dgmodel Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Best Friend Or GirlFriend/BoyFriend ???(i dont mean dying, but just ending ties...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Thats a hard question..how close with the best friend and how long with the GF,....either way...your friend you are close with because you shared good times..ect, gf wise its an emotional feeling.....two totally diff emotions tward people..thats the way I look at it....either way though it sucks... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluidnyc Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 You saying like if your girl slept with your friend, or what? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glowgirl Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... I had that experience once! Never want that again!Worst thing ever to go thru! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... id have to agree......:worry2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
romy20 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... wow definitly:( My boyfriend now of 2 and a half years is also my best friend, and I really dont know what I would do if we ever broke up:( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by fluidnyc You saying like if your girl slept with your friend, or what? no im saying what worse to lose if you broke up with your gf/bf or if you stop being friends with you Bestfriend... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by glowgirl I had that experience once! Never want that again!Worst thing ever to go thru! same here fuck it though... life goes on... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexxyh Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... ~~~ thats what i wanted to specify...........depending on how long u been with ur gf/bf at some point they can become ur best friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 i agree that if you are at the point where your significant other is your BF, then that is the worst scenario...but for me, right now, i would have to say BF would be worse...esp since my BF is NYCchick24, and there is no one better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by suthrnbelle i agree that if you are at the point where your significant other is your BF, then that is the worst scenario...but for me, right now, i would have to say BF would be worse...esp since my BF is NYCchick24, and there is no one better aww thanks belle! even though i am a pain in the ass, i dont know what i'd do with out you either! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluidnyc Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 I say my best friends, cause I did loose almost all of them to drugs, jail or death.A girlfriend, I can just get over that.But my friends I do miss... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Damn...I tried to answer this and too many thoughts were coming in my head....NEVERMIND....There's smoke coming out of my ears now.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klohe Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 best friend....gf/bf are easy to come by, but having a friend that understands you and cares for you like a "best" friend does is harder to find.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 I don't know... not so long ago I would have unhesitatingly said it would be worse to lose my best friend... because I thought we were soul sisters and would be that close forever...But then I did gradually, eventually, lose her. And it was not the worst thing in the world, like I would have thought it to be. So my answer it- it depends on how close you are to either one of them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
saifuku Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 def. a depressing question, but if it came to it...def girlfriend. Agree w/Khloe that they are easier to come by. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest danni133 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 I think that losing your best friend would be far worse than a boyfriend. I trust my best friend Caroline a lot more than any boyfriends I've had, and I know she'll be there for me through all the break ups and new men in my life. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 exactly, danni...my BestFriend knows more about me than anyone ever will and has been there for me through too much for it to be less than disaster if something ever happened... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by klohe best friend....gf/bf are easy to come by, but having a friend that understands you and cares for you like a "best" friend does is harder to find.... what she said;) a true friend is so hard to come by these days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by dgmodel what if that person was both??? i think thats the worst scenario... :( that's why I'm glad I had more than one "best" friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lesdig Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 I would absolutely, without a doubt say a best friend. However, that is if they are truely your best friend and not just a good friend. These days it seems like everybody's so quick to call someone their bestfriend. I think it definitly depends on how good of friends you REALLY are. I know myself personally, would definitly rather lose a boyfriend before ever losing my Bestfriend...I mean seriously boyfriends come and boyfriends go...as we all know, but a bestfriend is someone who will be there regardless.......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Originally posted by lesdig I would absolutely, without a doubt say a best friend. However, that is if they are truely your best friend and not just a good friend. These days it seems like everybody's so quick to call someone their bestfriend. I think it definitly depends on how good of friends you REALLY are. I know myself personally, would definitly rather lose a boyfriend before ever losing my Bestfriend...I mean seriously boyfriends come and boyfriends go...as we all know, but a bestfriend is someone who will be there regardless.......... i couldn't agree with you more...there is no one like a true best friend. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 6 Author Report Share Posted March 6 Originally posted by ReginaP :( that's why I'm glad I had more than one "best" friend not true... you only have one best friend... the others are just great friends... when you say best that implies theres nothing above them... how can there be 2, 3, 4 etc. #1's? it just cant be... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 6 Report Share Posted March 6 Originally posted by dgmodel not true... you only have one best friend... the others are just great friends... when you say best that implies theres nothing above them... how can there be 2, 3, 4 etc. #1's? it just cant be... yep, yep and yep! you are soooo right! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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