tastey Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 i wonder, is this ATTRACTIVE to you guys/women?i mean i´ll be honest, only reason i would sleep and have slept with a virgin girl is the "power thing". that you´d be her first. no one will probably make the same impact on her. women will ALWAYS remember you when you were their "first" (if it was good or not doesnt matter, better do it good though ).it´s just the lack of sexual experience, i dunno, i don´t find that too attractive. OTOH, it might be pretty fun to train a girl when she´s up for it and not stuck up... heh, if you do it right you could "design" your own little love slave(s)well... thats my male perspective on this... girls, do you find being a "virgin" attractive? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by tastey i wonder, is this ATTRACTIVE to you guys/women?i mean i´ll be honest, only reason i would sleep and have slept with a virgin girl is the "power thing". that you´d be her first. no one will probably make the same impact on her. women will ALWAYS remember you when you were their "first" (if it was good or not doesnt matter, better do it good though ).it´s just the lack of sexual experience, i dunno, i don´t find that too attractive. OTOH, it might be pretty fun to train a girl when she´s up for it and not stuck up... heh, if you do it right you could "design" your own little love slave(s)well... thats my male perspective on this... girls, do you find being a "virgin" attractive? See man, i hate to say this, but you seem to have made up your mind about a lot of views, without hearing other ones.1st of all, i know a handful of girls who choose to forget their "first one". It's not always a rosey picture. 2nd, Virgins aren't necessarily ignorant of how to be sexual3rd: you say virgins have a lack of sexual experience, but this is another naive point.The world is not so black n white, tastey-- there's lots of grey area too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nifer Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by gmccookny See man, i hate to say this, but you seem to have made up your mind about a lot of views, without hearing other ones.1st of all, i know a handful of girls who choose to forget their "first one". It's not always a rosey picture. 2nd, Virgins aren't necessarily ignorant of how to be sexual3rd: you say virgins have a lack of sexual experience, but this is another naive point.The world is not so black n white, tastey-- there's lots of grey area too took the words right outta my mouth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 not really related...but kinda...what is the reason that any girl would hold on to their virginty past the age of 18 or 19? unless you're living your life according to the words of some god, is it really that important? are there any non-virgins out there that wish they would have waited until marriage? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 not really related...but kinda...what is the reason that any girl would hold on to their virginty past the age of 18 or 19? unless you're living your life according to the words of some god, is it really that important? are there any non-virgins out there that wish they would have waited until marriage? lol. i know i would have lost mine to my ex who i hate with a passion if i hadnt lost it before hand with someone i dont hate with a passion. at least i didnt loose it to my ex i cant stand... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Kid, this was one of your most ignorant posts yet. Many people choose to remain a virgin specifically to avoid people just like you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 not really related...but kinda...what is the reason that any girl would hold on to their virginty past the age of 18 or 19? unless you're living your life according to the words of some god, is it really that important? are there any non-virgins out there that wish they would have waited until marriage? some people consider sexual activity to be very private and something they would rather share with someone they love. and lots of people don't find that sort of person to love and trust until they're into their 20s. *shrug* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies some people consider sexual activity to be very private and something they would rather share with someone they love. and lots of people don't find that sort of person to love and trust until they're into their 20s. *shrug* i feel ya, kat.especially when there's lots of people who just USE others, that is far from genuine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies some people consider sexual activity to be very private and something they would rather share with someone they love. and lots of people don't find that sort of person to love and trust until they're into their 20s. *shrug* thanks...in related news...a friend of a friend (we'll call her v) held on to her virginity through college waiting for love. a noble act, and i respect her for that, however, now that she's pushing 30 with her virginity intact, she is the most sexually frustrated person in the world, and cannot get any action...of course her grating personality is of no help, but she's had numerous men turn away the moment she mentions her virginity. she's a very sad and bitter person who regrets holding on to it like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies some people consider sexual activity to be very private and something they would rather share with someone they love. and lots of people don't find that sort of person to love and trust until they're into their 20s. *shrug* bravo. that's why i abstained unti I was 20. Nobody was worth it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 shouldnt people who are waiting be with other people who are waiting because if someone who is waiting is with someone who is not, the person who is not waiting is just waiting for the other person & that seems kinda unfair. if the people who were waiting were willing to give it up would the non-virgin turn them down because they know the other person is waiting or would they think the person was ready? also, wouldnt people who are waiting want to be with someone who has similar views about waiting?? this way they can (ideally) be eachothers first and only? