nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by phuturephunk ...jesus, you're cold.... im cold cause i dont turn or create false realities in order to feel "loved"no im not cold, im realistic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
therunner Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Main Entry: [1]cud·dlePronunciation: 'k&-d&lFunction: verbInflected Form(s): cud·dled; cud·dling /'k&d-li[ng], 'k&-d&l-i[ng]/ Etymology: origin unknownDate: 1520transitive senses: to hold close for warmth or comfort or in affection intransitive senses: to lie close or snug : NESTLE, SNUGGLE - cud·dler /'k&d-l&r, 'k&-d&l-&r/ noun////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////Main Entry: snug·glePronunciation: 'sn&-g&lFunction: verbInflected Form(s): snug·gled; snug·gling /-g(&-)li[ng]/ Etymology: frequentative of [1]snugDate: 1687intransitive senses: to curl up comfortably or cozily transitive senses1 : to draw close especially for comfort or in affection 2 : to make snug - snuggle nounAccording to webster there is no difference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 ok phatman so i am twisted, ur realizing this now?? hahaif being twisted means not having the desire or need to cuddle, well i guess i am... ...it's one thing to not want to cuddle...it's another to throw out the statements you made about those that do...much of it probably derives from something really depressing that you've experienced or are holding onto...eh...i could go on...but either way, you being twisted is not just based on this post alone, but it sure does verify it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by phatman ...it's one thing to not want to cuddle...it's another to throw out the statements you made about those that do...much of it probably derives from something really depressing that you've experienced or are holding onto...eh...i could go on...but either way, you being twisted is not just based on this post alone, but it sure does verify it... my statements??well i dont think cuddling creates what most people are actually wantingbut they sure think it does...and those are the people with a bigger issuenot me... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 ...you better not hug your kids if you have them either because that might make them attached...and since one day you could get hit by a bus or fall off a cliff that would just crush them...so why even start having them have emotions for you when in the end it will only hurt them......affection is a part of being human...from the day we are born to the day we die..if you want to attach some perversion to it because you think it leads to a sense of false hope than so be it..but i completely disagree...if you're willing to extend it to that than you have to go further and put it on other things like holding hands, hugging, etc...you could even attach it to making love...or do yo not make love, just fuck?.......oh and by the way....sometimes people do things just cause it feels good...they dont necessarily sit there and think about what it means...a hug can be just a hug...a kiss can be just a kiss...i would think you of all people can understand that mentality... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 snuggling is my favorite activity. today is a great snuggle day. i am so gay Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by phatman ...you better not hug your kids if you have them either because that might make them attached...and since one day you could get hit by a bus or fall off a cliff that would just crush them...so why even start having them have emotions for you when in the end it will only hurt them......affection is a part of being human...from the day we are born to the day we die..if you want to attach some perversion to it because you think it leads to a sense of false hope than so be it..but i completely disagree...if you're willing to extend it to that than you have to go further and put it on other things like holding hands, hugging, etc...you could even attach it to making love...or do yo not make love, just fuck?.......oh and by the way....sometimes people do things just cause it feels good...they dont necessarily sit there and think about what it means...a hug can be just a hug...a kiss can be just a kiss...i would think you of all people can understand that mentality... ok now how did u get into the subject of kids???and i do go further i really dont hug or hold hands muchand no i havent made love cause i havent been in lovewell then excuse me cause i put thought into the things i dops why does it seem as though ur being very defensiveif im "wrong" then it shouldnt bother u as much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 actually u hit it right on target with bringing up kidsyes this love from a parent is realand that affection and security is realand it can be in a romantic relationship if the feelings are realbut most of the time they arentand that is my point i dont hug, cuddle, or show these affections unless i am certain what i feel is real and that takes time for me to develope with anyone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 that is my point i dont hug, cuddle, or show these affections unless i am certain what i feel is real and that takes time for me to develope with anyone that's not what you stated earlier. You clearly stated matter-of-factly that you DON'T do these things...ever....and anyone who does is showing signs of weakness or something even deeper.I don't believe that you've NEVER done any of the two. