SPYGIRL3 Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 If you are interested in someone, and there is a mutal interest, but the are factors that keep you from being together.... Is it wrong for one of the involved parties to use that for their own needs??? I am not sure if I made that sound the way I mean to ask it.Maybe this is a better example...You have 2 people who are very good friends, but can't "date" each other for whatever reason. You spend a lot of time together regardless, because of common friends and interests. Out of the blue, random one of them makes an move, which isn't neccessarily unwanted, if it's for the right reasons.... How do you know??? Things are back to normal, with the exception of a few people who now(but shouldn't, could have some major reprecussions).....Any words of wisdom????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vision Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 why not just talk about it..if a move has or has not happened still talk about it..you may be missing out on something special Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 19 Author Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by vision why not just talk about it..if a move has or has not happened still talk about it..you may be missing out on something special It has definite good potential, but there is still that inevitable rock and and a hard place.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bmw4jay Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 How do you get yourself in these positions?! ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 19 Author Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by bmw4jay How do you get yourself in these positions?! ... They just seem to find me......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 19 Report Share Posted March 19 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 If you are interested in someone, and there is a mutal interest, but the are factors that keep you from being together.... Is it wrong for one of the involved parties to use that for their own needs??? I am not sure if I made that sound the way I mean to ask it.Maybe this is a better example...You have 2 people who are very good friends, but can't "date" each other for whatever reason. You spend a lot of time together regardless, because of common friends and interests. Out of the blue, random one of them makes an move, which isn't neccessarily unwanted, if it's for the right reasons.... How do you know??? Things are back to normal, with the exception of a few people who now(but shouldn't, could have some major reprecussions).....Any words of wisdom????? i was in this situation once... it sucks lol...is it just to experiment?? cause if it is then i dont see anything wrong with that, cause you both know there are no strings attached. but if one falls for the other that sucks cause it is the friendship that is in the back of the mind. i mean if you know it isnt gunna go anywhere then dont keep doin it if one has feelings for the other. cause that could be the end of the friendship:( and i am sure you wouldnt wanna loose a good friend over a peice of assi dunno if that helps:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
misk Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Maybe this is a better example...You have 2 people who are very good friends, but can't "date" each other for whatever reason. You spend a lot of time together regardless, because of common friends and interests. Out of the blue, random one of them makes an move, which isn't neccessarily unwanted, if it's for the right reasons.... How do you know??? Things are back to normal, with the exception of a few people who now(but shouldn't, could have some major reprecussions).....Any words of wisdom????? OMG....u totally just described my current situation...like TO A "T"! obstacles...get in the way....there are reasons to not be together..there are reasons to be together..and it's wanted one way or another by both parties....but it just doesn't seem to be 'practical' at this time....WELL...my feeling is...fuck practicality...u can't avoid fate/feelings and all that other crap!! if it's gonna happen it will...especially being together all the time...now i am all pissed off! lol....thanks.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 20 Author Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by origskeemr i was in this situation once... it sucks lol...is it just to experiment?? cause if it is then i dont see anything wrong with that, cause you both know there are no strings attached. but if one falls for the other that sucks cause it is the friendship that is in the back of the mind. i mean if you know it isnt gunna go anywhere then dont keep doin it if one has feelings for the other. cause that could be the end of the friendship:( and i am sure you wouldnt wanna loose a good friend over a peice of assi dunno if that helps:confused: It just kinda happened....The friendship will be fine either way, that much I do know. We talked about it last night, and it really sux, because there is no way around our major issue...... What really sux is that it is so perfect, the whole parents, friends, likes/dislikes, age, etc. etc. etc...... I guess it just something will deal with and see what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 20 Author Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by misk OMG....u totally just described my current situation...like TO A "T"! obstacles...get in the way....there are reasons to not be together..there are reasons to be together..and it's wanted one way or another by both parties....but it just doesn't seem to be 'practical' at this time....WELL...my feeling is...fuck practicality...u can't avoid fate/feelings and all that other crap!! if it's gonna happen it will...especially