with guys is difrent i tend to be objective and see why iam doubting or why i cant make my desicion welll is a hard question Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 I'm not picky at all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by fierydesire same here, I hope your right:( lol, me too, girl, me too! it sounds good though, right? it HAS to be right! ...cause otherwise, we may be screwed , and that's just NOT possible!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by spragga25 I'm not picky at all *stand back, everyone, cause lightning is about to strike Spragga for that lie* *mwah* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by suthrnbelle *stand back, everyone, cause lightning is about to strike Spragga for that lie* *mwah* what?Hole and a heartbeat is all I need Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by spragga25 what?Hole and a heartbeat is all I need you are SUCH a liar, lol...should i cut and paste our convo from AIM? you are just as picky as the rest of us, mister-over-2-years-cause-i-don't-want-to-settle!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by suthrnbelle you are SUCH a liar, lol...should i cut and paste our convo from AIM? you are just as picky as the rest of us, mister-over-2-years-cause-i-don't-want-to-settle!!! um....um....um...You don't have THAT!!do you? God I need an escort Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by spragga25 what?Hole and a heartbeat is all I need All I have to say is: :blown: :blown: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 All I have to say is: :blown: :blown: love you too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by spragga25 love you too Those were disgust....lol...not flirting:laugh: ...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by spragga25 um....um....um...You don't have THAT!!do you? yep trillian saves convos in a log for each person, HA! you around later for a call? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 Originally posted by suthrnbelle yep trillian saves convos in a log for each person, HA! you around later for a call? Yes ma'am....just bring it...the call that is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 I think that if you're too picky, you miss out on soooo many good people and good things in life....Falling in love is all about loving someone despite their faults, with their imperfections, no matter what....Now if you're too picky, you might lose the chance to meet and get to know someone bc you judged them on small, superficial guidelines.....~Mystify Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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