mel-o-d Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 I posted this in another thread, but no one has replied. I've noticed in this week alone that so many of us are having relationship problems ... primarily those of us that are in relatively new relationships. What is it about the 3-4 months mark?------------------Work like you don't need the money,Love like you have never been hurt,Dance like nobody is watching. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 The newness wears off.... ------------------Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted January 10 Report Share Posted January 10 sorry I didn't make it that far!!!!------------------Hi! How ya doing? where ya been, I had thoughts of you all night long. Can't describe what you did, but you got me so!Aolimer: Glowgirl42000Email: Sugar4@earthlink.net/>http://www.amihot.com/personalpage.asp?ID=776FFDE8A7A242F29C933CB8CD09E6DB Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littleboybleu Posted January 11 Report Share Posted January 11 Originally posted by stacychase:The newness wears off.... i agree, the newness does wear off and thats when you really start to feel comfortable around the person and start to do or not do stuff that you did or didnt do before. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crossy Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Exactly what everyone else said, lots of people refer to it as the "honeymoon" period of a relationship. That's why you should just always be yourself and then it won't be such a shock when the phase is over.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted January 12 Report Share Posted January 12 Its the 90 day Relationship Return Policy!!! For the first 90 days most people (NOT ME) are pretty fake and not themselves..Trying to do everything and anything to please the other individual. Boring! And after 90 days they can't help but be themselves.. it starts to seep out.FuK DaT!Me on the other hand.. I Don't Give A SHIT!I'm ME take it or leave it! Save the fancy stuff for those who deserve it! One who can stand the test of time.Usually, once they get a taste of how nice I can be (if I give them a taste) they can't get enough.Start off being yourself ! If they stick around then you know. Although, I have been told I don't care.. It's usually by superficial people who don't Overstand what a Real relationship is all about. 50/50....Its Not about what I want... its what WE want!------------------Peace & Blessings,B-SIDE"The DJ From Another Planet"™ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
quanto_magnus Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 Originally posted by mel-o-d:I posted this in another thread, but no one has replied. I've noticed in this week alone that so many of us are having relationship problems ... primarily those of us that are in relatively new relationships. What is it about the 3-4 months mark?Yup yup! Going through that right now...I agree with all of the posts above... The newness of everything wears off, people true colors start to come out, etc. I even told my girlie that she misrepresented herself. Boy, did she get pissed when I said that... ------------------ Hugha.k.a. ibhugh, Bryan Adamsemail: ibhugh@yahoo.comaolim: hugesk8r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puck Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 shit im just starting into a relationship now, aaaaaahhhhhhhh i hope this shit isnt some kind of foreshadowing thing havoring over everyone, that would diffinetly suck the eye of the beholder, hold thy inner beauty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 i didnt get to the 90 day mark...oh wait i didnt get to the one day mark either ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imnikki Posted January 16 Report Share Posted January 16 hey i have a solution for all of yoube like me.. single.. be single.. fuck whoever you want to fuck.. and if they start w/ their bullshit.. you dont ahve to deal w/ it.. becuase you owe them NOTHING - =P---nah.. i aint really like that.. i WISH i could be... I just got out of a relationship.. that i wuz in for a long time.. lived w/ the dude and everything.. Sumtimes people just arent made to be w/ each other.. And wut B-Side said is MADDD TRUE!!!... Its about wut WE want.. not wut you or he or she or I want.. its always a WE thing.. .. but uhmm like .. I dont know about that 3 - 4 month mark.. If you keep it real from the get go.. either you can deal w/ that person.. or you cant..its cuz of those people who fake the funk out there.. their true colors shine thru after a while.. .. unfortuantley people feel the need to Front... Just be yaself y0h.. =P------------------"I'm gone, you ain't worth tha tearsYou lost tha best thing you ever had in ya life..a waste of my years" "ouT 4 doL" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chillinbeat Posted January 17 Report Share Posted January 17 Originally posted by b-side:Its the 90 day Relationship Return Policy!!! For the first 90 days most people (NOT ME) are pretty fake and not themselves..Trying to do everything and anything to please the other individual. Boring! And after 90 days they can't help but be themselves.. it starts to seep out.FuK DaT!Me on the other hand.. I Don't Give A SHIT!I'm ME take it or leave it! Save the fancy stuff for those who deserve it! One who can stand the test of time.Usually, once they get a taste of how nice I can be (if I give them a taste) they can't get enough.Start off being yourself ! If they stick around then you know. Although, I have been told I don't care.. It's usually by superficial people who don't Overstand what a Real relationship is all about. 50/50....Its Not about what I want... its what WE want!Perfectly said!!! Same to you crossy!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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