starcapone Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 Does that make any sense? This guy is amazing, imo, and I want him, but I can't imagine having sex with him. I guess I just want to be good friends.. lol.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 Mmhhh...that is really weird...I mean, you say you "want him"...want him for what I mean I don't know, it's hard to be attracted to someone...but than aren't really attracted to that person... I don't know, but this all seems very confusing to me.......unless you are rather attracted to the thought of him wanting you and that's why you don't want to let him out of your life (been there and done that, I have to admit,....so I understand that notion ). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluegirl Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 this happens to me all the timei have met great guys personality and good lookingbut that sexual energy is missingand i cant picture myself having sex with thempart of me is like just do it and i dont understand what it is that makes one guy sexually attractive to me but some guys just dont do it for me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 I'm in a situation just like that....this girl is the best but i just dont see us making whoooppieee...and it makes things worse cuz everyone says she in love W. me (and hopefully not reading this tread) ....so it kinda is hard to talk to her about girls and shit cuz its a touchy subject ...aw well whats a boy to do FINE ROCKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 wow... i have the same exact problem~! i've been hanging out with this guy and i like him so much, but the minute i try and picture us having sex i just can't... i dunno what it is... does that mean we're doomed to just be friends??? :worry2:hey star ~ where have you been baby??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 I dont know..they say friends make the best lovers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 Originally posted by djmoonshine wow... i have the same exact problem~! i've been hanging out with this guy and i like him so much, but the minute i try and picture us having sex i just can't... i dunno what it is... does that mean we're doomed to just be friends??? :worry2:Can you see yourself kissing him, or have you kissed him and it's just the sex thing itself you can't picture????Cause if there is no sexual attraction whatsoever...well, then I guess you guys are just meant to be good friends....which sometimes last much longer and is more stable than any sexual relationship anyway... embrace the friendship fineones: yeah they do say this...and it sometimes proves to be true...still there are so many friendships that just remain great friendships... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fineones Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 no doubt...and thats the way im trying to keep it....well see Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blazinhot Posted April 1 Report Share Posted April 1 Originally posted by starcapone Does that make any sense? This guy is amazing, imo, and I want him, but I can't imagine having sex with him. I guess I just want to be good friends.. lol.. hmmm, see, I've pictured having sex with people that I don't really like, so thats a tough one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 weve kissed before... lots of times... weve just never had the opportunity to be alone... ive only been able to hang out with him on various breaks and whatnot... but with summer coming and me home for an extended period of time, we'll see what happens... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by starcapone Does that make any sense? This guy is amazing, imo, and I want him, but I can't imagine having sex with him. I guess I just want to be good friends.. lol.. yea it sucks....cause as much as you want it to be there, ity never fully reaches that pt...well sometimes it can..IDK..its a toughy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
flying_high Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 Originally posted by djmoonshine weve kissed before... lots of times... weve just never had the opportunity to be alone... ive only been able to hang out with him on various breaks and whatnot... but with summer coming and me home for an extended period of time, we'll see what happens... ...mmhhh, so did you feel a little bit more when you kissed the guy...cause if you do and you just can't imagine the sexual act in your head right now....no problem...just go with the flow and sometimes it's even better to not have already had a "headf***" with someone....no expectations, just pure fun and surprise Good luck, sweetie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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