georgym Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 It's not every girl, but some of them have this thing where they stare forward, not looking at all on the side of them.For instance, i saw this one girl this morning, and she was looking nice. I wanted to get her attention, but she had her Jacky-O dark sunglasses on and just kept jetting forward. they remind me of little bunny rabbits trying to escape wolves Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizard23 Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Not that you are guilty of this by any means, but if I see a group of guys (or even 1 creepy one) starting to stare at me, I try not to look at them. I stare straight ahead and walk with my head high. I don't think men will ever understand how uncomfortable a woman can get when they are being leered at and ogled. It's nice to know that you're found attractive, but so many men are not aware that slobbering over a female is repulsive and demeaning. I know that that's not really what you were talking about, but I've trained myself to always look straight ahead when I'm by myself. Creep! Just kidding! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 9 Author Report Share Posted July 9 No, im not the leering type.But if i see an attractive girl, i feel that looking and acknowledging her beauty would get her to look my direction. Who knows? maybe she's got a man and doesn't look...maybe she's shy. But it's funny how some girls are just so ----------------- without the ~~~~~~~~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by lizard23 if I see a group of guys (or even 1 creepy one) starting to stare at me, I try not to look at them. Creep! Just kidding! :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizard23 Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by gmccookny But it's funny how some girls are just so ----------------- without the ~~~~~~~~~ Pardon? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 9 Author Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by lizard23 Pardon? sorry, i now that was hard to follow this is what i meant:------------------- = straight, non-peripheral. ~~~~~~~~~ = open, acknowledging.i can understand if some weirdo dude is oogling, then a girl won't pay attention. But i notice certain girls just do this even if they're just walking Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizard23 Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Got it. I don't know what to tell you. Like I said before (even though it's not fair) some women have just conditioned themselves to be like this for various reasons - b/c they aren't single, b/c they're looking out for their safety, etc. I know it's hard to understand, but there are a lot of scary people out there and if it means acting like a total bitch to someone to protect myself, I'd rather do that than risk being harmed (remember my thread about the guy who tried to introduce himself to me by sneaking up behind me in a parking garage?) I may be taking this topic a little far/off course though, so who knows?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 9 Author Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by lizard23 Got it. I don't know what to tell you. Like I said before (even though it's not fair) some women have just conditioned themselves to be like this for various reasons - b/c they aren't single, b/c they're looking out for their safety, etc. I know it's hard to understand, but there are a lot of scary people out there and if it means acting like a total bitch to someone to protect myself, I'd rather do that than risk being harmed (remember my thread about the guy who tried to introduce himself to me by sneaking up behind me in a parking garage?) I may be taking this topic a little far/off course though, so who knows?! oh no. i can somewhat understand that all. I mean, im not a chick, but i could see how acting like that just to protect yourself from freaky guys would work.It just sucks, cuz in doing that, you miss some opportunities with us nice gents Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizard23 Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 I know, that's why when I first replied, I made it clear that I didn't think that you were a creepy guy at all. I was just trying to guess at and explain why some girls act like this towards strangers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 i hate getting stared at....it's the rudest thing anyone can do. if you want to get someone's attention, try "hello" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by gmccookny It's not every girl, but some of them have this thing where they stare forward, not looking at all on the side of them.For instance, i saw this one girl this morning, and she was looking nice. I wanted to get her attention, but she had her Jacky-O dark sunglasses on and just kept jetting forward. they remind me of little bunny rabbits trying to escape wolves We see it all babe, we just choose to ignore the guys who are being rude or are unattractive.. but we see EVERYTHING.. Dont let the glasses fool you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladyshady Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by naughtybabe We see it all babe, we just choose to ignore the guys who are being rude or are unattractive.. but we see EVERYTHING.. Dont let the glasses fool you she's very rightthe girl is good.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 9 Report Share Posted July 9 Originally posted by ladyshady she's very rightthe girl is good.. Well you must be good too... since you know the deal.. Girls can be such bitches... hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sxeyecandi Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by lizard23 Got it. I don't know what to tell you. Like I said before (even though it's not fair) some women have just conditioned themselves to be like this for various reasons - b/c they aren't single, b/c they're looking out for their safety, etc. I know it's hard to understand, but there are a lot of scary people out there and if it means acting like a total bitch to someone to protect myself, I'd rather do that than risk being harmed (remember my thread about the guy who tried to introduce himself to me by sneaking up behind me in a parking garage?) I may be taking this topic a little far/off course though, so who knows?! I definitely use this as a safety thing too. Its part of "the walk" many women do, especially in the city to protect themselves from anyone, including all the leering men. I have truly come to the conclusion that guys really dont understand how much you have to protect yourself or how often we get harassed just walking where we need to go. so please dont think we are bitches for ignoring those eyes.