I went clubbing in New York for the first time a couple of weeks ago. We were at Exit and I must say it was quite an experience. It was really overwhelming. Dudes were grabbing me and rubbing up against me from the time I stepped onto the dance floor. Normally, I don't mind dancing with a cutie or two during the evening, but I just found these guys to be really agressive. I had to say no like 3 or more times to each guy before they left me alone. This happened for like almost the entire night. After a while, I just got so turned off, that I just ended up wanting to dance with my girlfriends. I just thought that it was the particular crowd at the club. Are all NYC clubs like this? All guys really need to do to get me to dance with them is be a gentleman. Take my hand, lead me to the dance floor or just say hello and ask. Don't be rubbing up your dick against my ass and expect me to swoon.