LikmyLipz Posted December 27 Report Share Posted December 27 Un approachable?i was told by a few that i'm unapproachable.. so what does it?besides looks.. what makes you not want to go up and talk to a girl.. or afraid to talk to a girl?------------------~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipzicq:101504929"A good man is hard to find, A hard man is Good to find"/>http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted December 27 Author Report Share Posted December 27 grr every time i change my color or sig it always GET F'd UP! GRRR------------------~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipzicq:101504929"A good man is hard to find, A hard man is Good to find"/>http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sobeton Posted December 28 Report Share Posted December 28 Hey, my friends use too say the same thing about me. It had less to do with my looks, and more about the vibe, I was giving off. I use go to clubs and just hang out at the bar; looking like I was ready to kill someone.Not moving from one stop the entire night. I eventually broke out of my social shell and let loose. I started hitting the dance floor, smiling alot more, and simply just relaxing more. Too my amazement girls started approaching me. Now even when I go too clubs alone; I basically get into the Music, Dance, and Glow my ass off. It relaxes and loosens me up. When I am loose, I feel better about myself, and hence am a hell of a lot more approachable. In answer to your question: what makes you not want to go up and talk to a girl.. or afraid to talk to a girl? If she is beautiful, it scares me a bit; but not enough to not want to approach her. What Scares me away is; if she looks uncomfortable and uptight. Women who are dancing, smiling, etc are expressing they are happy, and that’s a big turn on. If you open yourself up, people will notice you.. Just my $0.02. Hope this answers your questions,..Peace,Sobeton [This message has been edited by sobeton (edited 12-27-2000).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kramadas Posted December 28 Report Share Posted December 28 Definitely, "the look". If a girl's in a club, scowling at everyone or acting all snobbish, I won't bother wasting my time to even look her direction anymore. A nice smile, and "open" face helps tremondously. Also, things like dancing, etc. BTW, another thing, if a guy approaches you it does not automatically mean that he wants to get you into bed (like most girls seem to think). For example, I might be dancing next to a girl, and if the music gets really good, I have to say something - so I might turn around and make a comment about the music. There's no bigger vibe-killer than that person scowling and turning away!! Normally it doesn't happen, but there are the few oddities that think its their job to stand in middle of the dance-floor and act all snobbish.Just my 2 pennies. ------------------"I would believe only in a god who could dance."Nietzche Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted December 28 Author Report Share Posted December 28 Originally posted by raver_mania:Definitely, "the look". If a girl's in a club, scowling at everyone or acting all snobbish, I won't bother wasting my time to even look her direction anymore. A nice smile, and "open" face helps tremondously. Also, things like dancing, etc. BTW, another thing, if a guy approaches you it does not automatically mean that he wants to get you into bed (like most girls seem to think). For example, I might be dancing next to a girl, and if the music gets really good, I have to say something - so I might turn around and make a comment about the music. There's no bigger vibe-killer than that person scowling and turning away!! Normally it doesn't happen, but there are the few oddities that think its their job to stand in middle of the dance-floor and act all snobbish.Just my 2 pennies. but i am friendly and i make convo.. i'm always sweet! GRRRRR------------------~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipzicq:101504929"A good man is hard to find, A hard man is Good to find"/>http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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