guest00901 Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 So this guy I know I always flirt with him at work. He is so freakin hot I can't stand it. So the other day he offers to pick me up from the airport on saturday cause im coming back from texas so im like yes this guy is really into me. So Im talking bout how im really feelin him to another co-worker and hes like...."dude hes married with 2 kids"I almost died. This is the second time this has happened with a married guy. So now what should I do? He buys me lunch everyday, he sometimes gives me rides home, he flirts with me so much and he wants to pick me up from the airport on saturday. Should I approach him or just let it ride the way it is? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reeni Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 sure if u like being the other women go for it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 werd...keep it up...esp cause he's sooo hot....if you're lucky you can be the sparkplug to the divorce and a broken home for the kids.......i swear your the equivalent to a guy that thinks with just his penis....WAAAAAAAAAAKE THHHHHHE FUCKKKKKKKKK UP!...and use that thing right above your neck....for christ's sake...sheesh... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 i knew a girl, who only dated married men, no commitment and tons of gifts to quote her... then two of my ex-whores dated married men one with two kids one was 16!!! only 5yrs younger than her at the time... if i were you just know how these girls are i would stay away... theres too many men out there especially if youre just looking for hot ones... plus who wants that kind of karma hitting them in the face??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 it's so not worth it. can you really get involved with him without having any of your emotions involved? and even if you actually can, will your conscience hold up to the fact that you're ruining a marriage?would you want your eventual-husband to do that with some other girl?what goes around comes around.your call. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted June 10 Author Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by phatman werd...keep it up...esp cause he's sooo hot....if you're lucky you can be the sparkplug to the divorce and a broken home for the kids.......i swear your the equivalent to a guy that thinks with just his penis....WAAAAAAAAAAKE THHHHHHE FUCKKKKKKKKK UP!...and use that thing right above your neck....for christ's sake...sheesh... You fucking moron who said i was going to even bother doing anything with him. IF YOU READ I SAID THIS IS THE SECOND TIME!! Hence there was a first and nothing happend there:blown: Use your brain you toolanywayI soon as I found that out it pretty much turned me off, but heres the thing, Im not really cool with the fact that he flirts with me so much and hes married so I guess this is the question im asking. How I do I tell him nicely that I don't want him flirting with me any more? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Is he rich, get him to buy all kinds of stuff, clothes, jewlery, Mercedes SL500.If he's a dick enough to flirt with you behind his wife's back he deserves to get played out. Work that shit for all it's worth, then leave his ass high and dry.Teach him a lesson not to fuck around with little girls while he's got a wife and kids at home. I hate dickheads like that...................unless of course she's teabagging the mailman behind his back too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by sexxybabyd You fucking moron who said i was going to even bother doing anything with him. IF YOU READ I SAID THIS IS THE SECOND TIME!! Hence there was a first and nothing happend there:blown: Use your brain you toolanywayI soon as I found that out it pretty much turned me off, but heres the thing, Im not really cool with the fact that he flirts with me so much and hes married so I guess this is the question im asking. How I do I tell him nicely that I don't want him flirting with me any more? that's not something you can "say" really. it's gonna be your actions that do it for you. for instance, don't let him drive you home much anymore, don't let him buy you lunch, don't let him pick you up from the airport.be courteous and civil, but don't be flirtacious. stuff like that.btw, good call sweetie =) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 ...lol...i'm the moron?...your contemplation and requesting for input on this board is a clear reflection of moronic behavior...seriously D, maybe i'm being a bit harsh...but you SHOULD be smarter than this...it's real simple...either you confront him or you walk away or some sort of combination of both...considering this in the least is wrong...or perhaps like reeni said, you want to be the "other woman"...then i retract everything i've said and would pass you off as a common slut...not worth the text i have written...but i currently dont hold that belief... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rdancer Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by sexxybabyd So this guy I know I always flirt with him at work. He is so freakin hot I can't stand it. Stop flirting with him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by sexxybabyd I almost died. This is the second time this has happened with a married guy. So now what should I do? He buys me lunch everyday, he sometimes gives me rides home, he flirts with me so much and he wants to pick me up from the airport on saturday. Should I approach him or just let it ride the way it is? Obviously this guy is a real dick .....Getting yourself further involved w/ this situation won't be beneficial to you in any way so just distance yourself from him...Next time he offers to buy you lunch say no thanks etc....If you 2 just flirted back & forth that's no big deal....But just stay away now before you get yourself more involved/interested Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 get me a benzo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shroomy Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Sheesh, you guys act like flirting is fucking, and every person you are interested in just has to have lifetime potential. And then post how you just want a casual fuck from pornstar X or actor Y.OK.. here is the married man's view, so maybe it will help you out.Yes, I am married.Yes, very happily.Yes, I flirt like a $5 whore but it is def not the same sort of thing that goes on when you want to hook up. You are more looking for that fun feeling that you get when you know someone is interested in you. I mean, come on, who hasn't flirted while in a relationship. It doesn't necessarily mean you want anything more. Sometimes you just love that feeling of being desired, and if it is with someone you desire