synderella420 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 I mean if it is supposed to be so good??Should you just isolate yourself from the feeling of love so you can never be hurt??I dont think I could ever love someone for a longtime..It was like after my breakup I feel so cold to let anyone else into my life..I was talking to a friend tonight and he lets this girl continue to hurt him.. Love is supposed to be beautiful and not hurt or make you want to be cold..Ahhh.. love I just dont get it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 if everyones looking for love... why do we hurt the ones that help us find it??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 idk... but... all i have to say about love is..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyclubber01 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 Love can suck it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 DG and SYN....both good points....I'd elaborate on this....cause u know i always do.....but I'm too sad.....maybe later... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh this post totally hits the spot with me tonight. Like I was discussing with someone on this board (thanks!) last night--the highs are soooo high but the lows are just rock bottom. And what if you're in a relationship with and really falling for someone you know you probably don't have a future with... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 thats what i'm trying to understandif u find an answer let me know asap Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 love can make you feel like your on an unbelieveable high or it can make you hit rock bottom...idk y ...still lookin for that answer.....feel better...:goofy: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LatinaZee Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 Love is the most incredible feeling two people can have together. You do things you NEVER thought you would do and its ok. Its only about you and the other person.But when things change, IT HURTS MORE THAN HAVING SOMEONE DIE THAT YOU LOVE. YOUR HEART IS RIPPED OUT AND YOU FEEL DUMBFOUNDED AND WONDERING WHAT TO DO NEXT.I WILL LOVE AGAIN!!______________________THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVER AND FRIENDS IS SEX. I LOVE MY FRENDS BUT I MAKE LOVE TO MY LOVER.TOUCHY SUBEJECT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 I think love hurts because it makes you feel... It makes you feel good, bad, happy, sad, anxious, bored, excited....etc. etc.etc. Only when you feel something, is that when it can hurt you, because it is part of youIMO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted February 28 Author Report Share Posted February 28 DG: For some reason us as humans spin in a constant web of hurting ourselves..it is just part of our nature..love is like a never ending battle..ReginaP-I definitely feel you on this..I was with my ex for close to six years and I had to break it off because I knew future wise it wasnt going anywhere.. as much as we loved each other..believe me it was so hard for me.. but it has been 5 months now of not being with him..Sigh..I wish I had the answers..I would write a book..I miss having that constant love.. always there...It is like we have family and friends to cover the spots but I just missing having someone there to fulfill the void...It is so hard for me to let anyone into my life like that again it is like I want the love.. but I totally isolate myself from giving anyone the chance..SPY- I definitely agree with you! You become so in love and emotionally involved with a person that your feelings just become one..so when they hurt you hurt..Being in love is such an emotional mental and physical attachment.. Ahhhh... love I hope I find it again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 Originally posted by synderella420 Sigh..I wish I had the answers..I would write a book..I miss having that constant love.. always there...It is like we have family and friends to cover the spots but I just missing having someone there to fulfill the void...It is so hard for me to let anyone into my life like that again it is like I want the love.. but I totally isolate myself from giving anyone the chance..SPY- I definitely agree with you! You become so in love and emotionally involved with a person that your feelings just become one..so when they hurt you hurt..Being in love is such an emotional mental and physical attachment.. Ahhhh... love I hope I find it again You imagine all the hearts that would heal and all the money you'd make......Sometimes, life is our best teacher, even though we do not always like our lessons, there is always the emotions that never leave you that you can hold onto.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted February 28 Author Report Share Posted February 28 You know how great I would feel screw the money..I would feel better mending the broken hearted...Yes.. the memories you can always hold on too.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mjp22 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 Love does hurt like hell. When you finally find that 1 person who you can not wait to see, that one voice you can't sleep without saying goodnight to its the greatest feeling in the world but once it ends the pain never seems to disappear. I hope one day it does but so far I have this pain for over a year and no matter what or how good a time I am having I think it would be better if she was there with me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 This actually my reply to forgeting, but it kinda applies here too...It's very hard to forget about someone who means/meant so much. For all the good, bad, and ugly, and beautiful, part of your heart will always belong to that person/people.... Once you give someone a piece or all of your heart, it's theirs forever. If they choose to abuse than you are better off, regardless of all feelings. I completely understand where you are coming from. You could always just leave a message when you know she's not home or when her cell is of, and just say something like I hope you are doing well and things are working out the way you want...blah, blah, blah. Short sweet and to the point. DON"t tell her you want her to call yu back, just end with a simple goodbye. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted February 28 Report Share Posted February 28 Could this be any more depressing? Or any more true? I don't know about this love business. It's like, on the one hand I want it more than anything in the world... that feeling of not only loving, but being loved back is just so... indescribable. But then- I just can't help but wonder if I'll ever find a truly healthy relationship that does not make me miserable at least half the time?Well, I guess that's what at the heart of the matter- love is wonderful. Relationships suck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
synderella420 Posted February 28 Author Report Share Posted February 28 Humans with love..ahhh..what a tangled web we weave.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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