fierydesire Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 So the past few days have been really weird. I have been running into old flames and I got a phone call from one today. I don't know what to do. I know I always say not to step back, but I mean when I saw them it was weird. Feelings were still there, like nothing ever finished. Bottom line could these be feelings out of loneliness or perhaps I still do have a place in my heart for them? I have had other people on my mind but those seem to be something which will probably not occur. So shall I step back and see if there could be a possibility with one of the guys or shall I just leave it be? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Originally posted by fierydesire So the past few days have been really weird. I have been running into old flames and I got a phone call from one today. I don't know what to do. I know I always say not to step back, but I mean when I saw them it was weird. Feelings were still there, like nothing ever finished. Bottom line could these be feelings out of loneliness or perhaps I still do have a place in my heart for them? I have had other people on my mind but those seem to be something which will probably not occur. So shall I step back and see if there could be a possibility with one of the guys or shall I just leave it be? Leave it be sweetcheeks! What your saying seems like Deja Vous to me....but in the long run, not much good will seem to come out of it. When you love someone, you love them and that's it....you can't take that back. However, life's twists and turns can just lead you bothin opposite directions. I guess the best advice is, follow what your heart tells you, but don't ignore your mind either.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 step foward sweety....there are so many more goldfish in the fishbowl ::for u and kitten to pounce on:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 It wasn't a love or anything random people I dated in the past. I guess I will look forwrd but keep it them in the back burner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Originally posted by marcid21 Leave it be sweetcheeks! What your saying seems like Deja Vous to me....but in the long run, not much good will seem to come out of it. When you love someone, you love them and that's it....you can't take that back. However, life's twists and turns can just lead you bothin opposite directions. I guess the best advice is, follow what your heart tells you, but don't ignore your mind either.... Agree definitely...there's a reason they're your past flames...and besides, there's billions of men in the world..you have so many to choose from...see what else is out there, and put the past behind you..if it's meant to be,you will find the one you've been destined to be with... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 sounds to me that u do not fully have closurei would give it another tryeither one of two things will happenit will work outor it wontbut if u dont tryu will always be left wondering and for me that would be worse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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