live1 Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 BIGGEST TURN OFF: Someone who doesn't know how to listen. Conversation is an art - to know how to converse and actively listen to your partner with all your senses is WONDERFUL. Anything less is self involved and annoying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rparadox Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Originally posted by tastyt: My turn-offs are pushy, arrogant, opinionated, close-minded men.I just noticed this. What's wrong with being opinionated? Most intelligent people usually are. It's the stupid ones that don't know or don't care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Originally posted by rparadox: I just noticed this. What's wrong with being opinionated? Most intelligent people usually are. It's the stupid ones that don't know or don't care.Having opinions is a good thing. Of course! "Opinionated," however, is a word with negative connotations- an opinionated person has a close-mindedness about their opinions. You could argue with them till you're blue in the face, and they would not for one second even *humor* the idea that your opposing pov is anything but worthless. Everyone has some opinions they'll never lose. However there are others who just never change their mind about *anything*. They're stuck on this level and can't grow.And even when you have a strong opinion about something you can usually admit that there's *some* worth to what others think. I for one will never be a pro-lifer. However, I can admit that their basic premise has validity- of course it would be great if there were no need for abortions- but that world doesn't exist!Ok I think that's an overly definitive explanation so I'm going to stop now!------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. [This message has been edited by tastyt (edited 06-21-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rparadox Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Originally posted by tastyt: Having opinions is a good thing. Of course! "Opinionated," however, is a word with negative connotations- an opinionated person has a close-mindedness about their opinions. You could argue with them till you're blue in the face, and they would not for one second even *humor* the idea that your opposing pov is anything but worthless. I agree with you about that, I guess I’m just arguing with you over semantics. "Obstinate" would be a better word to fit the description you gave (sorry, I’m a writer ). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 21 Report Share Posted June 21 Originally posted by rparadox: I agree with you about that, I guess I’m just arguing with you over semantics. "Obstinate" would be a better word to fit the description you gave (sorry, I’m a writer ).That's ok- I've been known to quibble over such things myself! ------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nitro449 Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 the biggest turn offs are girls that were things that they really shouldn't have on..------------------walk through the velvet ropes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cgm Posted June 25 Report Share Posted June 25 Wow, Im surprised no one said smoking. Being a smoker, I know that there are a lot of people out there that think it's unattractive. Whatever, I dont!My turnoffs for guys are guys who CANT DRESS Guys who have stubbly arms cause they need to be shavedCHEAP GUYSOf course bad breath Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted June 26 Report Share Posted June 26 Oh where do I start...most of what everyone ese has saidJust have to add guys with really obnoxious voices..like squeaky or nasaly voices.Guys who walk weird...either walk with a stick up their ass or have an arrogant strut.Guys who cant dress. I don't care if they are bummed out just have some style. Smoking yes this is a major turn off for me.Guys who drink too much or do drugs often.Guys that play..fix..or scratch themselves in public.Short shorts on guys or jeans as tight as mine.thick hair...even a lot of arm pit hair..yuckfake and bakers that look orange ive got more but I dont want to list them all------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jamaica Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 Bad breath is one of the worst turn off i think. And the other is boy ordor. And scrathing or grabbing anything private. [This message has been edited by jamaica (edited 06-29-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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