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I met perfect woman tonight, need help

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I'll admit to doing a little internet dating, I'm jewish so I'm on JDate like all other jews. . . I'm 6'7, always looking for a taller woman, so a few months back, got a tease from someone from philly, 3 years older than me, 5'11, an MD, etc. . .interesting, write back nothing. . .a month later she writes me, i write her back, nothing. . . i say ok, she doesnt want to talk to me, fuckit. . . 2 weeks ago she emails me saying comptuer finally back, i still want to get to know you. I IM her, no reply, i try it 5 times, then email her back. . . tonight, she IM's me.

We talked from 10:30 till 3:10. I've never had a conversation that long of any sort ever in my life. Every question, almost every random reference, she got. She was a regular at my club in DC (Nation/Buzz) that I loved so much, loves same type of music, was listening to Joy Division while I was listening to New Order (leader of joy division died, everyone else went to new order), anything I could think of we were a great match, both ivy-league caliber schools, so many things. . . I got her number of course now, said I'd call her tomorrow night. I feel like after all this time, it's been wasted, she said the same, but I'm worried I'll rush it. If you can tell chemistry through IM, it was there. . . should be no problem through phone. Question is, when do I set up first date? She has a fulltime job as psychiatrist in philly, i'm hour 20 away on jersey shore. Would this weekend be too soon? I'm going to a concert on saturday with friends, have plans friday night already, so would appropriate first date be sunday (can do museums in philly, then dinner etc)? OR should I try for midweek next week . . . . cant do weekend after, have unmovable plans. . .

I don't want to rush it, I don't want to fuck this one up, if you can be in love after an IM chat, I am. . . (yes I know not to say that). Someone please tell me when I should ask her out for . . . legit advice here. There's a reason I can't sleep and it's almost 4:30 . . . brain racing a mile a minute here.

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why don't you ask her when she would feel good about seeing you, and take it from there. if you guys had such a good vibe, then why should there some sort of mandatory time period you have to ask her or wait.... just go with your heart, and good luck! :)

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Originally posted by sassa

why don't you ask her when she would feel good about seeing you, and take it from there. if you guys had such a good vibe, then why should there some sort of mandatory time period you have to ask her or wait.... just go with your heart, and good luck! :)

good advice here...but since you only had this one long convo maybe you should have another then ask her about when you 2 could meet

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Originally posted by fkornre

good advice here...but since you only had this one long convo maybe you should have another then ask her about when you 2 could meet

good one :aright: better to chat a few times before you meet up....

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Originally posted by sassa

why don't you ask her when she would feel good about seeing you, and take it from there. if you guys had such a good vibe, then why should there some sort of mandatory time period you have to ask her or wait.... just go with your heart, and good luck! :)

This is good advice, remember you met on the internet. You dont want to take it too fast, you might scare her away

see when is best for her

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What everyone else said. Play it cool and learn more (and share more with her). No need to rush it, especially with it being over the internet. You need to be certain that "she" isn't really a 50 year old disgraced priest, sitting in his Aquaman Underoos and Dr. Seuss top hat, stroking his member to a Kids R Us catalog while having an IM chat with you.

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Originally posted by cdeep

What everyone else said. Play it cool and learn more (and share more with her). No need to rush it, especially with it being over the internet. You need to be certain that "she" isn't really a 50 year old disgraced priest, sitting in his Aquaman Underoos and Dr. Seuss top hat, stroking his member to a Kids R Us catalog while having an IM chat with you.

