fierydesire Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Have any of you actually done this? I mean while you were semi-dating the guy, you hooked up with his friend sexually. Even worse when you were younger you dated the guy who you hooked up with later on behind the guy you were dating currently? Does that scenario make sense. Dating A getting with B, but you were with B before you ever met A when you were younger. Started to date A years later, saw B and banged him? Anyone? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Originally posted by fierydesire Have any of you actually done this? I mean while you were semi-dating the guy, you hooked up with his friend sexually. Even worse when you were younger you dated the guy who you hooked up with later on behind the guy you were dating currently? Does that scenario make sense. Dating A getting with B, but you were with B before you ever met A when you were younger. Started to date A years later, saw B and banged him? Anyone? kinda.. a lil different scenario. I didnt think A and B knew each other, turns out they were old hs friends! I told B about A but i only told A that i was "just friends" with B. whaddya need to know? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 i guess you're not dating guy A anymore? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 How about you drop A & B and find yourself a C?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 Well I used to date B when I was younger then met A years later, then it kind of subsided and saw B again and did the deedx but never did it with A to begin with. Right now I talk to neither by my choice. I could call them, but I think A doesn't know about B...maybe but B lives upstate now. XXlea on the hunt for a C.nycchic done that scenario before, I guess it doesnt really count if they were old "HS" friends. How the hell would you know? You know what I mean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Originally posted by fierydesire Well I used to date B when I was younger then met A years later, then it kind of subsided and saw B again and did the deedx but never did it with A to begin with. Right now I talk to neither by my choice. I could call them, but I think A doesn't know about B...maybe but B lives upstate now. XXlea on the hunt for a C.nycchic done that scenario before, I guess it doesnt really count if they were old "HS" friends. How the hell would you know? You know what I mean so do you wanna call A now? is that it? imo if you really like A and want to start soemthing serious and dont want this to hit you back in the face later, tell A that you had dated B casually. you dont have to get into details, but if A was to ever find out later on down the road he may be like wtf why did you tell me and think what else are you not telling me and destroy the trust.. i dunno . again i guess it comes down to what are you looking for outta this situaion. otherwise dont sweat it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 Originally posted by nycchic24 so do you wanna call A now? is that it? imo if you really like A and want to start soemthing serious and dont want this to hit you back in the face later, tell A that you had dated B casually. you dont have to get into details, but if A was to ever find out later on down the road he may be like wtf why did you tell me and think what else are you not telling me and destroy the trust.. i dunno . again i guess it comes down to what are you looking for outta this situaion. otherwise dont sweat it. I was thinking about it actually. I mean we never really ended things "officially", so maybe I would call, only problem is I wonder if he knows about B, if so then that could be issues:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Originally posted by fierydesire I was thinking about it actually. I mean we never really ended things "officially", so maybe I would call, only problem is I wonder if he knows about B, if so then that could be issues:( alright then i would take the chance and call A and put some feelers there. you could probably tell from the conversation "whats going on" and whether or not he knows. if he knows and it bothers him, then he will probably end the call shortly. If he doesn't know (or if he knows and doesn't care) then he will be happy to hear from you. right????? good luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted January 31 Report Share Posted January 31 Oh gosh I could never even think of doing something like that, how morally wrong and....zzzz LOL you know that I, of all people, am fuckin' with ya Call him if you like, the worst he can say is hey, I heard you got with my friend one night...which he probably won't say. But then again, how much do you like the kid you're thinking about calling? Is he worth the aggrevation? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 yeah I may call..G he is worth it. I digged him but it kind of died out a bit but the feelings were always there:( G get on IM damnit:mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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