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by sxeyecandi I definitely use this as a safety thing too. Its part of "the walk" many women do, especially in the city to protect themselves from anyone, including all the leering men. I have truly come to the conclusion that guys really dont understand how much you have to protect yourself or how often we get harassed just walking where we need to go. so please dont think we are bitches for ignoring those eyes.... Yes, exactly! And I just got reamed for saying the same thing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by ladyshady she's very rightthe girl is good.. yup... girls tend to purposely lose all peripheral vision when coming in contact with an undesirable stimulus Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 i hate the staring, gestures, catcalling... but after a while, gmc, all of it is as bad as the rest of it.the first thing i did to try to escape it was buy a discman, the second was to move out of new york !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 10 Author Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by weyes i hate the staring, gestures, catcalling... but after a while, gmc, all of it is as bad as the rest of it.the first thing i did to try to escape it was buy a discman, the second was to move out of new york !!! See, i hate it that these dirty guys gotta oogle and force you gals to behave that way.I will say, though, that if i see a girl that i find attractive, naturally i will try to get her to look my way by looking at her. Not just her body, but her eyes and her strut too .But, when a girl is completely oblivious to ANYONE around her, i find that quite bitchy and choosy. Why treat everyone around you like a sleeze when there are nice genuine guys who may be a little shy, and are only trying to acknowledge your beauty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by gmccookny See, i hate it that these dirty guys gotta oogle and force you gals to behave that way.I will say, though, that if i see a girl that i find attractive, naturally i will try to get her to look my way by looking at her. Not just her body, but her eyes and her strut too .But, when a girl is completely oblivious to ANYONE around her, i find that quite bitchy and choosy. Why treat everyone around you like a sleeze when there are nice genuine guys who may be a little shy, and are only trying to acknowledge your beauty In total agreement Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by gmccookny But, when a girl is completely oblivious to ANYONE around her, i find that quite bitchy and choosy. Why treat everyone around you like a sleeze when there are nice genuine guys who may be a little shy, and are only trying to acknowledge your beauty Errrr... not all of us are single... some of us have boyfriends and try to discourage attention from random guys. And anyway, how are we supposed to tell the nice guys from the sleaze??? The devil hath the power t'assume a pleasing form. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lizard23 Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by tastyt Errrr... not all of us are single... some of us have boyfriends and try to discourage attention from random guys. And anyway, how are we supposed to tell the nice guys from the sleaze??? The devil hath the power t'assume a pleasing form. Exactly - Ted Bundy lured most of his victims by pretending to have a broken arm and needing help with something. He seemed like a nice, charming guy at the time, but not after he bashed your head in with a baseball bat. I wish guys would learn to understand why women have the right to be scared of them. There was an episode of Six Feet Under a few months ago where a girl got hit by a car running away from a group of guys that were chasing her. It turns out that they were her friends and thought it would be funny to play a joke on her and even after she died, they still didn't get why she was so terrified that 4 men were chasing her down the street at night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by lizard23 Exactly - Ted Bundy lured most of his victims by pretending to have a broken arm and needing help with something. He seemed like a nice, charming guy at the time, but not after he bashed your head in with a baseball bat. GOOD EXAMPLE. See guys- we're not making this stuff up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 10 Author Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by tastyt GOOD EXAMPLE. See guys- we're not making this stuff up. Ohhh please. Now you're relying on television and serial killers to determine your behavior patterns on the general population Look, all im saying is that we're not all Ted Bundy some of us actually want to talk and hang out. And even if you have a man/husband, that doesn't warrant a need to be bitchy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by gmccookny Ohhh please. Now you're relying on television and serial killers to determine your behavior patterns on the general population Look, all im saying is that we're not all Ted Bundy some of us actually want to talk and hang out. And even if you have a man/husband, that doesn't warrant a need to be bitchy Honestly... if a random guy wants to talk to a woman... *why* does he want to talk to her... 99 times out of 100, it's because he wants to chat her up... Now, in a city like NY, try to imagine how many times a day a woman encounters a situation like this. And I don't see how simply not looking at someone is construed as being bitchy? I didn't realize that we were obliged to look at every single person we encounter on the streets. And if you think that we're blowing things out of proportion by thinking about the safety issue as well... you're sorely mistaken.Anyway, this is a recurring topic, and apparently there's no amount of explaining that can make it clear what we go through when we want to do something as simple as walk down the street, or even just order a stinkin' sandwhich without getting ogled. If you like you can blame the assholes who can't keep their mouths shut and verbally harrass us, but it doesn't change the facts. It doesn't mean we don't think our shit stinks, because it happens to damn near ALL women, not just the beautiful ones. If y'all can't deal with it, oh well. I've never dated someone I met off the street and my love life is fantastic, so apparently it never hurt me none. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgeacasta2 Posted July 10 Report Share Posted July 10 Originally posted by gmccookny Look, all im saying is that we're not all Ted Bundy just tell the girl your attracted to her and you want to cut her into pieces. Honesty is always the best approach Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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