dgmodel Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 let's say hypothetically speaking, you and your ex share mutual friends... and occasionally through certain events and what have you, you two bump into each other... nothing great nothing poor just a "hello," sometimes a "how's things?" but never more than that... now lets say at one of these events you bump into him/her, and you’re with another person who you are or would like to get intimate with or dating or etc... And again a simple "hello" and that’s it... then you find out through the grapevine that s/he will not attend anymore events or get tog ethers because seeing you with another person is "too overwhelming..." WTF does that mean??? now lets say your ex, is the person who ended, lets say your ex has been seeing a myriad of other ppl after you, and lets say s/he's seen you in the past with others... why now is it "overwhelming???" and what is it that is "overwhelming???" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Damn I told you not to bring me around your EX.. WTF - I dont want beef.. All jokes aside its obvious that you and her still have some kind of feeling for eachother... because if the feelings where gone you would not stress anything she says and she would not stress who you bring... etc etc.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 She probably meant - seeing you with another person - stirs up so much emotions like jealousy, anger, sadness and weirdness and she can't handle it becuz she feels like she's gonna throw up and crap in her pants. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 what ? I'm serious . why you laughing ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by lollie60 crap in her pants. thats why... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djreesa Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 there are still ex-es that i wish i had said what i really felt, i personally wouldnt be overwhelmed, but feel pressured if i saw them with someone new to say what i really wanted to say Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 (well scoooo-beeee-doo lookey here its sleeping beauty...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djreesa Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 wheres my good morning kiss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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naughtybabe Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Ehh relationships suck...they're only good at first and then its all down hill.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 quite the opposite... theyre bad at first and only get better... until the break up... the reason why i say theyre bad at first is because its in its exploratory state where youre just finding out what one another likes, and what one another needs etc... but after you find out what those things are and can offer them to each other its bliss... and now how can that be bad??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Blah... I rather just not say anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 why? speak your mind... its your opinion how can it be wrong??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 I already stated my opinion.... Maybe Im just one of the few people who have bad luck and always pick the wrong guys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 lets hope not Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 I still have my fingers crossed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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solbeam Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by naughtybabe Ehh relationships suck...they're only good at first and then its all down hill.. Don't be so negative!! I only see good things in your future.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 sometimes seeing an ex with a new lover is disturbing because you do actually still have feelings for the person.sometimes it's annoying not because you actually want to be with the person again, but because you're a selfish and like to control people...and seeing an old lover with someone else screams "you lost control!" i actually think that a touch of self-centeredness is often the real issue. people don't like seeing their "old property" happy with someone else. *shrugs* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by wideskies sometimes seeing an ex with a new lover is disturbing because you do actually still have feelings for the person.sometimes it's annoying not because you actually want to be with the person again, but because you're a selfish and like to control people...and seeing an old lover with someone else screams "you lost control!" i actually think that a touch of self-centeredness is often the real issue. people don't like seeing their "old property" happy with someone else. *shrugs* listen to this girl .next to papa smurf, she's a real smart nookie.... i mean cookie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by gmccookny listen to this girl .next to papa smurf, she's a real smart nookie.... i mean cookie it may be obvious, but i also find that it's much easier to evaluate situations rationally when you're happy with yourself and have sorted out your own issues. it's hard to figure out someone else when you're still working on yourself! :> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted July 13 Author Report Share Posted July 13 Originally posted by wideskies sometimes seeing an ex with a new lover is disturbing because you do actually still have feelings for the person.sometimes it's annoying not because you actually want to be with the person again, but because you're a selfish and like to control people...and seeing an old lover with someone else screams "you lost control!" i actually think that a touch of self-centeredness is often the real issue. people don't like seeing their "old property" happy with someone else. *shrugs* very good point... thank you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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