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darlok, i dont think you could find any self-respecting guy who would say "sure, i'd date a woman who's been with 20+ guys!" haha...but to wideskies, darlok does have a point...ever heard the term "social proof"? women find men that are already with other women more attractive for some strange reason...and everybody knows how women dig "bad" guys

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Originally posted by anotherway83

...sex partners a person has had over the course of his/her lifetime? im talking of western society in particular...i ask because i just remembered a radio show i was listening to a while back and this was the topic...a good number of the ppl. that were calling in gave numbers of around 30, this included both men as well as women...IMO that is a little high, but i dunno, i was wondering what you guys thought was the real average for a person...

does an orgy in this case count as one :confused: If it does, then 30 may be a lil low :)

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i'm only 20 and most people (both guys and girls) i know have slept with 5-10 people, a few even less... honestly, i wouldn't know what to guess as an average number... it depends on a lot of things, like when you started having sex, how casual you are with hook ups, your view on monogamy, marriage, if you're a pornstar or not...

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Originally posted by somebitch

whos more damaged & leftovers?

a girl who banged 10 different guys 3 times...

or a girl who banged one guy with a foot long cock everyday for 4 years??

:tongue:;)

...And the second half of that statement right there is why ANY guy out there would even have the notion of asking the number of cats that the chick has been with...:aright:..

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The bottom line is this: Chicks sell themselves short by givin themselves away too quickly. Guys don't value shit like that and consider it cheap. No wonder the relationship ends so quickly. The girl always looses out. That's how it was/is/will be.

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Originally posted by darlok

The bottom line is this: Chicks sell themselves short by givin themselves away too quickly. Guys don't value shit like that and consider it cheap. No wonder the relationship ends so quickly. The girl always looses out. That's how it was/is/will be.

i consider men cheap & i like sex. does that make me a terrible person?? LOL. youre making it out like women have to hold out to get some otherwise shes a whore whereas a guy can fuck whoever he wants and still be classy. you dont know shit about reality. most men are classless, including you obviously...
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Originally posted by somebitch

i consider men cheap & i like sex. does that make me a terrible person?? LOL. youre making it out like women have to hold out to get some otherwise shes a whore whereas a guy can fuck whoever he wants and still be classy. you dont know shit about reality. most men are classless, including you obviously...

do you fuck a lot?:confused:

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Originally posted by somebitch

i consider men cheap & i like sex. does that make me a terrible person?? LOL. youre making it out like women have to hold out to get some otherwise shes a whore whereas a guy can fuck whoever he wants and still be classy. you dont know shit about reality. most men are classless, including you obviously...

temper temper. Wtf are u smoking? I said that both guys and girls are sluts. No one's better than the other. Girls just have much more to loose. Btw, ur not a terrible person, just a sad and pathetic one

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Originally posted by darlok

temper temper. Wtf are u smoking? I said that both guys and girls are sluts. No one's better than the other. Girls just have much more to loose. Btw, ur not a terrible person, just a sad and pathetic one

... Listen, its ok if you have adequacy issues, it really is...but she can't help you with that, so play nice...:aright:...

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Originally posted by nyckitty69

ppl are going to lie about it.

i think once u pass a certain # u'r just a dirty player.

ppl who have been w/ way too many ppl is such a turn off, so guys say it is more, girls say it is less

i'm going to say 20 for guys 10 for girls

I agree with this one

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IMO:

when i meet guys that have been with many many women, it's so disgusting. I hope they don't have some disease. It makes me think: get a life clown, there's more to life than sex, ppl aren't names and numbers. u can get the hottest guy and it will still be a turn off.

diseases floating all over the place.

this thread makes me feel so fresh and so clean!

my official talley is still at .......0!

Originally posted by jimk29

If you start having sex at 18, sleep with 2 people a year, don't settle down until your 33, that's 30 people...

it's not that hard. and does having sex with 2 people a year make you dirty??

I think it's time you people started thinking realistically.

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Originally posted by nyckitty69

IMO:

when i meet guys that have been with many many women, it's so disgusting. I hope they don't have some disease. It makes me think: get a life clown, there's more to life than sex, ppl aren't names and numbers. u can get the hottest guy and it will still be a turn off.

diseases floating all over the place.

this thread makes me feel so fresh and so clean!

my official talley is still at .......0!

Wow, I don't know if my eyes are deceiving me or did u just say 0? I thought i'd never live to see a virgin in my lifetime. Hey nyckitty69 do u have a pic and how old are u?

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yeah i am sure she is interested in a diseased player such as yourself who is only interested in knowing anything about her because shes a virgin, get a fucken life you dirty, pathetic scumbag. any guy who is more interested in a girl when he finds out shes a virgin is truly sad, especially if he is not a virgin himself. i understand 2 virgins wanting to wait together but for her to give it up to an idiot like yourself would be criminal :laugh:

i hope your next girlfriend is dirty as hell and says shes a virgin.

