georgym Posted April 13 Report Share Posted April 13 Personally , i can't stand when girls resort to this in ordder to get their point across. Im an upfront kind of guy, and believe in being open and sincere, even if that means someone's gonna get hurt.What do you all think?(and this is not directed at girls only... guys do this at times too..) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted April 13 Report Share Posted April 13 take the hint... its a lot better than what follows if you do not... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted April 13 Report Share Posted April 13 Depends on the person... I tend to be a very upfront girl that doesn't like to waste time BSing... But if the person doesn't know how to handle the blunt truth, little hints here and there are always good Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted April 13 Report Share Posted April 13 hints are the way to go man ...just make sure not to make them subtle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted April 13 Report Share Posted April 13 But some people just can't take a HINT !! (me) I like to say things straight up and I like forward guys too. I can't stand people who beat around the bush !! JUST SAY IT!!! SPIT IT OUT !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted April 13 Report Share Posted April 13 yeah if I even sense that a girl is playing games fuck it hint or no hint if she's gonna start playing games with you when nothing is really at stake imagine the shit she will pull when she feels she has something to protect Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 14 Author Report Share Posted April 14 Originally posted by fineones hints are the way to go man ...just make sure not to make them subtle Huh? But using hints equates being subtle. You're saying to use hints, but not be subtle. Does this make sense Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 14 Author Report Share Posted April 14 Originally posted by siceone yeah if I even sense that a girl is playing games fuck it hint or no hint if she's gonna start playing games with you when nothing is really at stake imagine the shit she will pull when she feels she has something to protect Well, i completely hear ya on that, man. It's one thing to use games when things are just getting started, but once a girl (or guy) gets to know you, and they use games forget it!And as far as hints go, i find it just as hurtful when someone drops hints like not returning calls, ignoring you, etc., to be just as hurtful as saying in person "look, this isnt going to work,,, yadda yadda.." But it's nice to see some of the replies of girls who believe in being upfront. GOOD 4 Ya Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted April 14 Report Share Posted April 14 But it's nice to see some of the replies of girls who believe in being upfront. GOOD 4 Ya I don't think either side of the sexes would disagree that starting off a relationship with hints and riddles is annoying and stressful. I know allot of people that do the same thing and they never have a relationship more than a month. Usually it is because they "found" something out about thier interest that didn't "make sense". This is a way of protecting themsleves from being too intertangled with new people. As it's said in the Godfather, "don't try to win starting on the 18th hole, start at the first." If you can't be straight (honest), than your not serious anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted April 14 Report Share Posted April 14 Originally posted by gmccookny Huh? But using hints equates being subtle. You're saying to use hints, but not be subtle. Does this make sense [/quotesome ppl beat around the bush to much ...its better to just make sure ur hints are going to be affective Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted April 14 Report Share Posted April 14 i dont take hints very well...so i would have to say no... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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