:laugh: holy shit !! I almost fell off my chair :laugh: :laugh:

But then again bigsteve... think about it...how many times did you IM her or whateva and she didnt reply.... I think you might end up gettin played.. it happens all the time. I'm surprised after her ignoring you all those times you still kept trying ... dont get me wrong,..but I think you might have come off a lil desperate.. even if she meets you, she will try to hold the upper hand and control the scene. My take.... forget her and move on :)

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dude, first of all... GET PICTURES!

then ask if the pictures ARE RECENT!

i´m not kidding you, connection or no connection, i bet you´ll think different about her when you should find out on the first meeting that she´s a 200 pound PIG.

another point. take it IRL as soon as possible. i would have never chatted so long with her. if i had such a good connection with a girl i´d said after an hour MAX something like "let´s meet at coffee shop XYZ right now and continue the chat!".

meet her IRL as soon as possible, and THEN you´ll see if she´s really someone for you. also, you´ll only be able to really manifest this bond if you meet up IRL and then hit it off equally well as over the net.

don´t think about taking it too slow or too fast. meet up and then go for what feels NATURAL. don´t say to yourself "it would feel natural to go home with her but i want to take it slow so i won´t do it". go with the flow...

cheers :)

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I called her a few minutes back, left voicemail . . . I really want to meet her in person,hoping to do something on sunday in philly. I know she's not going to be a small person, she said she has, get this, 36F's . . . natural. . . and she says she has a large butt. . . i'm almost positive i know who she is from the club in DC, that was 2-3 years back though . . . said no pics on this computer. When I talk to her on the phone, pretty much gonna just go for the date, keep it short and clean, hook that up. . . now just waiting for her to call back.

And about keep trying. . . it was like once a month, following her messaging me. . . trying once a month to me is not that much.

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Originally posted by tastey

dude, first of all... GET PICTURES!

then ask if the pictures ARE RECENT!

i´m not kidding you, connection or no connection, i bet you´ll think different about her when you should find out on the first meeting that she´s a 200 pound PIG.

i cant tell u how many times i have seen pics of girls and then asked if they were recent and they said "YES"...then we meet and its total BS....they are the 200lbs pig u referred to above...lol...

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If a girl has natural size F's & admits to a "large butt" AND has no pics to show you, then you are in trouble.

Why dont you Just ask her how much she wieghs?

I am not an advocate of internet dating, but if i was, a pic would def me a necessity.

thanks for your info,

tommy

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Originally posted by tommyarmani

If a girl has natural size F's & admits to a "large butt" AND has no pics to show you, then you are in trouble.

Why dont you Just ask her how much she wieghs?

Talked to her last night. . . she said she weighs 160 . . . i think that makes sense for 5'11 with huge rack and big butt. . . right?

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Originally posted by bigsteve8

Talked to her last night. . . she said she weighs 160 . . . i think that makes sense for 5'11 with huge rack and big butt. . . right?

160 at 5'11 with F's is not fat at all. Remember, when anna nicole smith was in her prime, she was like 165.

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Well, I have a date on Sunday in Philly, I'll get to see for real.

And internet dating does make some sense for me. . . I'm looking for a tall, jewish woman who is my intellectual equal (johns hopkins graduate) . . . as a start. I'm not going to run into someone like that at D'jais, or anywhere on the shore. . . and havent had much luck in hoboken or the city.

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Originally posted by bigsteve8

Well, I have a date on Sunday in Philly, I'll get to see for real.

And internet dating does make some sense for me. . . I'm looking for a tall, jewish woman who is my intellectual equal (johns hopkins graduate) . . . as a start. I'm not going to run into someone like that at D'jais, or anywhere on the shore. . . and havent had much luck in hoboken or the city.

how is that jdate.com u use...i am also jewish and since u brought it up i have considered it...btw.good luck on ur date...

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this is what an AIM convo should like btw

bloodninja: Ok baby, we got to hurry, I don't know how long I can keep it ready for you.

j_gurli3: thats ok. ok i'm a japanese schoolgirl, what r u.

bloodninja: A Rhinocerus. Well, hung like one, thats for sure.

j_gurli3: haha, ok lets go.

j_gurli3: i put my hand through ur hair, and kiss u on the neck.

bloodninja: I stomp the ground, and snort, to alert you that you are in my breeding territory.

j_gurli3: haha, ok, u know that turns me on.

j_gurli3: i start unbuttoning ur shirt.

bloodninja: Rhinoceruses don't wear shirts.

j_gurli3: No, ur not really a Rhinocerus silly, it's just part of the game.

bloodninja: Rhinoceruses don't play games. They fucking charge your ass!!

j_gurli3: stop, cmon be serious.

bloodninja: It doesn't get any more serious than a Rhinocerus about to charge your ass.

bloodninja: I stomp my feet, the dust stirs around my tough skinned feet.

j_gurli3: thats it.

bloodninja: Nostrils flaring, I lower my head. My horn, like some phallic symbol of my potent virility, is the last thing you see as skulls collide and mine remains the victor. You are now a bloody red ragdoll suspended in the air on my mighty horn.

bloodninja: fuck am I hard now.

