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some things to think about when looking for your soulmate!!!


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>Do you believe in Soulmates??


>It`s best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one that`s available.

>Best to wait for the one you love than the one who`s around.

>Best to wait for the right one because life`s too short to be wasted on just someone.

>An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open and after you marry, close one eye."

>Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don`t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make

>you blind to warning signs.

>Keep your eyes open and don`t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren`t really that important.

>Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves and differences will become more obvious.

>If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you`ve got to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.

>You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses and strengths.

>You are two unique individual children of God who have decided to share a life together.

>Neither one of you are perfect but...

>Are you perfect for each other?

>Do you bring out the best in each other?

>Do you compliment and compromise with each other or do you compete, compare and control?

>What do you bring to the relationship?

>Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?

>You can`t take someone to the altar to alter them.

>You can`t make someone love you or make someone stay.

>If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment and "a life" you won`t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for

>your pain.

>Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness and selfishness are not the ingredients of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.

>Seeking status, sex and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.

>What keeps a relationship strong?



>A sense of humor

>Sharing household tasks

>Some getaway time without business or children

>Daily exchanges (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call, a touch, a note)

>Sharing common goals and interests

>Giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure

>Giving each other a sense of belonging

>Assurances of commitment

>If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty and pain replace the passion.

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