marcid21 Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 How easy is it for you to communicate your feelings and needs to your sig. other?Do you feel as tho they should somewhat know what you want/need/expect . . . or is that gender barrier (( along with their skulls )) just a bit too thick for that sort of simple logic?Me's havin' some problems here...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 I always ask questions... make suggestions.. dont give directions..like start the sentence like "you know what would feel sooooooo good?""i bet you cant guess what i'd like you to do""you know what naughty thing i was imagining you to doing?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Well... there are certain things that seem like they would be so painfully obvious, but clearly, they are not...I'll admit, I'm not the best at communicating things of this nature... either saying them at all, or saying them the *right* way (ie, not being bitchy about it)... but I'm working on it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by tastyt Well... there are certain things that seem like they would be so painfully obvious, but clearly, they are not... i have to agree.. sometimes if you are not looking for it, you dont see it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by tastyt Well... there are certain things that seem like they would be so painfully obvious, but clearly, they are not...I'll admit, I'm not the best at communicating things of this nature... either saying them at all, or saying them the *right* way (ie, not being bitchy about it)... but I'm working on it... what kind of things? miscommunication usually comes from expecting my sig. other to understand how i'm feeling about something... when there's really no reason why he SHOULD. sometimes, instead of understanding that he's not in my mind and doesn't see things my way at all times, i just get upset that he can't ... and getting upset never solves anything.in any event, i've never pinned problems with communication on gender or lack of intelligence. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by wideskies what kind of things? I can't think of an example at this moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted July 25 Author Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by wideskies in any event, i've never pinned problems with communication on gender or lack of intelligence. your 100% right...it's my lack of *something* not theirs.....just venting.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by marcid21 your 100% right...it's my lack of *something* not theirs.....just venting.... one human is complex enough as it is. add another, and things can seem downright impossible at times. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 i usually tell people (not only my significan other) exactly what i want, need, and expect. pretty clear, no bullshit.whats so hard about this? maybe i don´t understand the question, can you give an example? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 just rememebr this at all time...~Women are Physically COMPLEX, and MENTALLY simple~~Men are MENTALLY COMPLEX, and Physically simple~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by LikmyLipz just rememebr this at all time...~Women are Physically COMPLEX, and MENTALLY simple~~Men are MENTALLY COMPLEX, and Physically simple~ look who bought into what men told her all her life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by LikmyLipz ~Women are MENTALLY simple~ I have NEVER heard that one before. Nor do I agree with it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by tastey look who bought into what men told her all her life men didnt tell me anything...its conclusion...u look at a mans crotch and he gets hard.....you try to get to know a guy better and he gets deffensive and puts up walls, women try to make themselves more mentally complex sounding, and only cause problems..go stare at a womans crotch.. see where it gets you.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 wow Lik, that's a really lame explanation of the genders. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Originally posted by wideskies wow Lik, that's a really lame explanation of the genders. well i could write a book, but i dont have the space...and i think you are all taking what i said the wrong way....say a guy and a girl like eachother.... they are dating pretty exclusive for 2 monthes..the guy asks the girl 'where do you think this is going or see this going'a woman can usually come up with an answer.. USUALLYthe girl asks the guy the same question i think it stirs up a bit more emotion..shes moving to fast, am i ready for this, what about boys night out?, the waitress looks really hot in those tight pants, i wonder if this date is dutch.and i dont think anyone will argue about me saying a womans body is physically complex...but this is my opinion, no one has to agree.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted July 25 Report Share Posted July 25 Yeah, I definitely still disagree. But not about the part about a woman being physically complex, that's for damn sure. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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