kaligirl Posted April 8 Report Share Posted April 8 Originally posted by linabina ok... i am 19 years old. and i know that im not emotionally/mentally/financially/morally/etc etc. ready to have and raise a child right now. i know my reasons for not being ready to, but at the same time, as rdancer said, the apple doesnt fall far from the tree, so im sure id do the best i can to raise my child in the event that i become pregnant.... as my parents have done with me. and i can say that they did a damn good job teaching me morals and values considering what im about to say... but i wont become pregnant before im secure enough in my life to have a baby... because im a virgin. and i wont engage in sex until i know i would be ready to have a baby. whether its 5 years from now, or 5 days from now, who knows when ill be ready. but i wont put myself in that position and risk conceiving and having an abortion or conceiving and bringing another life into this world before i am secure enough to raise him/her with someone who is as secure as myself.rather than have sex... and deal with the "consequences".... id rather wait... and have sex when i know id be ready to enjoy the beauty of bringing a child into this world. To bad more women don't think the same way as you;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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