lizard23 Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Anybody here married or planning a wedding? I just got engaged on Sunday and I explained some of me and my fiancee's thoughts and ideas to my mother and she's already giving me grief about the date and why I don't want her to invite a shitload of people that she thinks should be there that I've never even met before. I've talked to a few other people and they keep saying that if the parents (both bride and groom's) are paying, then there's really nothing you can do. I think that's BULLSHIT - it's still my and my fiancee's wedding and the parents shouldn't be paying to control it or have it their way, they should be paying because it's something nice they want to do. My mom said it's not up to just me and my fiancee to plan our wedding, but we're the ones getting married, so why should anybody else have a say?! I'm trying not to be selfish, but I really don't think I'm being unreasonable here. Anybody else ever been in the same boat? Have advice? Please share and thanks for listening to me vent! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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