fierydesire Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 . . . first and foremost its FuCkEd up . . .. . . second, what constitutes of leading someone on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by fierydesire . . . first and foremost its FuCkEd up . . .. . . second, what constitutes of leading someone on? slut faced grandma underwear wearing cum dumpster.wuppsss wrong thread Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 it is seriously wrong...i think leading someone on constitutes telling them that you want to be with them and discussing "future plans" and spending all your time with them, etc, and generally having a relationship with them, usually verbally telling them things like how happy you are and blah blah...when really you are either just enjoying the ride with no intentions of fulfilling the "promises" you are making, or you are not sure of the things you are saying but say them anyway, etc...grrrrrrr to this topic it is a little close to home right now! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by suthrnbelle it is seriously wrong...i think leading someone on constitutes telling them that you want to be with them and discussing "future plans" and spending all your time with them, etc, and generally having a relationship with them, usually verbally telling them things like how happy you are and blah blah...when really you are either just enjoying the ride with no intentions of fulfilling the "promises" you are making, or you are not sure of the things you are saying but say them anyway, etc...grrrrrrr to this topic it is a little close to home right now! whats wrong with telling the person that you are happy with them. I see how it is wrong about making future plans and all. Yet I think you can tell someone you enjoy their company and feel that they shouldnt think that means your leading them on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 . . . eh, I can't say I haven't been led on in this life . .. . it happens . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by fierydesire whats wrong with telling the person that you are happy with them. I see how it is wrong about making future plans and all. Yet I think you can tell someone you enjoy their company and feel that they shouldnt think that means your leading them on absolutely you can tell them you are happy with them--it is when you tell them more than you are ready to back up that problems arise...people get caught up in things and "go with the flow" sometimes and say things and do things they don't necessarily mean, and then they realize they were not/are not ready for that...problem is, the other person in the relationship is now affected by those things for better or worse...i did not at all mean that you can't express your feelings in the "grey area"---you should always tell people how you feel just don't go overboard and say things unless you truly mean them...does that make sense? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 ...telling someone they are 'the one'......telling them the two of u r perfect together...telling them they are the only u wanna be with......ETC ETC ETC....then turning around and being the complete ASSWIPE so many men can be..............ok.......well that was quite a little episode i just had lol!!.......i will take myself to the worst day of my life thread now!!..........but seriously......actually TELLING someone things...is far worse then leading someone on ...but never actually confirming their hopes...........either way ..both are fucked up..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted October 30 Report Share Posted October 30 i have been led on.... who hasn't?!?!? i actually think i was also the one who was doing the leading on... but before everyone starts to yell.... when you're young and think you're in love, etc... you say exactly what you're feeling... you don't realize that you're living in the heat of the moment ... and sometimes, well most of the time, your feelings change, so the other person THINKS you led them on when in actuality, you were just feelin the moment....so there's kinda a grey area in there... i mean YES there are assholes who lead people on, but sometimes i think we all don't mean it..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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