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 ps why does it seem as though ur being very defensiveif im "wrong" then it shouldnt bother u as much... ...i'm pretty consistant about retorting to people that make statements such as yours when it deals with a part of who i am...if someone says something about men, greeks, older folk, etc...and i think it is incorrect or unjust, i have to jump in......in this case, i am a big fan of cuddling and snuggling...and a hetrosexual...so when you throw out those words "gay" and "crutch", etc...wtf do you think is gonna happen... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 here's my take on it....cuddling requires more than one personsnuggling can be done aloneyou can snuggle up in your jammies under the blankets in your bed all alone(like into a little ball--all tucked in) ... but you cant "cuddle" unless someone else is w/ yougot it?at least IMOany agree? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 and that is my point i dont hug, cuddle, or show these affections unless i am certain what i feel is real and that takes time for me to develope with anyone ..y ahora...comes mierda... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by phatman ..y ahora...comes mierda... yeah ok Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 yes i agree on some levelbut some people turn to cuddling and other forms of affection as a sort of crutchi dont know maybe its the people ive encountered that like cuddling, whom i thought needed to develope more as a personok phatman so i am twisted, ur realizing this now?? hahaif being twisted means not having the desire or need to cuddle, well i guess i am... no marcid this is what i saidkey words "some people"and phatman how am i talking shiti dont have the desire to cuddle etc, this is trueand ive only been affectionate with one boyfriend and well it wasnt until after 3 months of dating....im over this thread though... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 :laugh: damn at least someone agrees with methanks cintron yeah im a souless funless bitchwooooooohooooooobut if u want to get into a serious conversation about my thoughts on people who like to cuddle where here they arethese people are needy of affection, a desire to be loved, and feel cuddling creates this false comfortand that is what i call gay... no...this is what you said. Implying that you're none of the above.I'm not trying to fight with you, but I sincerely disagree with what you're saying...these people that are posting here...well, we're not a bunch of bumbling fools spreading love and hugs everywhere. Everyone is intitled to their opinions...but...i think you crossed a line throwing around loose insults.just my $0.02 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by hunnie818 here's my take on it....cuddling requires more than one personsnuggling can be done aloneyou can snuggle up in your jammies under the blankets in your bed all alone(like into a little ball--all tucked in) ... but you cant "cuddle" unless someone else is w/ yougot it?at least IMOany agree? no you can cuddle or snuggle alone but it is not the same. i always say to my bf that im in bed snuggling and he says WITH WHO? and i say alone and he laughs at me because you cant snuggle alone. SO U R WRONG!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by marcid21 no...this is what you said. Implying that you're none of the above.I'm not trying to fight with you, but I sincerely disagree with what you're saying...these people that are posting here...well, we're not a bunch of bumbling fools spreading love and hugs everywhere. Everyone is intitled to their opinions...but...i think you crossed a line throwing around lose insults.just my $0.02 ok man to put an end to thisi do apologize if i offended anyone, apparently i havethe people i was refering to are the type that if they are single, or dont have someone there at nite to "cuddle" with are depressed, etcif this does not describe uthen i wasnt referring to uthe end... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by somebitch no you can cuddle or snuggle alone but it is not the same. i always say to my bf that im in bed snuggling and he says WITH WHO? and i say alone and he laughs at me because you cant snuggle alone. SO U R WRONG!!! what???!!! we disagree! The planets must be out of alignment today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by nympho69 ok man to put an end to thisi do apologize if i offended anyone, apparently i havethe people i was refering to are the type that if they are single, or dont have someone there at nite to "cuddle" with are depressed, etcif this does not describe uthen i wasnt referring to uthe end... OK...how about one big group cuddle...i mean hug?......actually, i think the cp orgy is a better idea... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nympho69 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by phatman OK...how about one big group cuddle...i mean hug?......actually, i think the cp orgy is a better idea... :laugh: i <3 phatman... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 u guys wanna fuck?fuck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 I don't think there's really any difference, but if I had to make one up, I'd saySnuggling is pre-sexCuddling is post-sexSeriously tho, snuggling rocks... there are plenty of people I'd love to snuggle if it wasn't so strongly associated with sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by tastyt I Seriously tho, snuggling rocks... there are plenty of people I'd love to snuggle if it wasn't so strongly associated with sex. :bounce::hat2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 ...yeah...what he said.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Big squeezy hugs to both'a my boyz... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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