Guest bellaragazza Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 what would you do if you caught your boyfriend/girlfriend tying to snoop through your stuff? would you get upset? dump them? or ask them why they did it?see my boyfriend took it up on himself to try and find my diary. I'm a writter so everything in there is pretty intense and he thought it would be beneficial to himself to find it and read it because he says he's insecure. Right now though, I think it's utter bullshit and i'm pretty much fed up of the games he's playing.Knowing that someone could have, might have wanted to and thought about reading my personal thoughts and whatnot makes me fucking sick to my stomach.we talked about it and I told him that i'd appreciate it if he didn't read it, but he went ahead and tried anyways.now, he's broken my trust and i'm not really sure if I can trust him anymore.what would you do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 He *did* do it because he's insecure... an insecure, untrustworthy asshole.Wow, just reading that made me feel gross. I would rip him about five new assholes if I were you. People who do not write have no idea how intensely personal stuff like that is... That's such a major violation of trust. How did you find out about it? Did he tell you himself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 How long have you been with him? It's very hard to trust him again after that, I KNOW! My bf suffers from the same thing as yours and it gets very irritating within time:rolleyes: The only suggestion I can offer is to ask yourself how strong are your feelings towards him and how easily can you get over this?Good LUck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 Originally posted by tastyt He *did* do it because he's insecure... an insecure, untrustworthy asshole.Wow, just reading that made me feel gross. I would rip him about five new assholes if I were you. People who do not write have no idea how intensely personal stuff like that is... That's such a major violation of trust. How did you find out about it? Did he tell you himself? Alright, well we've been together a little over two months and since it hasn't been that long it's really not that hard for me to let go you know? yeah he told me himself. That's what I think is so fucking stupid. Not only did he have the balls to do it, but he's so cockfaced that he actually told me in a joking manner implying that I hide it well.After he told me I got really upset. I was so angry that I just couldn't speak. I sat there in silence not even looking at him because I just couldn't bare to lock eyes with someone who could even possibly think of violating my privacy like that.Anyhow, this happened three days ago. I dumped him the night it happened and told him that I was sticking to my principles. I don't deal with lies, mind games or people I can't trust. But now, I'm wondering if I was to harsh on him and if I should have just let it pass.I still wouldn't be able to trust him though, I'd be constantly worrying that he's leafind through my things trying to find someone out about me. I don't understand why he just doesn't come out and ask me?Mind games blow. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 girl how many times have i told u this kid is worthless?? sorry but he is playing games. i know it is easy to get pulled in but get out while you still can. someone i trust lookng through my stuff is my worst nightmare. move forward and dont look back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 Bella drop the Zero and roll with the hero I just watched cool as Ice Im sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by siceone Bella drop the Zero and roll with the hero I just watched cool as Ice Im sorry man, i can't get over how slick your sig is.... fucking rocking drawing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by bellaragazza man, i can't get over how slick your sig is.... fucking rocking drawing. Im kinda tired of Im im searching for a new one but I like yours too I can almost see up the chicks skirt !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by siceone Im kinda tired of Im im searching for a new one but I like yours too I can almost see up the chicks skirt !!! it's from Cream.. I rave I went to last summer.. promoed by 514prod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by bellaragazza it's from Cream.. I rave I went to last summer.. promoed by 514prod mmmmm cream Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boywonder77 Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 I'm a writer also. My girlfriend at the time was always trying to read my shit, but I don't let anyone read anything that I haven't finished, which is almost everything. So she searched through all my discs, read the book I was working on and freaked out by what i had written. I packed my shit and moved out that day. She still trys to apologize and get back together with me.:horns: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by boywonder77 I'm a writer also. My girlfriend at the time was always trying to read my shit, but I don't let anyone read anything that I haven't finished, which is almost everything. So she searched through all my discs, read the book I was working on and freaked out by what i had written. I packed my shit and moved out that day. She still trys to apologize and get back together with me.:horns: it's such an invasion of privacy.i just found out that the reason he did this was to find out something bad about me so that he could get rid of me before I could fuck him over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by bellaragazza it's such an invasion of privacy.i just found out that the reason he did this was to find out something bad about me so that he could get rid of me before I could fuck him over.well now that your free !!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 give him head... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by atomicapples give him head... holla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by atomicapples give him head... dude, i guess you didn't read my other thread labledMY BOYFRIEND DOESN'T LIKE GETTING ORAL!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 then either your man has a small dickoryour not doing it right... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by atomicapples then either your man has a small dickbam, how'd ya know ???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 im not trying to be a dick here.. but what is the problem??? you on AIM? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by bellaragazza bam, how'd ya know ???? I have a big one and I like head LOL Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 i like head as well... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by atomicapples im not trying to be a dick here.. but what is the problem??? you on AIM? it was a problem... but now it's over with. thank god..he had the following problems:1) didn't like oral giving or getting2) didnt want to have sex in any other position but shitty old missionary2) insecurity problems and accused me of cheating on him everyday3) snooped through my stuff4) constantly told me about his olympic masterbating marathonsfucking right, i'm glad its over...i'm single again. WHOOOOHOOO! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 so hook up with me.. i love fucking~!!~!~all positions... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 some moves are illegal in the us... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bellaragazza Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 Originally posted by atomicapples so hook up with me.. i love fucking~!!~!~all positions... all the boys here are either 1) prude or 2)carrying some fucking disease... disappointing really Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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