tastyt Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 I just got a phone call from my ex... we've been broken up for about two years, and we haven't spoken in nearly a year... he left a voice mail for me maybe six months ago but that was the last time I heard from him...He actually asked me if I wanted to hang out... whyyyyyy... I'm way too nice to say "I just don't want you in my life anymore, not even as a friend!" so I simply told him the other end of things, namely that I have a boyfriend and he would not be happy with the arrangement.Arrrggghhh... why can't the past stay in the past... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheMrs Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Cause he just wants to get in your pants again.Men are men. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickyc98 Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 i agree, the keeping the past in the past, that is!March of last year, my ex emails me 3 years to the DAY of our breakup. It stated just a hello , wanted to see how things are... please. My heart dropped and I couldn't breathe. Why just a hello after all that time? I consoled with some women at work. He I am thinking her intentions were to get back together. They told me, most likely, is she broke up with someone, felt alone, and knew I was, at one point, her comfort zone. That made me so angry and upset. I guess the old saying is true:If you love someone, set them free.If they come back, then it was meant to me.If they come back a few years later, they are looking for bangbangbang. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by nickyc98 If you love someone, set them free.If they come back, then it was meant to me.If they come back a few years later, they are looking for bangbangbang. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlr8ted Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Ya, he just wants to dump one last load in ya.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 is this the thug ur talking about? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 I constantly have ex''s contact me. My only take on the situation is that once they remember what a great guy i was (am), they try & initiate some sort of contact with me in hopes of perhaps rekindling something....too bad, im a one woman man though... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sweetie029 Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 That's so pathetic & lame......& I agree...calls like this are either for ass or b/c your an attempted "backup" plan....This just goes to show what losers some people are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickyc98 Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tommyarmani I constantly have ex''s contact me. My only take on the situation is that once they remember what a great guy i was (am), they try & initiate some sort of contact with me in hopes of perhaps rekindling something....too bad, im a one woman man though... Exactly. They realize too late they let go of a great thing and want to get it back. Meanwhile, you moved on with someone that really makes you happy.....and want to BANGBANGBANG. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xlr8ted Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tommyarmani I constantly have ex''s contact me. My only take on the situation is that once they remember what a great guy i was (am), they try & initiate some sort of contact with me in hopes of perhaps rekindling something....too bad, im a one woman man though... Or there trying to get Child Support...ThanksMommy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 The thing that concerns me, is the fact that he moved from Jersey back into the city... I don't know where, but considering where all his family/friends are, it's most likely relatively close to my job...Now, I'm not especially worried about running into him myself... I really don't want to, but I can deal with it. The thing that bothers me is the possibility of seeing him while I'm with my boyfriend. An unpredictably psycho ex and a protective boyfriend aren't exactly two elements you want running into one another.Originally posted by gabo is this the thug ur talking about? Yup, that's the one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt Arrrggghhh... why can't the past stay in the past... ...i think most men are too weak to move on. Right now...i'm dealing with someone who wasn't mentally stable enuf to be with me...but insists on milling around certain situations to try and catch my attention....i'd like to say it's not working...but at least seemingly it's not working..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tommyarmani Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by xlr8ted Or there trying to get Child Support...ThanksMommy. I think i have quite a few children running around out there... JK Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt The thing that concerns me, is the fact that he moved from Jersey back into the city... I don't know where, but considering where all his family/friends are, it's most likely relatively close to my job...Now, I'm not especially worried about running into him myself... I really don't want to, but I can deal with it. The thing that bothers me is the possibility of seeing him while I'm with my boyfriend. An unpredictably psycho ex and a protective boyfriend aren't exactly two elements you want running into one another.Yup, that's the one. well if he keeps bothering u might have to tell him all the stuff you wanted to in the first post. let him know how bad he fucked up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt I just got a phone call from my ex... we've been broken up for about two years, and we haven't spoken in nearly a year... he left a voice mail for me maybe six months ago but that was the last time I heard from him...He actually asked me if I wanted to hang out... whyyyyyy... I'm way too nice to say "I just don't want you in my life anymore, not even as a friend!" so I simply told him the other end of things, namely that I have a boyfriend and he would not be happy with the arrangement.Arrrggghhh... why can't the past stay in the past... looooooooooooooosssssssssseeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrr!tell her he's been hounded you. fuck him!be a heartless bitch and rain on his parade! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by gabo well if he keeps bothering u might have to tell him all the stuff you wanted to in the first post. let him know how bad he fucked up Yes, you're right of course... hopefully the frequency of calls do not increase... b/c I am afflicted with serious lack of backbone... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tranzwhore looooooooooooooosssssssssseeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrr!tell her he's been hounded you. fuck him!be a heartless bitch and rain on his parade! Tell who what? If I could be a heartless bitch I wouldn't have this problem in the first place... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt Tell who what? If I could be a heartless bitch I wouldn't have this problem in the first place... tasty needs to enroll in the fall semester for being a heartless bitch... I hear most of my exgirlfriedns are teaching that class Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hispm Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt Tell who what? If I could be a heartless bitch I wouldn't have this problem in the first place... just tell him the truth...sometimes you have to be like that to get your point across.If you don't, he might stick around longer...and it could be worse later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt Tell who what? If I could be a heartless bitch I wouldn't have this problem in the first place... tell the wife that her creep of a husband is still contacting you.ask her if she's checked his phone bill lately. does she see your # there? YES! does she see your # on in-coming calls? NOhe's a dog and deserves t get busted. if he's gonna be stupid, he better be tough! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tranzwhore tell the wife that her creep of a husband is still contacting you.ask her if she's checked his phone bill lately. does she see your # there? YES! does she see your # on in-coming calls? NOhe's a dog and deserves t get busted. if he's gonna be stupid, he better be tough! did I miss something... who said he was married? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted September 9 Author Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tranzwhore tell the wife that her creep of a husband is still contacting you.ask her if she's checked his phone bill lately. does she see your # there? YES! does she see your # on in-coming calls? NOhe's a dog and deserves t get busted. if he's gonna be stupid, he better be tough! Whaaaaat are you talking about? :confused: He's not married! :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
murrrr Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 been there, done that...what i did was tell him the truth, truth hurts sometimes...u don't wanna have an ex stalking u Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 they all do it... in more instances than one, i've seen guys try to get back with girls that either broke up with them or they fucked over... and more than once of my exes who i split up with on amicable terms has called me up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted September 9 Report Share Posted September 9 Originally posted by tastyt Whaaaaat are you talking about? :confused: He's not married! :laugh: oops sorry. musta misread. anyways, tell him to go fuck & let ur new man answer the next time. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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