JackMeOff Posted March 26 Report Share Posted March 26 Ask her to define "good boy" for you and VOILA! ...you'll know where you stand------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosultan Posted March 26 Report Share Posted March 26 Originally posted by Ph0eniX:Ask her to define "good boy" for you and VOILA! ...you'll know where you standthe wise have spoken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sosultan Posted March 27 Report Share Posted March 27 hmmmm, I met someone about 10 days ago. This past sat we finally hung out together for the first time. It wasn't really an official date, she pretty much suggested that we should hang out together. As i was dropping her off in the end of the night, she offered me to sleep over "if i'll be a good boy", implying that I have to sleep over somewhere anyway, so I might as well not take the chance of driving home under the influence of alcohol ( I sobered up by then though). Both of us fell asleep shortly after we got in bed, and nothing really went on. Next day, we spent another hour in bed just chatting away, and later went out for a brunch. I left her place at 4 pm, and still didn't feel comfortable at making a move. We made plans to hang out again, but i'm still a bit puzzled at what to expect next time? p.s. she said she's done this kind of thing before... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
modelNY Posted March 27 Report Share Posted March 27 If your attracted why don't you make a move, or tell her. There is nothing wrong with being upfront and no games!If you not attracted what is wrong with friends? Good luck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sungoddess Posted March 27 Report Share Posted March 27 Originally posted by Ph0eniX:Ask her to define "good boy" for you and VOILA! ...you'll know where you standTrue, and well said! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roadrunner Posted March 27 Report Share Posted March 27 how old are you? recently i've been hearing more and more from girls (as their own policy and as advice to me) that you fuck the ones you just want to fuck, but get to know the ones you're actually interested in BEFORE sleeping with them. maybe this girl's interested in more than just a lay...------------------ *i'm in love with the modern world* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnnyrevs Posted March 28 Report Share Posted March 28 Originally posted by roadrunner:how old are you? recently i've been hearing more and more from girls (as their own policy and as advice to me) that you fuck the ones you just want to fuck, but get to know the ones you're actually interested in BEFORE sleeping with them. maybe this girl's interested in more than just a lay...very true ------------------FUCK GIULIANI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted March 28 Report Share Posted March 28 i agree... just because nothing happened the first night doesnt mean anything... roadrunner is totally right... she probably wants to prolong it cause shes actually genuinely interested in you...let it flow, or if not, just talk to her...hope it helps...~moonshine------------------ AIM: dELERiUM 540 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted March 28 Report Share Posted March 28 she may also be testing you, to see if you like her enough to want to sleep with her and also respect her enough to let her make the first move------------------PleaseLeave meUrRock Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
D.Schwartz Posted March 28 Report Share Posted March 28 That sounded like a fun night, as well as morning.. Dont over analyze and just go with the flow. It kinda takes away from the excitement of being with someone new when your constantly wondering what to do or what not to do. I suggest to be conservative and make the first move, but be calm and dont jump to sex right away, try to stimulate her senses and impress her a bit. Everyone loves to be impressed. I'm sure she wants to be assured that your an upstanding guy, whether it's just for sex or a relationship.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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