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I found this very disturbing.

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Last night I overheard my friend's LONG TERM bf offering to show MY bf their SEX TAPE!! They didn't know I was standing outside the door. Luckily for the sake of my bf he refused, on the way home he mentioned their conversation.

Now, I can almost gurantee that my friend is not aware of this or that she would appreciate this video being shown. I don't know if I should say something to her or keep my mouth shut.:confused:

I've always known he was an asshole but not this extent, he recently met my bf.

:mad::blown:

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Why is it that garbage like this dosen't suprise me??? Guys are insane, I swear....Would any of us ladies ever offer something like that to one another?? I know I wouldn't...unless my man had some kind of award winning Piece!:D :D

Anywho..XXlea sweets...I wouldn't say anything, cause it's just gonna bring on drama. Just keep quiet, and knowing what you know...just keep an eye out for your friends safety and privacy...

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It probably wouldn't bother me as much if she was an exibitionist or had a more sexual personality. But she doesn't! She's one of my few calm friends.

Also the fact that she IDOLIZES this ASS!! If he's offering to show this tape to a person he barely knows, I can only imagine WHO hasn't seen this tape already?!!

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Originally posted by xxlea

It probably wouldn't bother me as much if she was an exibitionist or had a more sexual personality. But she doesn't! She's one of my few calm friends.

Also the fact that she IDOLIZES this ASS!! If he's offering to show this tape to a person he barely knows, I can only imagine WHO hasn't seen this tape already?!!

It doesn't make it right, but it does make it easier to understand if she were more outgoing about herself.

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Exactly spygirl!! At the other end of my friend spectrum, I have a friend that willingly and proudly wanted to show off her *pictures*.

I can see why a guy would want to show off their personal collections but of their SERIOUS gf soon to be wife??? Isn't this something men brag when it's a booty call or sex buddy?!?

This is why I've always said KEEP THE TAPE and make NO COPIES!

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xxlea...I would tell her. Yes it might bring on some drama but if a true friend can't tell me those things (even if they hurt) ...than why are they my friends. I don't need friends that only tell me the things that I WANT to hear....

...well that is my definiton of a friend.

Anyway, exactly because the guy was willing to show the video to your bf (whom he only knows for a short time..as you mentioned)....I mean, come on, I'm sure all of his closer friends have seen the video already...and even if they haven't...with the offer itself he violated her privacy.

I don't know....I think I would tell her....she can then decide what she wants to do with the knowledge herself...maybe she is ok with it but I think you should give her the chance to make up her mind about that incident herself (especially if they are in a serious relationship).

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I agree with Flying High... This is a SERIOUS violation of privacy. And not just regarding their relationship. That tape or copies of it could wind up ANYWHERE, not just among his friends. Despite whatever pain it would cause I would definitely want to know before making that commitment that the person I was planning on marrying was such a scumbag.

If she has any sense she'll get the tape back from him and beat him unconscious with it.

God... that is just so unbelievably repulsive, I don't even have the words for it...

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Originally posted by klohe

how about this one....my boy ASKED to see the tape I made with one of my ex's. I was like "Do u really want to see another guy fucking me porno style??? DIDN'T THINK SO!!!!!"

Is your guy into "pain" ...I mean I know for sure that I would not be interested in seeing my baby having sex with one of his ex girlfriends...I mean come on...thank you very much, there were times when we would only talk about certain things that he did and I would have an entire movie rolling in my head....I definitely don't need any more visuals.

Luckily, my bf feels the same as I and so just the thought makes me laugh...cause honestly, we probably wouldn't have sex for the next 3 months after that...as we both would feel too stressed out and intimidated by what we saw....lol

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Originally posted by xxlea

Last night I overheard my friend's LONG TERM bf offering to show MY bf their SEX TAPE!! They didn't know I was standing outside the door. Luckily for the sake of my bf he refused, on the way home he mentioned their conversation.

Now, I can almost gurantee that my friend is not aware of this or that she would appreciate this video being shown. I don't know if I should say something to her or keep my mouth shut.:confused:

I've always known he was an asshole but not this extent, he recently met my bf.

:mad::blown:

I understand your position here. Your damned if you do and your damned if you dont. You should definitely tell her though. Hopefully she wont take it the wrong way and try to twist it around on you. But she should know what this guy is up too. I think it would turn out worse if later on down the line she finds out that you knew and never told her.

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I spoke to my friend about an hour ago. I told her that I overheard him talking about the video. :blank: She responded, "I'll call you back," and hung up the phone.

:confused: I hate being involved in another couple's problems but I would def. want to know if something like this occured.

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Originally posted by xxlea

I spoke to my friend about an hour ago. I told her that I overheard him talking about the video. :blank: She responded, "I'll call you back," and hung up the phone.

:confused: I hate being involved in another couple's problems but I would def. want to know if something like this occured.

I think you decided very well on that one....cause it's important to know those things. I believe that this is what friends are for...no shugar coating but the truth...even it it might hurt some time.

It's better that you told her now than if she would have found out at some later point and then realized that you knew all along... I just hope that she realizes what an ass that guy is and makes the right decision.

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Originally posted by flying_high

.. I just hope that she realizes what an ass that guy is and makes the right decision.

I have a strong feeling I won't hear from her until the weekend. She'll come up with some elaborate excuse for his behavior, as always :blown:

At least I did my part, the rest is entirely up to her.

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Originally posted by xxlea

I have a strong feeling I won't hear from her until the weekend. She'll come up with some elaborate excuse for his behavior, as always :blown:

At least I did my part, the rest is entirely up to her.

You definitely made the right choice... hopefully she won't do something dumb like take it out on you... but you did what a friend is supposed to do. :love:

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fuck it..wait until it comes out on the net and all her friends and family see it somehow then she'll find out all about it...if that guy did that with her imagine who else he has done it to.....

if i find it ill letcha know ;)

:D

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