georgym Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Do people still want one, or has it become just one big dating game It just seems to me that mad people be hooking up, wanting play, or just little things here and there. God forbid you call the person the next night to see how they're doing.(venting) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 26 Author Report Share Posted February 26 Sorry...just another case of a guy who wants to be in a relationship with a girl who doesn't want to be.It clicks, there's chemistry, but no desire for devotion ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 i agree, which is why i dont 'date' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 26 Author Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by petp i agree, which is why i dont 'date' If you don't date, then what do u do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Dating sucks donkey dick! It's so superficial. George, you're what? 23, 24? Lots (if not most) people in that age group and younger aren't really looking for anything too serious... but there are definitely those who are... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
petp Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by gmccookny If you don't date, then what do u do? just my preference, but i have way too many other things to focus on than to waste my time with women who just want to play games. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 26 Author Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by tastyt Dating sucks donkey dick! It's so superficial. George, you're what? 23, 24? Lots (if not most) people in that age group and younger aren't really looking for anything too serious... but there are definitely those who are... Yes, will be 24 in 2 months. I hear ya, i guess it is rather normal for this age bracket.And petp, that's EXACTLY what im tired of---the games. This one girl says all these nice things to me, and then says she didn't really mean it.screw it. From now on, i am going to be EXTRA careful about sharing my feelings and emotions when getting involved. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by gmccookny screw it. From now on, i am going to be EXTRA careful about sharing my feelings and emotions when getting involved. i don´t get that statement what does that have to do with being hurt?? i mean i am pretty open about everything, tell people exactly how i feel about them, what i think of them, what i think about situations, things etc., the negative and the positive.i feel i am so secure in my reality that i can easily open it and show it to others. and while they may comment and talk they never really affect my realitysimply shouldn´t allow people to make changes to or even dictate your reality. come to think about it, could that be a definition of confidence? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 26 Author Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by tastey i don´t get that statement what does that have to do with being hurt?? i mean i am pretty open about everything, tell people exactly how i feel about them, what i think of them, what i think about situations, things etc., the negative and the positive.i feel i am so secure in my reality that i can easily open it and show it to others. and while they may comment and talk they never really affect my realitysimply shouldn´t allow people to make changes to or even dictate your reality. come to think about it, could that be a definition of confidence? I think i was just heated up in the moment with that comment.I am a very open person as well, sharing a lot. But i can see how that can come to haunt me later on if things don't work out.I just mean that im going to be extra careful about what i say, and who i say it to. Not everyone deserves my openness, especially if they're keeping things inside Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by gmccookny Do people still want one, or has it become just one big dating game It just seems to me that mad people be hooking up, wanting play, or just little things here and there. God forbid you call the person the next night to see how they're doing.(venting) I don't really enjoy hooking up and I do it very seldomly. 90% of the girls I have ever hooked up have either been my girlfriends, or were about to be my girlfriends. I can literally count on two hands how many girls I have kissed out of blue and never seen again. I think a relationship is DEFINETLEY more meaningful, IMHO. I don't have problems of commitment and am completley happy to be with just one girl, one is enough to handle/Pleasure/Deal with/Spend time with... The thing that scares me most is the fact that there are all these STD's and stuff out there and you never know who has them and all that. So you shouldnt just fuck around with everyone ! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted February 26 Author Report Share Posted February 26 Originally posted by rdancer I don't have problems of commitment and am completley happy to be with just one girl, one is enough to handle/Pleasure/Deal with/Spend time with... The thing that scares me most is the fact that there are all these STD's and stuff out there and you never know who has them and all that. So you shouldnt just fuck around with everyone ! I hear ya on both points.I was watching the news last night, and a lesbian woman contracted the HIV virus---so really no one is exempt from diseases.But im just upset b/c i had so much in common with this girl, we shared the same views, but just simply b/c she's not ready for a commitment, she doesn't want to get serious. I know i can't argue with her about it, but it just upsets me knowing there's someone out there that i can't do anything about, leaving feelings high and dry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted February 26 Report Share Posted February 26 i've lost my mojo with the dating game.I either fuck you, or I love you...bottom line. If it's all about the fuck...well, then you'll know. At this stage I'll either marry someone I already know, or just continue on and become an old maid. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
totallytrance Posted February 27 Report Share Posted February 27 amen....I always get dumped ....the guys my age are just too immture i think im gonna start looking for older guys.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cessy Posted February 27 Report Share Posted February 27 Originally posted by gmccookny Do people still want one, or has it become just one big dating game It just seems to me that mad people be hooking up, wanting play, or just little things here and there. God forbid you call the person the next night to see how they're doing.(venting) i think im ready for a "meaningful" realtionship Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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