being together all the time...now i am all pissed off! lol....thanks.... I would really like to, but I can't be that caviler with the whole thing. :bigfinger: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 It just kinda happened....The friendship will be fine either way, that much I do know. We talked about it last night, and it really sux, because there is no way around our major issue...... What really sux is that it is so perfect, the whole parents, friends, likes/dislikes, age, etc. etc. etc...... I guess it just something will deal with and see what happens. i wish it were that easy, but its not... honestly... i was like nothing can ruin this friendship and all that shit shit cause we were so close blah blah, but feelings tend to get in the way of friendship. i mean i use to be best friends wit this girl called everynight and told her about girls and how retarded i was last night and shit. it was perfect and then dun dun dun. we fucked around and shit and we always said it would never get in the way we just connect. the only thing is sooner or later someone will like the other one than just more than friends and it fucks up the hook-up and friendship. i mean that is just from past experience, but i wish you luck;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 20 Author Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by origskeemr i wish it were that easy, but its not... honestly... i was like nothing can ruin this friendship and all that shit shit cause we were so close blah blah, but feelings tend to get in the way of friendship. i mean i use to be best friends wit this girl called everynight and told her about girls and how retarded i was last night and shit. it was perfect and then dun dun dun. we fucked around and shit and we always said it would never get in the way we just connect. the only thing is sooner or later someone will like the other one than just more than friends and it fucks up the hook-up and friendship. i mean that is just from past experience, but i wish you luck;) It's mutal, so that's not problem. I think that makes it worse.... We are like two peas in a pod. It kinda fitting that we technically can't date..... Either way he's still my sweetie:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 It's mutal, so that's not problem. I think that makes it worse.... We are like two peas in a pod. It kinda fitting that we technically can't date..... Either way he's still my sweetie:) well then there is no worries;) seems lik eevrything is under control Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 20 Author Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by origskeemr well then there is no worries;) seems lik eevrything is under control Check your pm's Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 20 Report Share Posted March 20 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Check your pm's oops sorry i was writing a paper... well anyway now check your pm's;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by origskeemr oops sorry i was writing a paper... well anyway now check your pm's;) Gotcha.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
origskeemr Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Gotcha.... and another... did you get it:confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by origskeemr and another... did you get it:confused: Nope, I'll check now... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 23 Author Report Share Posted March 23 I decided to let things take care of themselves... I don't have brain cells to spare to worry about this. Things always take care of themselves, something tells me the same will happen with this:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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djmoonshine Posted March 24 Report Share Posted March 24 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 It's mutal, so that's not problem. I think that makes it worse.... We are like two peas in a pod. It kinda fitting that we technically can't date..... Either way he's still my sweetie:) like misk, you just described my current situation and it def. is the most frustrating thing ever... it's like you should be together cause you mesh so well but you cant because of other reasons... *sigh* good luck girlie... :worry2: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 25 Author Report Share Posted March 25 Originally posted by djmoonshine like misk, you just described my current situation and it def. is the most frustrating thing ever... it's like you should be together cause you mesh so well but you cant because of other reasons... *sigh* good luck girlie... :worry2: You can't really take control one way or the other....Good luck to you too:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clo Posted March 28 Report Share Posted March 28 I would hate to be in this position... ...i need to show the guy i am with that i <3 him all the time, I would hate to keep it a secret...i'm sorry that u guys have to do this... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted March 29 Author Report Share Posted March 29 Originally posted by clo I would hate to be in this position... ...i need to show the guy i am with that i <3 him all the time, I would hate to keep it a secret...i'm sorry that u guys have to do this... It's okay, if it's sppossed to happen, it will happen:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clo Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 It's okay, if it's sppossed to happen, it will happen:) That is the way I think about things now to...if it's meant to be it will be... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted March 31 Report Share Posted March 31 marko fondled me when i was smaller Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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