georgym Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Does it seem like all the nice, attractive girls have ISSUES It's just been my experience with most girls i've dated or been in relationships with. And the ones that have it together (who are my friends and are also cute .) seem to have it together.Im starting to wonder--am i attracted to problematic girls, or is there something in the air that good looking girls have lots and lots of issuesOr maybe just my bad luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snarfgirl22 Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 i think everyone has issues Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 11 Author Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by snarfgirl22 i think everyone has issues Well, this is true.But some people have it more than others.I don't know why, but i seem to meet a lot of complex personalities in the women i meet. Lots of contradiction and confusion.Im not gonna leave guys out of this, but i do believe that they are simpler to figure out and less dramatic. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 . . I'm attracted to problematic girls, I know this to be fact . . . Its all learned response from my mother, but I aint going into that . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by snarfgirl22 i think everyone has issues ding ding ding ding...the problem is, as you get older, you're less likely to deal with them...i mean we get pickier and less tolerant...less likely to work on a relationship...we're quicker to walk away these days then stay and try to make it work...sad but true...being aware of it has made me try to change it...i dont think it's fair to other people...but it is true... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 11 Author Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by phatman ding ding ding ding...the problem is, as you get older, you're less likely to deal with them...i mean we get pickier and less tolerant...less likely to work on a relationship...we're quicker to walk away these days then stay and try to make it work...sad but true...being aware of it has made me try to change it...i dont think it's fair to other people...but it is true... I hear ya , phatty Like for my example with smurfette, I have always been there even AFTER she has acted the way she has. But that's the problem...im basically saying "u can do what you want, i'll still be there after the fact"But now that i see the trend, im less likely to welcome her back whenever she feels like coming back.I think i somehow am attracted to it to. But there's a point as to how many issues i can tolerate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . I'm attracted to problematic girls, I know this to be fact . . . Its all learned response from my mother, but I aint going into that . . . ...i didnt want to admit this until this passed experience...but i made my epiphany two weeks ago after my last experience...ever since my first true love basically broke my spiritual back, i have only been involved in relationships that i knew would never work out...and for the most part, they were situations where i had the upper hand...sad to say but true...for the first time in a long time, i am ready to deal and work with whatever comes my way...to lay it all out there...too bad that stupid cunt didnt give me a second date...ooops...did i say that?...no bitterness there...nope...none at all...least i learned a lot about myself off that one... (and got some lovin on her couch)... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phuturephunk Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 . . . . . . awesome nick! . . . . . .I really feel I should add something to this convo, but I just can't write anything . . . <sigh> . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by snarfgirl22 i think everyone has issues Exactly, it's just a matter of finding someone who's baggage goes well with yours. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 11 Author Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by tastyt Exactly, it's just a matter of finding someone who's baggage goes well with yours. I have carry-on Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hardcorekrock Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 yea the prettier the more issues Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by gmccookny I have carry-on 'Long as it fits in the overhead compartment, or underneath the seat in front of you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 when looking for a partiner, dont look for someone u think is hot.. or someone u have things in common with.....look for someone whos problems u can deal with.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 some people def have more issues than othersI find myself in the same situationI cant speak for you, but I think it might be the fact that I become neededalso because I am optimistic and generally happy, I feel I bring something good into their livesAnother thing I notice can be summed up with a quoteA person without any vices, can not have many virtues(something along those lines, I cant remember the exact wording) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 wait, i wanna further explain myself.. lolI guess what i'm trying to say, I could imagine that 2 people that are emotionally compatable, would get along far better then people who are physically compatable... When 2 people are emotionally compatable, the lines of communication are more open, (which makes sex better)and u can only fuck someone so much and not have conversation with out fighting and have GOOD SEX.. for like prob. 2 weeks.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 oops double post Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 11 Author Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by nympho69 I find myself in the same situationI cant speak for you, but I think it might be the fact that I become neededalso because I am optimistic and generally happy, I feel I bring something good into their lives I actually know where you're coming from, cuz i'm also a happy-kinda guy most of the time.I guess i want my good nature to rub off more on someone that seems to need it than someone who's already happy.And i like to be able to advise, be a helpful person. This girl i've been with seems to appreciate it a lot, but it's coming to the point where i feel the relationship is more her callin me for advice rather than her calling me for some luvin' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 it used to be that people who had emotional issues or whatever u wanna call them would be most attracted to me... i think for similar reasons like nympho mentioned. its weird though..cuz i wanna be a psychologist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dillinger Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 girls love drama. they cant live without it. why do u think they always watch soap operas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 11 Report Share Posted February 11 Originally posted by gmccookny I actually know where you're coming from, cuz i'm also a happy-kinda guy most of the time.I guess i want my good nature to rub off more on someone that seems to need it than someone who's already happy.And i like to be able to advise, be a helpful person. This girl i've been with seems to appreciate it a lot, but it's coming to the point where i feel the relationship is more her callin me for advice rather than her calling me for some luvin' uh ohdoes my memory serve me correctlywere u the one posting about the bipolar chick? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
venusvixen Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by gmccookny Does it seem like all the nice, attractive girls have ISSUES It's just been my experience with most girls i've dated or been in relationships with. And the ones that have it together (who are my friends and are also cute .) seem to have it together.Im starting to wonder--am i attracted to problematic girls, or is there something in the air that good looking girls have lots and lots of issuesOr maybe just my bad luck i think GUYS have way more issues, they just don't talk about it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 12 Author Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by nympho69 uh ohdoes my memory serve me correctlywere u the one posting about the bipolar chick? yes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by gmccookny yes. well after my experiece with a bipolar guyIm just a little more careful on who I get involved withand that its for the right reason Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by venusvixen i think GUYS have way more issues, they just don't talk about it ...when you get a chance, let me know how young you are... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 12 Author Report Share Posted February 12 Originally posted by nympho69 well after my experiece with a bipolar guyIm just a little more careful on who I get involved withand that its for the right reason I understand where you're coming from.But we've just shared so much, and we have a lot in common. I am willing to stick it out, but only if in time she agrees to seek some psychological help, and really try hard not to repeat what she's been doing.Call me naive or stubborn, but i won't believe it until i go through with it.Oh, and she's been calling me the last 2 days, acting like nothing happened. But she can tell im a little pissed. She said she kept her ringer off cuz she was going thru a lot. But imma let her know she can't do that if she wants to be with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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