tyco Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 Hmmmm.....I think the whole problem is that it's really hard to really want someone unless you can't have them......that's the whole idea......if you could have them you wouldn't be "wanting", you'd be "having".......somehow, it seems that the wanting stage is much more exciting to me......although it can be frustrating, it's suspenseful and it keeps you in check......once you have someone, people tend to become overcomfortable with themselves and the situation.......the wanting stage keeps you on top of your game....... Mikey------------------"If there are two of us, I will gladly bite it in half....." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jacktripper00 Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 that happens to me with women all the time... i'm too much of a wack-ass, jive turkey to build up the courage to do anything about it either! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowball Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 man i have been there but everytime i tell the girl im attrached to them there like im not lol .. dam i have no luck scew it ------------------ New CLub in Staten islnad ... (ELEMENTS) call for info ... or e-mail me at martin_izzo@netzero.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lolly Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 Originally posted by tyco:Hmmmm.....I think the whole problem is that it's really hard to really want someone unless you can't have them......that's the whole idea......if you could have them you wouldn't be "wanting", you'd be "having".......somehow, it seems that the wanting stage is much more exciting to me......although it can be frustrating, it's suspenseful and it keeps you in check......once you have someone, people tend to become overcomfortable with themselves and the situation.......the wanting stage keeps you on top of your game....... Sooooo true. Once you have them you don't want them anymore. The thrill is gone. Yet, it is still a good thing, but the thrill of making them want you is gone. It's all a game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
divalicious Posted December 12 Author Report Share Posted December 12 Originally posted by lolly: Sooooo true. Once you have them you don't want them anymore. The thrill is gone. Yet, it is still a good thing, but the thrill of making them want you is gone. It's all a game. Originally posted by tyco:Hmmmm.....I think the whole problem is that it's really hard to really want someone unless you can't have them......that's the whole idea......if you could have them you wouldn't be "wanting", you'd be "having".......somehow, it seems that the wanting stage is much more exciting to me......although it can be frustrating, it's suspenseful and it keeps you in check......once you have someone, people tend to become overcomfortable with themselves and the situation.......the wanting stage keeps you on top of your game....... I can't say that I agree with you both... I do not think of wanting to be with someone as a game at all. It is no game when I'm dealing with matters of the heart. It's something I take seriously, and I have to say that if more people felt the way I do, maybe there wouldn't be so many broken hearts. If I were so lucky to actually get to be with this guy, that would be sooo much more thrilling to me than where I am now... Alone. ------------------ Peace Love Happiness y'all DivaliciousNYC@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snglr0se Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 If I could look in your eyes,What would I see ,If you sang me a love song,What would it be,If I said that I like you,Would you show me you care,If I said that I need you,Would you try to be there.. ------------------snglr0se@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jammy Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 Sounds like the story of my life...Every guy I wanted, the timing was all wrong ...Either they were in a relationship, getting over a relationship, or not interested in a relationship at all . So I just go on alone day to day finding peace in being surrounded by great people and having a good time. Maybe one day I'll get the timing right, but my watch always seems 15 minutes too fast ...~*Jam*~------------------Email: ynicholas@aol.comAIM: ynicholas Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 Originally posted by jammy:Sounds like the story of my life...Every guy I wanted, the timing was all wrong ...Either they were in a relationship, getting over a relationship, or not interested in a relationship at all . So I just go on alone day to day finding peace in being surrounded by great people and having a good time. Maybe one day I'll get the timing right, but my watch always seems 15 minutes too fast ...~*Jam*~Oh my god Jam, that just sounds sooo much like the story of my life. They either weren't ready to come with me exploring the world, or didn't want to get close to me cause I might be leaving again... or just got out of a relationship and hence not ready to get close to someone again.... Well, I've got a lot of good friends and therefore a good time (don't get me wrong) it's just that I feel like I'm flying in a different dimension... Hopefully one day, someone will cross my path and be at the same pace than me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nlichau Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 I have been there so many times.I am just happy I have a man now that loves me and wants me just as much as I want him.That is something special! ------------------The music makes the people come together... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
noiseboy Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 i always get what i want. . . eventually. hehehheeheewhatever!! i'm in a constant state of want, always something or someone new too. maybe it's the ADD, my personality, the fact there's far too many attractive women in this city, i dunno. . .just have a good time, and don't stress about it, it'll all work itself out in the end. . . that's all i ever rely on. . . ------------------so tell me. . . who's yr daddy??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mistressbella Posted December 12 Report Share Posted December 12 oh hell yes im a hairstylist and i work with the most beautiful man from inside and very out perfect man one problem which i dont mind but he is gay u know my luck either taken,married,gay,corny well i will still search for a man to give me butterflies in time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungoddess Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 Everything happens for a reason; what is meant to happen, will happen. If you're meant to be with someone, then you'll be with them - whether it's today, tomorrow, or 5 years from now. Have faith and let fate take its course! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brianz54 Posted December 14 Report Share Posted December 14 Yeah, and she's getting married next year too! But I'll get over it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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