weyes Posted January 13 Report Share Posted January 13 my best friend is a gay man, and we go out clubbing together as a pair more than i go out with anyone else. people say he "doesn't look gay," and a lot of people say we look like a couple. we're both single, though, which presents a problem, i think."we're never gonna get any ass this way," i laughed, once, and he said,"that's not what i'm after."it's true, i'm not after ass either, but i would like to meet guys - boyfriend-ish types. the last bf i had i met at a club, but i was with a group of friends that night; i wasn't standing next to my best friend, the way we two do now.so, my question is this: guys and girls, do you not approach people if they're with just one person who happens to be of the opposite sex, or do you further examine the two people to try and figure out their relationship? i, of course, don't think my friend and i look like a couple, 'cause we don't hang all over each other and we do a lot of people-watching. most people in couples at clubs maintain some physical contact most of the time and devote most of their eye contact to each other. perhaps it would be weird to approach someone in a party of 2 to try to hit on 1 of them, but, if the other went to the bar or the bathroom, i figure that'd be considered an ok time to talk. i dunno... thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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