back, it is like a special secret... what could have been..... it doesn’t mean you want to throw them down and fuck them till they walk funny for a week.Guys are vain, almost as much as women we love the confirmation that we get when a girl is interested in us. Girls, its kind of like when a guy you would never hook up with gives you a compliment, it still makes you smile.That said.... maybe he just wants a fuck on the side never can tell. btw guys are much more capable of keeping love and sex separate. I know a few guys (and girls) who fuck around like it is the moral equivalent of going to a movie. Then they go home and are good loving husbands.... believe it or not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted June 10 Author Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by sweetie029 Obviously this guy is a real dick .....Getting yourself further involved w/ this situation won't be beneficial to you in any way so just distance yourself from him...Next time he offers to buy you lunch say no thanks etc....If you 2 just flirted back & forth that's no big deal....But just stay away now before you get yourself more involved/interested But reguardless he is still gonna flirt hardcore with me. I want to let him know I know hes got a wife & kids and that what he is doing is fucked up. But im not sure if its my place or not to confront him in that way. Of course im going to stop accepting things from him and he's gonna know I know something is up. I dunno I guess I will find out tomorrow when I go back to work:blank: btw sweetie I like the quote in ur sig...fits the phatman really well:laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 awwww...how cute...youre trying to insult me...lol...good luck tomorrow...remember that silence for some is a sign that it's ok...and what he's doing is not...so step up and say something or it will only get worse...it's YOU he's flirting with..it's YOU that's uncomfortable...that makes it YOUR place to tell him...take care... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 yo...wtf...stop fighting....get me a benzo? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted June 10 Author Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by ghhhhhost yo...wtf...stop fighting....get me a benzo? I'll get you a benzo but whats in it for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 get me a bimmer, and ill hook you up with loads and loads of attractive wealthy men in their mid twenties... fair??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
guest00901 Posted June 10 Author Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by dgmodel get me a bimmer, and ill hook you up with loads and loads of attractive wealthy men in their mid twenties... fair??? :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 so i take that as a yes??? e46 m3 in titanium silver/black int. (or red/beige int if silver is not available) smg transmission... and 19" rim package... thats all ill be a very happy man, and youll be a very wealthy woman, who gets more ass than a toilet seat... lets do it~! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by sexxybabyd I'll get you a benzo but whats in it for me ill be ur chauffer/love bunny...and if u want i got mad rich clients..im talkin multi millionaires..unfortunately theyre all older men..but come on now..u dont want no snot nosed 20 yr old when u can have a 65 yr old! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by shroomy Sheesh, you guys act like flirting is fucking, and every person you are interested in just has to have lifetime potential. And then post how you just want a casual fuck from pornstar X or actor Y.OK.. here is the married man's view, so maybe it will help you out.Yes, I am married.Yes, very happily.Yes, I flirt like a $5 whore but it is def not the same sort of thing that goes on when you want to hook up. You are more looking for that fun feeling that you get when you know someone is interested in you. I mean, come on, who hasn't flirted while in a relationship. It doesn't necessarily mean you want anything more. Sometimes you just love that feeling of being desired, and if it is with someone you desire back, it is like a special secret... what could have been..... it doesn’t mean you want to throw them down and fuck them till they walk funny for a week.Guys are vain, almost as much as women we love the confirmation that we get when a girl is interested in us. Girls, its kind of like when a guy you would never hook up with gives you a compliment, it still makes you smile.That said.... maybe he just wants a fuck on the side never can tell. btw guys are much more capable of keeping love and sex separate. I know a few guys (and girls) who fuck around like it is the moral equivalent of going to a movie. Then they go home and are good loving husbands.... believe it or not. I agree. I mean yeah I'm sure we all wish our sig.o's could just forget about every other member of the opposite sex once we meet them- lol- but that's pretty ridiculous. But- this guy is taking it one step further- buying her things, offering her rides (esp. to the airport. The AIRPORT for christ's sake... C'mon now!). We all know there's no such thing as a free ride. That definitely does not sound like harmless flirting to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest jroo Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by sexxybabyd So this guy I know I always flirt with him at work. He is so freakin hot I can't stand it. So the other day he offers to pick me up from the airport on saturday cause im coming back from texas so im like yes this guy is really into me. So Im talking bout how im really feelin him to another co-worker and hes like...."dude hes married with 2 kids"I almost died. This is the second time this has happened with a married guy. So now what should I do? He buys me lunch everyday, he sometimes gives me rides home, he flirts with me so much and he wants to pick me up from the airport on saturday. Should I approach him or just let it ride the way it is? home wrecker. hahahha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 Originally posted by ghhhhhost ill be ur chauffer/love bunny...and if u want i got mad rich clients..im talkin multi millionaires..unfortunately theyre all older men..but come on now..u dont want no snot nosed 20 yr old when u can have a 65 yr old! oh sookie let the bidding wars begin... i have tons of rich old fogeys in the bond department... youre into old balls, you got em... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghhhhhost Posted June 10 Report Share Posted June 10 u got those risk averse old fogeys...my clients day trade and short sell like there's no tomorrow...and hardly lose (makes me sad) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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