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Originally posted by tastey

this is what an AIM convo should like btw

bloodninja: Ok baby, we got to hurry, I don't know how long I can keep it ready for you.

j_gurli3: thats ok. ok i'm a japanese schoolgirl, what r u.

bloodninja: A Rhinocerus. Well, hung like one, thats for sure.

j_gurli3: haha, ok lets go.

j_gurli3: i put my hand through ur hair, and kiss u on the neck.

bloodninja: I stomp the ground, and snort, to alert you that you are in my breeding territory.

j_gurli3: haha, ok, u know that turns me on.

j_gurli3: i start unbuttoning ur shirt.

bloodninja: Rhinoceruses don't wear shirts.

j_gurli3: No, ur not really a Rhinocerus silly, it's just part of the game.

bloodninja: Rhinoceruses don't play games. They fucking charge your ass!!

j_gurli3: stop, cmon be serious.

bloodninja: It doesn't get any more serious than a Rhinocerus about to charge your ass.

bloodninja: I stomp my feet, the dust stirs around my tough skinned feet.

j_gurli3: thats it.

bloodninja: Nostrils flaring, I lower my head. My horn, like some phallic symbol of my potent virility, is the last thing you see as skulls collide and mine remains the victor. You are now a bloody red ragdoll suspended in the air on my mighty horn.

bloodninja: fuck am I hard now.

OMG...LMFAO...HOLY SHIT THAT WAS FUNNY

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Originally posted by fkornre

how is that jdate.com u use...i am also jewish and since u brought it up i have considered it...btw.good luck on ur date...

it's alright, a bit of a crapshoot. . . all i've gotten out of it so far are a few booty calls, a lot of the women on there are really on the lookout for wedding rings , even starting in mid 20s. It's a crapshoot, there is some talent in there from NJ/NYC (only areas i look at). To email someone, you have to pay, it's 28.50 a month, so people sign up for one month and email like 50 chicks. . . you can search for free and see if you find anything interesting tho.

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Originally posted by bigsteve8

it's alright, a bit of a crapshoot. . . all i've gotten out of it so far are a few booty calls, a lot of the women on there are really on the lookout for wedding rings , even starting in mid 20s. It's a crapshoot, there is some talent in there from NJ/NYC (only areas i look at). To email someone, you have to pay, it's 28.50 a month, so people sign up for one month and email like 50 chicks. . . you can search for free and see if you find anything interesting tho.

thanx for the info...i will check it out...the booty calls is good for me...

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Originally posted by fkornre

OMG...LMFAO...HOLY SHIT THAT WAS FUNNY

the guy is too funny... check this one out LOL

bloodninja: Baby, I been havin a tough night so treat me nice aight?

BritneySpears14: Aight.

bloodninja: Slip out of those pants baby, yeah.

BritneySpears14: I slip out of my pants, just for you, bloodninja.

bloodninja: Oh yeah, aight. Aight, I put on my robe and wizard hat.

BritneySpears14: Oh, I like to play dress up.

bloodninja: Me too baby.

BritneySpears14: I kiss you softly on your chest.

bloodninja: I cast Lvl 3 Eroticism. You turn into a real beautiful woman.

BritneySpears14: Hey...

bloodninja: I meditate to regain my mana, before casting Lvl 8 Penis of the Infinite.

BritneySpears14: Funny I still don't see it.

bloodninja: I spend my mana reserves to cast Mighty of the Beyondness.

