georgym Posted November 27 Author Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by ronalds reminds me of such a ture quote from "Sex, Lies & Videotape""Men learn to love the person they're attracted to, and women become more attracted to the person they love" Intriguing quote, but isn't that the opposite of what im saying?What i'm talking about is that 1st, you have looks. It''s a good basis to start on. But then very soon after comes personality, charm, consideration,etc...I have loved before, but that love evaporated after inconsideration and selfishness came to outdo the good looks and inital thoughts of that person. I can't learn to love someone that im attracted to if their true personality comes out later to be real stinky... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danamdkny Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by gmccookny Intriguing quote, but isn't that the opposite of what im saying?What i'm talking about is that 1st, you have looks. It''s a good basis to start on. But then very soon after comes personality, charm, consideration,etc...I have loved before, but that love evaporated after inconsideration and selfishness came to outdo the good looks and inital thoughts of that person. I can't learn to love someone that im attracted to if their true personality comes out later to be real stinky... I think that Ronald is generalizing by sex-- he's saying that women arre more emotionally involved in a relationship than men -- that men look for physicality first and foremost...he's making a statement that proves that HE does fit that mold by admiting that view. ----- I dont usually like to rule by stereotypes and generalizations-first impressions make a BIG impact-we are starting to get off topic-- but you have to look at the WHOLE package Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 ...speaking of "packages"......eh......n/m... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted November 27 Author Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by danamdkny ----- I dont usually like to rule by stereotypes and generalizations-first impressions make a BIG impact-we are starting to get off topic-- but you have to look at the WHOLE package right... There's so much grey area out there, that generalizations have virtually ceased to exist.And to stay on topic... I believe that it's possible to shut aside the negative things about a person by thinking more of their physical/mental beauty. Those 2 are strong indicator's, and it would be a huge mistake to rely on those 2 to be the main reason for being with someone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danamdkny Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by gmccookny right... There's so much grey area out there, that generalizations have virtually ceased to exist.And to stay on topic... I believe that it's possible to shut aside the negative things about a person by thinking more of their physical/mental beauty. Those 2 are strong indicator's, and it would be a huge mistake to rely on those 2 to be the main reason for being with someone well that is true -- but you also have to people as they are-- people dont change really ( i think?) they grow and learn thngs, but essentially dont change-- So you just have to decide (or try)before you get too involved emotionally, financially -- whatever-So yes-- I totally agree with you that people are multi-faceted(well somepeople are DULLsVille ;)hehe) and it's important to be aware and not be blind to people's real selves and live in la la land EVEn if you really want it BAD-- because inthe end you are only hurting yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted November 27 Report Share Posted November 27 Originally posted by djmoonshine jealous much? i mean cause yer a cool guy and all... so cool you made a thread about just how cool you are. cause that's really cool. you're the jealous one, not me. youre jealous of my cooooooolnes and my ability to be coolherb. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 thanks for helping me prove my point you homo... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 Originally posted by djmoonshine thanks for helping me prove my point you homo... shutup you slob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted November 28 Report Share Posted November 28 Originally posted by gabo shutup you slob well u guys get alone so well,i can see that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted November 29 Report Share Posted November 29 she loves me and doesnt know how to express it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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