echostar Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 my girlfriend might be pregnant....we agreed that she'd get an abortion if she is. but shes only 14. do you have to be 18 to get an abortion?------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smellykelly Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 no you can be w/e age but you need parental permission. ------------------Unga Bunga watermelonshaving sex in thebathtub!Sometimes its better tobe alone...no one canhurt you that way. -Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.Schwartz Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Are you over 18, because if u are it's statutory rape if filed.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tstelkhuni Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 wow thats something really serious...she can have an abortion with ONLY with parental consent. if she was over 18 it would be a different story. if ur over 18 - what were u thinking when u were sleeping with a 14 yr. old? - hope i helped ------------------"i don't suffer from insanity i enjoy every minute of it" aim : TsteLkHuni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
opala Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Whoa...That's some crazy shit. I'm not exactly sure what the procedure or policy is in Canada cause I've never had to make use of them(I live on the westcoast-Vancouver, B.C.) but I recall in high school some chick got pregnant and had an abortion through planned parenthood...I'm not sure if you need parental consent that way, I know it's a crazy wacky idea, but if you could get an abortion done up here (Ontario isn't too far) would you consider that? If you are over 18, I don't think we have a statutory rape charge here. I'm just throwing out ideas, I apologise if I don't have my facts straight. Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.Schwartz Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 Listen,, honestly though i think in this type of a situation everyone will agree. If you really care for her, let her parents know. They know best because it's their baby. If your 14 year old kid got pregnant wouldn't you want to know about it. I hear stories all the time how kids go to undergrown clinics and the this stuff done and then they have problems. On the lighter side her's what happens. Since that new pill came out that is just as an efficient as an aborotion this is how it's going to go down. She will recieve 3 shots in the ass and then take like 5 pills every day and during the week she's supposed to bleed like crazy and all that stuff will come out. Keep in mind this is only allowed 5 weeks into the pregnancy past taht dont do it! ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 I believe in NJ you DO NOT need parental consent for an Abortion. That is not to say she shouldn't tell her parents. Look in the yellow pages under Abortion and Abortion Alternatives. The both of you should go and get counseling first. Find out your options. Do not make any hasty decisions. Whatever you decide to do will stay with her and you forever. ------------------i know what i want, but it took me a long time to figure it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 get a fake ID... anyone's ID. Make sure they look similar. When you go get the abortion, no problem.------------------ "I OWN DJ Mike D'R. NOW" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted February 12 Author Report Share Posted February 12 thanks for the help everyone, just for the record im 17...and shes not pregnant with my kid, its from her ex bf before she started going out with me, but the asshole left her and didnt take any responsibility for it...so now its my problem! ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 omg, what are u doing having sex @ 14 - u have the rest of your life to fuck . am i the only 18 yr. old that's a virgin! how old r u? to answer the ques. i believe u need parental permission ------------------* starcapone * modus operandi * athenalust@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stacychase Posted February 12 Report Share Posted February 12 transcend- please hon have her speak with her parents first. abortion is not the only option. how far a long is she? if you do not think her parents are approachable, call Planned Parenthood. They are great when dealing with teenage pregnancy. They will also assist her with birth control options. Please do not allow her to use an under ground abortion clinic. Those places are seldom sterile and I have heard/seen some of their work. It is like a meat market.I hope that she finds her answers and gets some counseling while under going this life changing event.Good luck, hon.... stacychase------------------Life can only be understood backward, but it must be lived forward. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richie Posted February 15 Report Share Posted February 15 First of all Transcend....... didn't you made a post b4 about if it was ok to have sex with a 12yo. If I can recall, you made a comment that if it was ok to have sex with a 12yo and you got bashed left and right. So in reality your lying - I believe that you got a 12yo pregnant instead of a 14yo. Cause you know you got warned if you fooled around with a 12yo but now you just added 2yrs to the girls age so you won't get bashed again.... but it's not!!!!! In my honest opinion you are a ONE SICK MOTHERFUCKER and if I ever see you face anywhere GOD knows what I'll do to you... Suppose if you had a daughter that is only 12 and a guy wanted to fuck the living shit out of her or take advantage of her cause she is NAIVE>.... Would you let him fuck your daughter even though this guy is a perverted MOFO like yourself.... You belong in jail you child molester!!!!!!!! GET A FUCKIN LIFE!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richie Posted February 15 Report Share Posted February 15 To everyone on this board don't believe this piece of crap... Now he is saying that he didn't get her pregnant and it was her ex that got her pregnant... LIES, LIES, LIESTranscend or whatever you call yourself learn how to lie and cover your tracks PERVERTED fuck!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.Schwartz Posted February 15 Report Share Posted February 15 Yea, i remember that was him who said that he wanted to date a 12 year old??? that was like 2 weeks ago or so.. Trancend, your girlfriend ages 2 years in 2 weeks????------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted February 15 Author Report Share Posted February 15 Originally posted by nychunk:Yea, i remember that was him who said that he wanted to date a 12 year old??? that was like 2 weeks ago or so.. Trancend, your girlfriend ages 2 years in 2 weeks????yeah, theyre actually 2 different people, and yes her ex did get her pregnant...if im looking for a responsible solution, then why would i deny getting her pregnant? that would be a little immature, plus we didnt even have sex yet!------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted February 15 Author Report Share Posted February 15 and oh yeah, i never said i wanted to have sex with the 12 year old....and i want to thank the people who gave me a serious answer to a serious question ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sully573 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 why don't you find out if she's pregnant first before you start jumping to conclusions. Take her to planned parenthood to take a pregnancy test and then go from there. . . ------------------~The poor long for Riches,The rich long for Heaven,But the wise desire Tranquility.~*"The only good is knowledge. The only evil is ignorance."* Socrates"I was as a gem concealed; Me my burning ray revealed."-Koran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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