kcoolrule

Ok well I sympathize with the topic of this thread because I feel most clubs have an awkward environment for the single male trying to branch out and have some fun. For instance, I was at Chubbys with a group of my friends tonight and the club was hoppin, but the male/female ratio was wack (more males tonight). However I noticed one girl I made eye contact with and smiled with. I went over to her and had my friend go after her friend and ask for a dance. We got rejected. We went over to the main floor and found 2 girls dancing with what seemed to be no one. I went for one; my bud went for the other; rejected. We approached a grp of girls that my bud tried to just start dancing with and I didn't even go there because I knew these girls just wanted to dance in their little trio. He got rejected. I told him, "Fuck this place, nothing but stuck up bitches that just want to grind on each other." Certain clubs seem to have wack politics. You have to know if they are there with a date or are they willing to go away from their friend to dance with you. It seems to me that this is all arbitrary and no matter how good looking you are, you have to find the right person. There are clubs I've been too where you can approach almost any girl and ask to dance and she is willing. It shouldn't be bullshit mind games just to have a good time and dance. I wasn't there tonight to get laid, but yet I didn't even dance with anyone. It does piss me off. I also agree that people who are single and looking to just chill and dance should have separate quarters. Send the mind game lesbians to another area where they grind their cunts out of site. Also if you are going to a club just to dance by yourself you are wasting your money. The whole point of a club environment is to mingle and meet new people, not be separational and anti-social.