suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 So...*curious* is sex better with someone you know, trust, love, are committed to, etc...OR *wicked grin*...is it better with someone random, wild, spontaneous, that you can just get funky with and have no worries for tomorrow? think before you answer...there are pros to both scenarios, OBVIOUSLY but i want to get past the typical "sex is better when you are in love" answer and to some creativity... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by suthrnbelle So...*curious* is sex better with someone you know, trust, love, are committed to, etc...OR *wicked grin*...is it better with someone random, wild, spontaneous, that you can just get funky with and have no worries for tomorrow? think before you answer...there are pros to both scenarios, OBVIOUSLY but i want to get past the typical "sex is better when you are in love" answer and to some creativity... ok i never made *love* but everyone i have been with i have known to some extent. but i think as long as you are careful casual sex is good cause you got nuttin to hide. you can do anything you want that you cant do wit someone you care about cause of the respect for the person. i mean you can talk dirty and shit and fuck it who cares. i mean it goes both ways, and i dunno if make sence but it did in my head.point blank both are good as long as yo upractice safely;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 exactly...thanks and you are right, not caring about what the other person will think of you tomorrow has its benefits, lolbut, obviously, safety is a HUGE necessity for ANY sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by suthrnbelle exactly...thanks and you are right, not caring about what the other person will think of you tomorrow has its benefits, lolbut, obviously, safety is a HUGE necessity for ANY sex. sex it up, but bag it up:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 LOLROTF...well said! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 commited definately Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Sorry if this is the "cliched" answer, but definitely committed...that feeling of amazement spreads throughout your whole body....not just your genitals Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Random Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fluidnyc Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Both, i think.Committed cause she will know what you like and stuff. PLus what u said in ya question..Random because its new and exciting spontainious, no strings.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 c'mon guys...tsk-tsk...WHY committed or random? WHAT makes one better than the other? regina - not cliched at all, just curious... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingartur Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Sex is better when you're committed to a person and love that person.Its much better with love and feelings during sex.and u can always be opened minded cause you know they person loves you and won't think different of you:D Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Random - no strings attached with just plain ol' down and drity action!!!Besides..ragga won't be committed anytime soon, and it has been 13 months for me....so fuck it - I'm on the prowl (even more than usual ) looking to have fun (like when I was in college)Ahhhh - the good ol' days of being a jock! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 thanks, K and Spragga-- both good answers...spragga--on the prowl, huh? you are too funny be careful going out partying with my girl--she is the ORIGINAL "retired" playah, lol **xoxo, NYC!** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by suthrnbelle thanks, K and Spragga-- both good answers...spragga--on the prowl, huh? you are too funny be careful going out partying with my girl--she is the ORIGINAL "retired" playah, lol **xoxo, NYC!** She told me that.....but she's under "lock and key" so I know my role...I better get outta here before she kicks my ass! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 nah, i just meant, you could learn a few "tricks of the trade"from such a master loo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by spragga25 She told me that.....but she's under "lock and key" so I know my role...I better get outta here before she kicks my ass! huh, what! lock and key? are you talking about who i think you are talking about?! lol just bc we've been dating for while doesn't make him my bf! and hey belle.. be careful what you say..... don't let the "fire escape door" hit you on the way out! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 oooooooh damn, NYC--what a memory, lol...that's why i was the original UNDERCOVER, lol spragga--watch it, the BF word is a big one for girls like me and NYC--not to be thrown around lightly, lol...plus, i have to meet & approve of this guy first, lol... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by kingartur Sex is better when you're committed to a person and love that person.Its much better with love and feelings during sex.and u can always be opened minded cause you know they person loves you and won't think different of you:D Exactly. Once you've had the real thing, nothing compares Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingartur Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by ReginaP Exactly. Once you've had the real thing, nothing compares after i broke up with a girl i loved, sex haven't been the same Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 for me its definitely commitedi dont commit unless i think the person is great especially in bedhowever a randon person can be very disappointing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 well to get back on the main topic of this thread, i guess it depends on what stage you are in your life. if you are not ready for a relationship etc then obviously you would pick random. and vice versa if you want to change this to random and "consistent" i would go with "consistent" bc i think the more two ppl become more familiar and comfortable with each other, the more they are able to explore and experiment. i dunno just my $.03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by glowdancer however a randon person can be very disappointing VERY TRUE! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
suthrnbelle Posted March 5 Author Report Share Posted March 5 thanks NYC, good answer...and yes, glo, you are DEFINITELY right on that one(that randoms can be disappointing)...esp when you are on the rebound from being with someone you really loved... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Originally posted by suthrnbelle oooooooh damn, NYC--what a memory, lol...that's why i was the original UNDERCOVER, lol spragga--watch it, the BF word is a big one for girls like me and NYC--not to be thrown around lightly, lol...plus, i have to meet & approve of this guy first, lol... Needs your approval...I see!Well nyc can vouch for me....hmmm on second thought... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted March 5 Report Share Posted March 5 Commited. For some obvious reasons- you feel it on so many levels, not just the physical one; you get used to each other's bodies and what you like. Also- Random sex is NOT wild and uninhibited for me like some people have been saying. For me to completely let go, I have to know that the other person cares about me, and will respect me no matter how down and dirty it gets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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