weyes Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 today there was some serious flirtation from a guy whose eyes were obviously flitting constantly from my eyes to my boobs, and some full-strength "not taking no for an answer" hitting-on from another guy. all i have to do is wear a spaghetti-strapped tank top that can't help but show cleavage - even though it's not a v-neck or low-cut, really - and suddenly men are interested in talking to me and asking for my number.do these guys think i don't see them looking at my tits? i understand that the first thing that draws people to others is physical attraction; that's natural and totally makes sense. it's not shallow to be attracted to someone else because s/he appeals to you for some reason or another; in many respects, you don't have control over who it is you're drawn to.but i see you looking at 'em, and that's just rude. if you must look, look when i'm far away, not when we're having a conversation and we're a few feet apart. [stare at my ass instead, or something ; sometimes i notice that and sometimes i don't, as my back is to you.] have a little respect. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm sure you realize that we do it subconciously, like we are looking for water or Jesus or something? We (or at least I) have great respect for women and I always notice when guys are checking out a women's breasts and talking to thier nipples instead of thier face. At first I thought, "holy shit Cove, you don't do that do you?" and then the next time I was face to face with a noticable pair, I felt myself staring like I was watching TV (boob tube). Feeling completely guilty I fained blindness and walked in front of a street car. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by covetoys we do it subconciously, like we are looking for water or Jesus or something? water and jesus??can you explain that to me? i don't think i understand... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by joeg water and jesus??can you explain that to me? i don't think i understand... i just thought of two of the things that people are usually looking for. I wasn't trying to make a jest comment against Jesus or his fucked up family or anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by covetoys i just thought of two of the things that people are usually looking for. I wasn't trying to make a jest comment against Jesus or his fucked up family or anything. LOL!!!! i get it now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by joeg LOL!!!! i get it now. although for an only child, Jesus was quite well adjusted. You have to give him that.Getting back to Weyes' boobs. I'm sure if someone was staring them down you have found ways of taking the attention away? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodiii Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by covetoys I'm sure you realize that we do it subconciously Im sorry weyes...its like instinct or something...especially if you can see a little nipple or cleavage...oh my god...its like they call to you...it takes enormous amounts of self control......not to look...and even when im not lookin...im thinkin "don't look, don't look, don't look":worry:"damn, i looked" :D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted June 3 Author Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by covetoys ...Getting back to Weyes' boobs. I'm sure if someone was staring them down you have found ways of taking the attention away? seriously, this was not racy, not even an interesting tank. i just threw this on 'cause it's easy and i didn't have to think about matching a shirt with my skirt. it's summer, it's hot, i don't need this happening all season .disregard gisele's "come hither" look and the fact that she's not wearing anything on her bottom half but undies, and this is all i was putting out there: i mean, really. no big whoop. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
covetoys Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by weyes seriously, this was not racy, not even an interesting tank. i just threw this on 'cause it's easy and i didn't have to think about matching a shirt with my skirt. it's summer, it's hot, i don't need this happening all season .disregard gisele's "come hither" look and the fact that she's not wearing anything on her bottom half but undies, and this is all i was putting out there: i mean, really. no big whoop. yes, but as bodiii has confirmed, it seems to be something that has been bred in us men, to stare uncontrollably and without justification if we see a hint of cleavage or a tight sweater or a bit of shoulder. There is no rhyme or reason, just staring. I feel stupid doing it, but than again, I don't feel stupid again until after I do it again.I suggest next time just taking your top off to let your veiwer get a good look and than see where you go from there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by covetoys although for an only child, Jesus was quite well adjusted. You have to give him that. And exactly wtf is wrong with only children??? Unfortunately or not, I cannot sympathize 100% with Weyes's problem... men just do not pay attention to breasts which are anything less than a C... However, I would just like to add...Don't think for a second that we can't feel your gaze burning a hole in our bottoms as we walk away... !!! :mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by bodiii it takes enormous amounts of self control......not to look...and even when im not lookin...im thinkin "don't look, don't look, don't look":worry:"damn, i looked" :D :laugh: so fucking true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I have the same problem when walking around in spandex pants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hunnie818 Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Wanna borrow my shirt? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodiii Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by tastyt men just do not pay attention to breasts which are anything less than a C... I give all boobies equal attention...fake, real, big, small,thats right baby...bodiii loves em all... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoocairs Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by covetoys although for an only child, Jesus was quite well adjusted. You have to give him that. Jesus was not an only child. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 im use to iti developed at an early age Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoocairs Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I have a bad habit of looking, at least briefly, at every pair I see. I love to look down the front of my wife's shirt, and she's a 32B.Guys get used to looking at women that way from looking at porn, to be honest. They come to think of women as objects to masturbate inside of. If you don't like guys looking, try covering up a little more - a lot of the women I see look like they dressed that way just to attract the attention. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoocairs Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I thought this little pic-toon was appropriate for the subject... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by tastyt And exactly wtf is wrong with only children??? Unfortunately or not, I cannot sympathize 100% with Weyes's problem... men just do not pay attention to breasts which are anything less than a C... However, I would just like to add...Don't think for a second that we can't feel your gaze burning a hole in our bottoms as we walk away... !!! :mad: yeah, but you're lucky because you can't see every guy checking out your fine ass behind you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by joeg yeah, but you're lucky because you can't see every guy checking out your fine ass behind you... But I know they're doing it! I can feel their beady little eyes staring, staring, STARING I tell you!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoocairs Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Read the text of the article: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoocairs Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 I'll bet she would get lots of attention no matter what she was wearing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 read the article?im a little preoccupied by gawking, sorry.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 Originally posted by tastyt But I know they're doing it! I can feel their beady little eyes staring, staring, STARING I tell you!!! hahaha.... wheres that smiley with a halo on it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoocairs Posted June 3 Report Share Posted June 3 This says it all: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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