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by somebitch shouldnt people who are waiting be with other people who are waiting because if someone who is waiting is with someone who is not, the person who is not waiting is just waiting for the other person & that seems kinda unfair. if the people who were waiting were willing to give it up would the non-virgin turn them down because they know the other person is waiting or would they think the person was ready? also, wouldnt people who are waiting want to be with someone who has similar views about waiting?? this way they can (ideally) be eachothers first and only? huh? lol...i just had a visual of you saying all of that with one gigantic breath. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 thanks...in related news...a friend of a friend (we'll call her v) held on to her virginity through college waiting for love. a noble act, and i respect her for that, however, now that she's pushing 30 with her virginity intact, she is the most sexually frustrated person in the world, and cannot get any action...of course her grating personality is of no help, but she's had numerous men turn away the moment she mentions her virginity. she's a very sad and bitter person who regrets holding on to it like that. i doubt all of that is to blame for holding on to her virginity. It could be that she's meeting the wrong guys, it could be that her personality simply turns people off, it could be that has issues that even you don;t know of...Virginity is not for everyone, and maybe she was not cut out for it. But to me, it seems that there are other underlying reasons for her frustration.-Psycho smurf :goofy: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 thanks...in related news...a friend of a friend (we'll call her v) held on to her virginity through college waiting for love. a noble act, and i respect her for that, however, now that she's pushing 30 with her virginity intact, she is the most sexually frustrated person in the world, and cannot get any action...of course her grating personality is of no help, but she's had numerous men turn away the moment she mentions her virginity. she's a very sad and bitter person who regrets holding on to it like that. the fact that people are turned off by their virginity reflects on THEM, not her. the fact that she has a grating personality DOES refect on her, and her inability to attract thoughtful and sensitive people-- perhaps those very people who would be less apt to fault her for her "idealism."those two facts, however, are unrelated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies the fact that people are turned off by their virginity reflects on THEM, not her. the fact that she has a grating personality DOES refect on her, and her inability to attract thoughtful and sensitive people-- perhaps those very people who would be less apt to fault her for her "idealism."those two facts, however, are unrelated. right . that's what psycho smurf tried to say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies the fact that people are turned off by their virginity reflects on THEM, not her. the fact that she has a grating personality DOES refect on her, and her inability to attract thoughtful and sensitive people-- perhaps those very people who would be less apt to fault her for her "idealism."those two facts, however, are unrelated. she does manage to attract some men with her personality, but turns them away with her virginity.her "idealism" is completely out the window at this point and has been for some time. she's no longer interested in keeping her virginty intact. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 huh? lol...i just had a visual of you saying all of that with one gigantic breath. i know it is badly worded... oh well, i am at work it is hard to try to write well when i have to try to type fast and be discreet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 she does manage to attract some men with her personality, but turns them away with her virginity.her "idealism" is completely out the window at this point and has been for some time. she's no longer interested in keeping her virginty intact. why dont u give her some? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 again, if a man is turned off by her virginity, that's HIS deal, not hers. it is too bad she has not met someone so far who she wants to be intimate with, as sex is a wonderful thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
psychosweetie Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by gmccookny 3rd: you say virgins have a lack of sexual experience, but this is another naive point. that is so true. i hate when people act all innocent b/c they havent had sex. i mean if you never had sex but you have given out more than your share of blow jobs, it still makes you a slut...therefore, you have sexual experience Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by somebitch why dont u give her some? ewwww...no...she's a miserable bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entheogen808 Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies again, if a man is turned off by her virginity, that's HIS deal, not hers. it is too bad she has not met someone so far who she wants to be intimate with, as sex is a wonderful thing. agreed, but unfortunately many guys are like that. myself included to some extent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotbarbiedoll Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by psychosweetie that is so true. i hate when people act all innocent b/c they havent had sex. i mean if you never had sex but you have given out more than your share of blow jobs, it still makes you a slut...therefore, you have sexual experience EXACTLY!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by entheogen808 agreed, but unfortunately many guys are like that. myself included to some extent. That's funny When i tell girls my deal, they seem to find me more attractive. Maybe girls ARE the smarter breed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Originally posted by wideskies some people consider sexual activity to be very private and something they would rather share with someone they love. and lots of people don't find that sort of person to love and trust until they're into their 20s. *shrug* Exactly:D I'm actually impressed by people that choose to hold out for so long for whatever reasonsidk maybe its just me:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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