safitamace319 Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Of course this had to happen to me right, well i figured i'd share and anyone out there with sound advice surely can as well! Monday is my last day on my surgery rotation, for two weeks now, one of the residents i work with had been giving off strong hints about going out on the town together, me coming ot get him and going out to eat (he's Indian, and hasn't been in philly too long, and wanted a tour guide, which is fine, except sometimes he makes inappropriate comments) so like bells starting going off, i told him last weekend i went to Allentown to visit with family so i couldnt go out. on top of that, in front of the PA i work with, he asks me for my cell phone number, and i get the feeling he's either said something or done something, because now the nurses and my supervising PA have made jokes about him calling me. i mean i know they see the unethical aspect of all of it, i'm really hoping he doesn't call, i dont wanna be mean about it, but if i wanna do another rotation here, i need to keep things professional. today i see him in the hallway and he wanted me to tell him when my last day would be, i'm guessing then for him it would be ok to see me. argghhh. why is it i always get the guys i dont want???? help!!! ------------------"Some Of Us Are Like Ink, And Some Like Paper.And If It Were Not For The Blackness Of Some Of Us, Some Of Us Would Be Dumb.And If It Were Not For The Whiteness Of Some Of Us, Some Of Us Would Be Blind."- Khalil Gibran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 Sorry to hear about the drama. My advice would be to be honest with him. Tell him you are not interested in a relationship with him. You don't owe him anything. Good Luck!------------------i know what i want, but it took me a long time to figure it out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deanna11 Posted February 2 Report Share Posted February 2 if being professionally polite doesn't work with him, be professionally cold. don't take his bullshit inappropriate comments, don't answer his personal inquiries, and don't let him bother you. if he still doesn't take the hint and leave you alone, he's harassing you cmb, i don't think safitamace even owes him the time of sitting down and being honest to tell him she's not interested------------------"real fucking high" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
safitamace319 Posted February 3 Author Report Share Posted February 3 D, i agree with ya, plus it's better to be professional i mean you know how stupid guys can be, even if they're doctors, they either start saying shit which can ruin a reputation, or they make your job really hard for ya! so you're right i'm just gonna be professional. Thank God mon. is my last day, i won't even tell him it's my last day unless i see him in the hallway or something. sheesh!------------------"Some Of Us Are Like Ink, And Some Like Paper.And If It Were Not For The Blackness Of Some Of Us, Some Of Us Would Be Dumb.And If It Were Not For The Whiteness Of Some Of Us, Some Of Us Would Be Blind."- Khalil Gibran Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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