amorettony Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 ..it's been over eight months since my x and I broke up over some bullshit. We're not back together as a couple, but we've been having sex for months now. Is it because we're still trying to hold on to each other or are we both just using each other until we find somewhere else to find our comfort?Sometimes I hate here, and sometimes I miss feeling the way it used to be. Should I just let go and move on with my life?HELP Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.Schwartz Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 I hear you man.. I had the same problem.. There is only one solution,, You gotta analyze real deep if u want this to be a relationship.. It's probably eating you up that offically ur not together.. So either you should make it offical and go back out and give it another chance or totally end it.. If u keep fooling around you'll get nowhere and feel confused all the time.. So if u can try to get back together (if it's worth it) if not move on..!------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmikedr Posted January 15 Report Share Posted January 15 sometimes great sex makes it all worth it.I mean I hope its great, cause if it sucks, well then yeah you guys are probably just "settleing" (sp?) ------------------aim: djmikedrDJmikeDR@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
amorettony Posted January 15 Author Report Share Posted January 15 thanks guys..I do believe that moving on is the best option too, I just need to do it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chillinbeat Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 OK...same shit happenned to me this whole past year. What happenned to me, everytime we were just having sex, I wanted her as a girlfriend, to really love her. But everytime we went back I just wanted her for the sex. I decided to let her go, since both of us were having a difficult time with each other, and for me, that's not love. If you can't convince them, confuse them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eviljav666 Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by nychunk:I hear you man.. I had the same problem.. There is only one solution,, You gotta analyze real deep if u want this to be a relationship.. It's probably eating you up that offically ur not together.. So either you should make it offical and go back out and give it another chance or totally end it.. If u keep fooling around you'll get nowhere and feel confused all the time.. So if u can try to get back together (if it's worth it) if not move on..!take nychunk advice....HE IS ON THE MONEY!!! REFLECT ON THE PAST ON YOUR WILL SEE THE FUTURE TO BE....kill KILL...KILL....KILL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
silveeohh Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 PASSING UP SEX ON A REGULAR BASIS?I have to take another view keep it alive to the new booty call arrives,If you let her skate you'll have to masterbate,give it some time,before you make a mistake and cut the line,you may miss her more if she's not there,do you take that chance,it hurts more,beware!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sgtfury Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 heres my story..i dont know if it will help you...I went out for a girl for a year...we had a great relationship..best sex I ever had...all inputs, total porno..I had a job offer out of state..I asked her to come with me..we began to live together...the relationship turned to total shit...very unhealthy..finally I told her she had to leave...while we were apart, I missed her..although I knew our problems would never improve...for a bunch of reasons, I moved back to where we were from...we began to see each other again..she wanted to be in a relationship with me..I told her that we could still see each other, but that would be it...she half heartedly agreed...we continued to sleep with each other..i met someone else who wanted to have a serious relationship with me but I continued to sleep with my ex..my ex would try to tell me that she thought that we should stop sleeping with each other because it was too painful for her..I would always talk her out of it..i dont know if it was just so we could still have sex or that I just couldnt let her go...well,, one night when I was having sex with my ex, the other girl I was dating showed up at my house..the end result is I lost both of them..whats the moral?? make your own conclusions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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