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~~maybe this has been asked before but i wont bother looking...now it is acceptable for guys to date younger girls, but how much younger can a guy be without it being weird?? let's assume the guy looks older than his age and acts more mature:confused: :confused:

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Originally posted by atomicapples

if tyhey dont have hair in the right area. then they are too young.

"if there's grass on the field, play ball ;) ."

no, but seriously, the guy has to be at least 21, for me. if he can't get into a club legally, forget it (though i probably wouldn't go that young, either).

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Originally posted by ghhhhhost

too young is when u can remember shit from the year the person was born in..like..."DAMN '89!! WAS A GOOD YEAR!"

hahha, that's a good way of looking at it.

One time, i got smurfy with a girl who was 17, and i was 22. But we both had things in common, and got along "on that level" because she was beyond her numerical number.

But I can see if you start engaging in conversation with the person, and it gets kinda weird b/c A) you remember your 7th birthday party when they were born , or B) maturity level.

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well, i agree that age is just a number. i am 21 in a month & wouldn't go for anyone younger than 18, but right now i haven't even met an 18 year old that i could see myself with..it all depends on the person you are & the person you are thinkin about being with & don't let any other person tell you otherwise...

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~~i guess its just a personal issue with me...a lot of my friends do not seem to care...two of my friends are with guys who are 9-10 years older than they are...and some date younger guys....but to me its kinda weird......on the other hand when i was 14 i was going out with a 19yr old and it was fine....but i cant picture myself (im 19) with a 14 yr old......:blank:

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Originally posted by sexxyh

~~i guess its just a personal issue with me...a lot of my friends do not seem to care...two of my friends are with guys who are 9-10 years older than they are...and some date younger guys....but to me its kinda weird......on the other hand when i was 14 i was going out with a 19yr old and it was fine....but i cant picture myself (im 19) with a 14 yr old......:blank:

...no offense to u....but i feel there is something very wrong with a 19 yr old guy who wants something to do with a 14 yr old girl.......age is just a number at a CERTAIN age......a 19 yr old has no place with a 14 yr old....and if that was my kid i would break his fucking knee caps!!

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I think it depends on the situation. I try to gauge it by what my parents or friends would think. If I came home with a 16 year old girl who was still in h.s. my parents would think there was something wrong...I just turned 21. I think the youngest girl i'd ever see on a regular basis would be 18. But if it was just gonna be a one time thing, I think 17 would be ok. It all depends on how physically and emotionally mature the girl is.

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Originally posted by misk

...no offense to u....but i feel there is something very wrong with a 19 yr old guy who wants something to do with a 14 yr old girl.......age is just a number at a CERTAIN age......a 19 yr old has no place with a 14 yr old....and if that was my kid i would break his fucking knee caps!!

I agree. i don't see what the hell a 19 year old could see in a girl who's only 14. Granted, I'm sure the girl was attractive, but a 14 year olds life is so much different from a kid who's 19. I mean, isn't 14 like the average age of an 8th grader.

Again, I don't understand what a 19 year old college age kid could possibly see in a an 8th grader who's 5 years younger. Not to mention how extremely illegal that is sexually.

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Originally posted by misk

...no offense to u....but i feel there is something very wrong with a 19 yr old guy who wants something to do with a 14 yr old girl.......age is just a number at a CERTAIN age......a 19 yr old has no place with a 14 yr old....and if that was my kid i would break his fucking knee caps!!

true dat yo

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Originally posted by misk

...no offense to u....but i feel there is something very wrong with a 19 yr old guy who wants something to do with a 14 yr old girl.......age is just a number at a CERTAIN age......a 19 yr old has no place with a 14 yr old....and if that was my kid i would break his fucking knee caps!!

AMEN!!!!

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Originally posted by misk

...no offense to u....but i feel there is something very wrong with a 19 yr old guy who wants something to do with a 14 yr old girl.......age is just a number at a CERTAIN age......a 19 yr old has no place with a 14 yr old....and if that was my kid i would break his fucking knee caps!!

yeah, that's statutory rape. and, i don't mean to offend you either, but i think that guy was outta line. did your parents know about this relationship?
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Originally posted by weyes

yeah, that's statutory rape. and, i don't mean to offend you either, but i think that guy was outta line. did your parents know about this relationship?

~~no offence(sp?) taken....and yea they did....i mean i was with him for 3.5 years so it was meaningful at the time...and honestly i think i was more mature at 14 than i am now lol......

~~anyway the reason why i brought up this question is NOT b/c of me dating an older guy when i was 14 but about many girls i know dating younger guys and why it bothers me....but cp threads are known to get :otopic: so its ok

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.....i am really not into younger guys.....i have gotten involved with very few on different levels.....all of them no more than 1 year younger and none of them looking it.......

...not that i am like.......time out....let me see your id......but i am just not attracted to younger guys...

it's a different appeal for guys with younger girls i guess....there's that whole fresh meat thing...girls also mature physically sooner than boys.......not to mention younger girls have a tendency to be adoring and sometimes obedient of older guys they are involved with....that is my opinion

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It should definitely be an issue of maturity rather than of age. I've dated within a range of 4 years of my age, and older or younger, it makes not one whit of a difference. My boyfriend is 2 1/2 yrs younger than me, and he's one of the most mature men I've ever met (yet he still maintains that boyish charm, hehe).

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