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what is it that you think every guy with a little more experience has deseases?

you should really look at that individually.

for example, i race bikes, do scuba diving and would love to go skydivig when the opportunity arises, but you wouldn't catch me not wearing a condom... that is, not without a monogamous relationship and a mutual aids and hepatits test before. *intelligent* players don´t fuck without condoms.

it is really bullshit that every guy is like that. however, there are of course *some* out that carry deseases.

thats why you should always use a condom and, especially with a complete stranger you´re uncertain about (but only then), even ask the other person if he/she will do it without condom, right before the act. if the other person agrees, LEAVE FOR CHRIST´S SAKE!

i personally have left the scene on two occassions already because of that. the little fun you´ll have is not worth dying :)!

"calculated risks" is the right term here i think.

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Originally posted by somebitch

guys are way cheaper... ;)

yes we are. when it comes to sex.

but when it comes to the access and maintenaince of relationships... the thing that all women eventually desperately want... the power lies all in the men´s hands :)

go figure who´s got more power... for we can lie to you women that we want the relationship... it´s only an idea after all... you can´t "lie" the sex part. once it happened and we´re tired of fucking you, we got what we wanted and we can just leave... and you can do... NOTHING :laugh:

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Originally posted by darlok

anotherway83 lemme ask u something. Would u wanna go steady with a girl who slept with over 20 guys? Think about it.. She had 20 dicks! (not even countin how many she blew) That's disgusting!!!

Or would u wanna go out with a girl who roughly had 3 or 4?

The girl 3-4 knows what a relationship supposed to be like (she values it) whereas the one who slept with 20 doesn't have a single f*ckin clue.

dude, what´s past is past. people´s views and needs change.

if you care about that shit and make it obviously degrading like you are, you´ll make girls feel insecure around you and eventually, they will LIE to you. realistically, you CAN`T know for sure how many dicks your current girlfriend sucked and how many guys she fucked. cause she probably lied to you hoping not to piss you off... for that she knows you wouldn´t accept her as the person she really is.

don´t you guys ever get it? NEVER JUDGE GIRLS. if you judge them in any way, they will not feel free to express themselves freely around you.

accept the person you see before you as they are, and they will open up their real selves. THEN you can still decide if she has enough good traits that make up for the bad ones.

but if you are judgemental from the start, you will end up with lots of short, unpleasant dating experiences cause people put up MASKS to fit your judgemental comments because they don´t want to fuck up their chances with you. of course, these masks usually can´t be kept up for long... that´s why you have the typical 3 month "relationships" that are basically based on lies.

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Originally posted by tastey

yes we are. when it comes to sex.

but when it comes to the access and maintenaince of relationships... the thing that all women eventually desperately want... the power lies all in the men´s hands :)

go figure who´s got more power... for we can lie to you women that we want the relationship... it´s only an idea after all... you can´t "lie" the sex part. once it happened and we´re tired of fucking you, we got what we wanted and we can just leave... and you can do... NOTHING :laugh:

eh, i get bored of fucking the same guy after a while too. ive dated a few bad fucks so i know how it is... i dont care about being in a relationship, people usually annoy me pretty fast and i prefer to go my own way. i dont like to waste my time hanging around people who want something from me & i hate when someone expects me to be a certain way + i am too busy to make any effort to see anyone often so i cant be in a serious relationship & it is probably for the best. :D
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Originally posted by somebitch

eh, i get bored of fucking the same guy after a while too. ive dated a few bad fucks so i know how it is... i dont care about being in a relationship, people usually annoy me pretty fast and i prefer to go my own way. i dont like to waste my time hanging around people who want something from me & i hate when someone expects me to be a certain way + i am too busy to make any effort to see anyone often so i cant be in a serious relationship & it is probably for the best. :D

you know, for now it may be the best for you and what you actually want. i predict it will change :)! my experience just tells me that women are just suckers for relationships... with the right guy that is of course...

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Originally posted by somebitch

yeah i am sure she is interested in a diseased player such as yourself who is only interested in knowing anything about her because shes a virgin, get a fucken life you dirty, pathetic scumbag. any guy who is more interested in a girl when he finds out shes a virgin is truly sad, especially if he is not a virgin himself. i understand 2 virgins wanting to wait together but for her to give it up to an idiot like yourself would be criminal :laugh:

i hope your next girlfriend is dirty as hell and says shes a virgin.

Diseased?.... Player?..... ME?? WTF!!!! Me and her actually have alot in common. Anyone whose interested in a girl after finding out she's a virgin is smart, not a scumbag. And who wants her to give something up to me? uhmm *scratchin his head* All i did was show respect for her virginity and look what ur doin; all up in my business and shit *SIGH* Somebitch, you've got some serious problems and judging from what u said at the bottom here about your personality.

Originally posted by somebitch

eh, i get bored of fucking the same guy after a while too. ive dated a few bad fucks so i know how it is... i dont care about being in a relationship, people usually annoy me pretty fast and i prefer to go my own way. i dont like to waste my time hanging around people who want something from me & i hate when someone expects me to be a certain way + i am too busy to make any effort to see anyone often so i cant be in a serious relationship & it is probably for the best.

I'm not 1 bit surprised U ugly witch u

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