sassa Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 ok, so this girl is getting married that i know, she comes from an ultra religious jewish family and is scared to death of the wedding night. haha. so being that i speak hebrew, and they don't speak english that well, i was asked to talk to her about it. but i have no idea what to tell her. what advice would you give to a virgin girl about to get it on for the 1st time? also, are there any positions that make it easier? do girls always bleed the first time? what can she do to relax? what can her husband do? any advice is appreciated. i need to talk to her tonight. :eek: thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mala Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Doesn't every girl lay in the missionary when they get their flower taken? I think this is probably the most romatic way for newlyweds, and the least scary for a virgin. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 tell her that she and her husband should have lots of foreplay, take it slow, and communicate about how their bodies feel.what made it uncomfortable the first few times i had intercourse was that i was overeager in the sense that i didn't allow myself adequate time to become aroused. the vaginal muscles will stretch when a woman becomes aroused, but not INSTANTLY. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Tell her the pain only lasts for really a split secondAfter that she'll only feel a little sorenessI think the best position for her to be deflowered is missionaryHer husband should know what to do though, right?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 It sounds as if she really hasn't received any, if only very cursory information, about sex. Maybe she doesn't even know her own anatomy very well, let alone what to expect from her husband-to-be. Maybe you could give her some pointers on the general hot spots? A lot of foreplay would definitely help, but she may not even know where to begin with that... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Tell her....................bruises healguys dig scarspain is temporary& glory is forever Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by ou812 Tell her....................bruises healguys dig scarspain is temporary& glory is forever The Replacements...? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted August 20 Author Report Share Posted August 20 i doubt her future man will know anything either, he's a kid himself, also probably a virgin.ok, so missionary, lots of foreplay, what else.....slow or fast? be technical and specific please....also, i'd like to know in case i have to tell other poor young girls in the future Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by i3itch The Replacements...? I loved the kicker Nigel.................Ole............ole, ole, ole!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by ou812 I loved the kicker Nigel.................Ole............ole, ole, ole!!!! :laugh: *Breaks out into the electric slide* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wideskies Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 slow, not fast!even if she's really aroused, her vaginal muscles won't be used to such a large object. he needs to ease into her, allowing her to relax and become used to the feeling of having him inside her.if he starts with his fingers and tongue, it'll be much easier. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest brwneydtrouble Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by i3itch :laugh: *Breaks out into the electric slide* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlr8ted Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Lots of foreplay, and make sure her husband jackhammers her... Try doggie to de-flower.. Maybe have her sleep w/ 5 blackguys first, then her husband won't hurt as bad? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted August 20 Report Share Posted August 20 Originally posted by brwneydtrouble SorryI have a short attention span... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
weyes Posted August 21 Report Share Posted August 21 don't know if it's too late, sassa, but it's not 1:00 a.m. yet, and i figure i'll throw in what i can in case it could help .my first position of entry (though i did a bunch of positions on my first night) was on top, and i think that was good 'cause i was in control. having him put himself inside me at his strength and speed would've made me more tense at the very least, and he probably would've gone after me faster and harder than i ended up choosing .but i didn't bleed on my first time. i actually once asked my gynecologist before then if my hymen had been broken, and she told me it had, so i didn't worry about that ever again.as has been said above, slow is the speed to go.and one important thing to remember is not to have extremely high expectations!!! the first time, for almost everyone i know, sucked. and even if it wasn't that bad, both parties didn't come - especially the female.hope i wasn't too late and that all goes well . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted August 21 Author Report Share Posted August 21 thanks weyes too no, i can always throw that in too. she now knows a bit, poor girl doesn't even know what her vagina is supposed to look like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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