poptart1 Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 i'm pretty sure my boyfriend has an erectile dysfunction problem. god i sound like a viagra ad. but seriously he can only get it up rarely and then not keep it up for long. he's old school and has a biggggggg male ego soooo whenever i try to talk to him about the "problem" he gets really really defensive. whereas in the meantime i'm getting seriously sexually frustrated!!!! i love him but dam the vibrator ain't gonna cut it forever know what i mean. any Serious suggestions greatly appreciated! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 dissolve it and put it in his drink...and if ur gonna do that...use cialus.....works for 36 hours!!!!!!!!!!! but no u dont have a hard on for 36 hours...only when the blood flows......also seriously....if he doesnt want to open up to ur needs then eventually u will go elsewhere!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 :laugh: :laugh: hey poptart...I guess your man hasn't been eating any of these for breakfast... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stymie Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 i'm pretty sure my boyfriend has an erectile dysfunction problem. god i sound like a viagra ad. but seriously he can only get it up rarely and then not keep it up for long. he's old school and has a biggggggg male ego soooo whenever i try to talk to him about the "problem" he gets really really defensive. whereas in the meantime i'm getting seriously sexually frustrated!!!! i love him but dam the vibrator ain't gonna cut it forever know what i mean. any Serious suggestions greatly appreciated!Is your boyfriends name FRED WILSON? Either way, dump him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 dissolve it and put it in his drink...and if ur gonna do that...use cialus.....works for 36 hours!!!!!!!!!!! but no u dont have a hard on for 36 hours...only when the blood flows......also seriously....if he doesnt want to open up to ur needs then eventually u will go elsewhere!!!!!!!!!!!!yeah i thought of cialis or viagra but dam i'm a girl - how do i get that shit without a prescription? and you're right it will cause me to go elsewhere at some point, except i wont cheat and i dont wanna break up but i gotta have sex!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
r0otsh3ll Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 well if you end up leaving him i'm availible..lolyeah i thought of cialis or viagra but dam i'm a girl - how do i get that shit without a prescription? and you're right it will cause me to go elsewhere at some point, except i wont cheat and i dont wanna break up but i gotta have sex!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 i dont wanna break up but i gotta have sex!!!!You love him so don't break up with him...just find some cock that works on the side Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 You love him so don't break up with him...just find some cock that works on the sideyou left out my part of the comment that says i wont cheat..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 you left out my part of the comment that says i wont cheat.....I'm not sure but I think it goes along with it's not cheating if it's in another state...something like, it's not cheating if your man can't get it up Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 I'm not sure but I think it goes along with it's not cheating if it's in another state...something like, it's not cheating if your man can't get it upso in your logic if i'm sleeping with another man, not my man, its ok cuz he cant perform??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 so in your logic if i'm sleeping with another man, not my man, its ok cuz he cant perform??? poptart...how old r u, and where r u from!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 :laugh: :laugh: hey poptart...I guess your man hasn't been eating any of these for breakfast...YOu have been waiting to do that havent you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 poptart...how old r u, and where r u from!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!late 20's near chicago.....why does that matter????????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboyyouth Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Is he much older than you? Are there any possible reasons for his dysfunction? Has he seen a dr? How long have you two been together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 i'm pretty sure my boyfriend has an erectile dysfunction problem. god i sound like a viagra ad. but seriously he can only get it up rarely and then not keep it up for long. he's old school and has a biggggggg male ego soooo whenever i try to talk to him about the "problem" he gets really really defensive. whereas in the meantime i'm getting seriously sexually frustrated!!!! i love him but dam the vibrator ain't gonna cut it forever know what i mean. any Serious suggestions greatly appreciated!he needs to understand that you have needs and he should be willing to work with you to figure out how to meet them, whether that means taking viagra or finding new ways to please you so that yer not stuck sneaking off with the vibrator every time you want an orgasm!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 he's about 5 years older than me, refuses to go to a dr., the only possible reasons i can think of are high blood pressure and hell i dont know if i had an idea what the reasons were i might know how to help resolve it...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 YOu have been waiting to do that havent youNO...like I knew someone named poptart was going to post a thread about how her man sucks in the sack...use your head Kaydup Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 Poptart, you have mentioned though that you have brought it up in conversation before but he get's very defensive...I was just wondering how does one bring that up and what did you say to him? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboyyouth Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 he's about 5 years older than me, refuses to go to a dr., the only possible reasons i can think of are high blood pressure and hell i dont know if i had an idea what the reasons were i might know how to help resolve it......Is there anything going on in his life at this moment that is extremely stressful? Does he drink a lot of alcohol, or do any drugs? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 Is there anything going on in his life at this moment that is extremely stressful? Does he drink a lot of alcohol, or do any drugs?no nothing out of the ordinary thats stressful -work, etc. he does drink quite a bit but doesnt do drugs.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
poptart1 Posted July 23 Author Report Share Posted July 23 Poptart, you have mentioned though that you have brought it up in conversation before but he get's very defensive...I was just wondering how does one bring that up and what did you say to him?i've tried to bring it up a few times (no pun intended) that our sex life isn't what it used to be, along those lines, he agrees there's a problem and that it needs to be resolved but never wants to discuss it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboyyouth Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 no nothing out of the ordinary thats stressful -work, etc. he does drink quite a bit but doesnt do drugs....I do know that some people who drink excessively may have some erectile problems. Not sure if that's what the deal is though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 I do know that some people who drink excessively may have some erectile problems. I've never had a problem no matter how fucked up I am as long as the girl makes me horny and than I can fuck until her pussy hurts Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 i dont really want to say this....but one of the reasons could be that u just dont do it for him....i know it sounds harsh....but it could be a possibility!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudeboyyouth Posted July 23 Report Share Posted July 23 I've never had a problem no matter how fucked up I am as long as the girl makes me horny and than I can fuck until her pussy hurtsI wasn't referring to people not being able to fuck while they're drunk. I was referring to people who have consumed a shit load of alcohol throughout the course of their lives. My friend's uncle drank quite a bit throughout the course of his young life, and he grew very weak in his early 30's, and was no longer able to maintain an erection like he used to. After years and years of drinking, alcohol does take quite a toll on one's body, including one's ability to partake in physical activities like sexual intercourse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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