Bad Social Pattern

[Saboteur]

I've realized something kinda shitty. Whenever I find a hot girl I really like, I always end up becoming close friends with her. This has happened 3 or 4 times and tonight it happened again, confirmed as the girl told me how happy she was to find out this guy at school wants her. I have no trouble gettin the relatively sluttier type of girl. Its just that whenever a girl who i truly like comes along, I end up in the friend zone. I've fucked it up while tryin to make it sexual and I dont know what to do now. I'm tryin to save this most recent case, I don't wanna go on as her "good platonic friend" and hearing about the guys she wants. Anyone ever go through something like this?

[Xpander]

I know how you feel, mate. For me, I've just so many female friends, and it's gotten to the point where I just have daunting realizations that I'm surrounded by attractive women that I'm friends with, yet no date.

I'm a screwup when it comes to romance, so I know the fucking up feeling.

I wish I can help you but I'm the exact same way... I mean, mostly all my friends are girls, and it's great being friends with them. But when you're single and looking, it's awkward trying to figure out the problem that's preventing you from getting a date when you've no problem relating to girls...

I hope you feel a bit better knowing someone else has your problem. But I mean...gotta work at it, you know?

But do let me know if you find a cure to this problem....

[awkwardscience]

Personally I would say that you are to

passive - you have had the chance to

capitalize on moving in but didn't want

to "rush in" and scare her away. Next

time take the chance at rejection - it

hurts but it will pass - plus you can

never tell with woman - in this case

she might just be bringing up other guys

to check your reaction - see how you react.

She might have an interest and like yourself

not know how to go about bringing it up.

All in all you should suck it up and take a chance

At the worst you will lose a potential friend (who your

not even interested in being friends with anyway)

good luck just tell yourself no more lonely nights

Sci

[siceone]

I would say take a chance and see

if you can deal with not having her as a friend then whats fucking it up gonna do be tru to your self

thats all I have to say.

[thehacker]

Originally posted by awkwardscience

just tell yourself no more lonely nights

Sci

if only

if were that easy.