SPYGIRL3 Posted August 6 Report Share Posted August 6 I was miserable for a long time after I broke up with an ex. I was a mess. I thought I would never find anyone who could compare...... Then my friends dragged me out and helped me return to reality. Thank god for them. I realized that until I got happy and found myself, no one else would could do it for me either. I got over it and moved on. It takes time, but THERE is someone for everyone:love:Stop being a worry wort, you are gonna drive yourself nuts:worry: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted August 6 Report Share Posted August 6 Have fun while you can...you'll know when the time is right to settle down. There is no need to rush things! Enjoy the single life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by silente I think it's mostly a defense mechanism, at least for me. Becoming attached to someone makes you really vulnerable, and that's NO GOOD. Sooooo...we just find little stupid things, make them big important things, and then the threat/love goes away.<laughs> Yes, I have issues. God that describes me way too much. I always want to have contol of a situation ..and falling for someone forces you to give that up. Giving trust and love to someone..if not a true person...leads you to get hert broken. So I don't allow myself to. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by dgmodel Thats the worst, 'cause you wasted all this time and effort all for nothing... then you have to start all over again. I hate dating process. Yeah but dating is what makes you find what you want and don't want and no matter how bad a situation..it effects your life. Each person you have a relationship with is a part of what makes you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by xtotaleclipsex Yeah but dating is what makes you find what you want and don't want and no matter how bad a situation..it effects your life. Each person you have a relationship with is a part of what makes you. Good point... I agree... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted August 7 Report Share Posted August 7 Originally posted by silente I think it's mostly a defense mechanism, at least for me. Becoming attached to someone makes you really vulnerable, and that's NO GOOD. Sooooo...we just find little stupid things, make them big important things, and then the threat/love goes away.<laughs> Yes, I have issues. I think we all do that. That way it's like oh well.......It's the worst when someone steals a piece of your heart and you know you are never gonna get it back Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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