BritneySpears14: You are the worst cyber partner ever. This is ridiculous.

bloodninja: Don't fuck with me biznitch, I'm the mightiest sorcerer of the lands.

bloodninja: I steal yo soul and cast Lightning Lvl 1,000,000 Your body explodes into a fine bloody mist, because you are only a Lvl 2 Druid.

BritneySpears14: Don't ever message me again you piece.

bloodninja: Robots are trying to drill my brain but my lightning shield inflicts DOA attack, leaving the robots as flaming piles of metal.

bloodninja: King Arthur congratulates me for destroying Dr. Robotnik's evil army of Robot Socialist Republics. The cold war ends. Reagan steals my accomplishments and makes like it was cause of him.

bloodninja: You still there baby? I think it's getting hard now.

bloodninja: Baby?

then... later...

BritneySpears14: Ok, are you ready?

eminemBNJA: Aight, yeah I'm ready.

BritneySpears14: I like your music Em... Tee hee.

eminemBNJA: huh huh, yeah, I make it for the ladies.

BritneySpears14: Mmm, we like it a lot. Let me show you.

BritneySpears14: I take off your pants, slowly, and massage your muscular physique.

eminemBNJA: Oh I like that Baby. I put on my robe and wizard hat.

BritneySpears14: What the fuck, I told you not to message me again.

eminemBNJA:

BritneySpears14: I swear if you do it one more time I'm gonna report your ISP and say you were sending me kiddie porn you fuck up.

eminemBNJA: OheminemBNJA: damn I gotta write down your names or something

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Originally posted by tastey

the guy is too funny... check this one out LOL

bloodninja: Baby, I been havin a tough night so treat me nice aight?

BritneySpears14: Aight.

bloodninja: Slip out of those pants baby, yeah.

BritneySpears14: I slip out of my pants, just for you, bloodninja.

bloodninja: Oh yeah, aight. Aight, I put on my robe and wizard hat.

BritneySpears14: Oh, I like to play dress up.

bloodninja: Me too baby.

BritneySpears14: I kiss you softly on your chest.

bloodninja: I cast Lvl 3 Eroticism. You turn into a real beautiful woman.

BritneySpears14: Hey...

bloodninja: I meditate to regain my mana, before casting Lvl 8 Penis of the Infinite.

BritneySpears14: Funny I still don't see it.

bloodninja: I spend my mana reserves to cast Mighty of the Beyondness.

BritneySpears14: You are the worst cyber partner ever. This is ridiculous.

bloodninja: Don't fuck with me biznitch, I'm the mightiest sorcerer of the lands.

bloodninja: I steal yo soul and cast Lightning Lvl 1,000,000 Your body explodes into a fine bloody mist, because you are only a Lvl 2 Druid.

BritneySpears14: Don't ever message me again you piece.

bloodninja: Robots are trying to drill my brain but my lightning shield inflicts DOA attack, leaving the robots as flaming piles of metal.

bloodninja: King Arthur congratulates me for destroying Dr. Robotnik's evil army of Robot Socialist Republics. The cold war ends. Reagan steals my accomplishments and makes like it was cause of him.

bloodninja: You still there baby? I think it's getting hard now.

bloodninja: Baby?

then... later...

BritneySpears14: Ok, are you ready?

eminemBNJA: Aight, yeah I'm ready.

BritneySpears14: I like your music Em... Tee hee.

eminemBNJA: huh huh, yeah, I make it for the ladies.

BritneySpears14: Mmm, we like it a lot. Let me show you.

BritneySpears14: I take off your pants, slowly, and massage your muscular physique.

eminemBNJA: Oh I like that Baby. I put on my robe and wizard hat.

BritneySpears14: What the fuck, I told you not to message me again.

eminemBNJA:

BritneySpears14: I swear if you do it one more time I'm gonna report your ISP and say you were sending me kiddie porn you fuck up.

eminemBNJA: OheminemBNJA: damn I gotta write down your names or something

OMG I AM CRYING RIGHT NOW...THAT WAS SO FUNNY

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