shiraz

We are talking about _different_ things. YOU are talking about some romanticized, hyperbolic idea of some "love". I am not talking about special someones. I am not referring to "really love" ing or "unreally love"ing - I am talking about people who give. People who are giving, who are kind and trusting and loving NOT because they think you are their soulmate NOT because they think you the match made in heaven NOT because they think that they cannot find another like you etc. I am talking about appreciating people who fall in love easily. People who do not go "eww" or "yuck" when faced with the real. People who are not afraid to find beauty in ugliness. People who contribute to society and who are uninhibited and who are open to all life. I am sure sex becomes better when you "trust" but sex can be better with considerate people who value and appreciate you, who touch you as though they have never touched anyone like you before (every flesh is unique). Sex or love making can be better with people who care for other people easily : easy friends.

To all the men and women who are stumping one race over the other ("dominican rules" "latino rules" "white / black / Jewish rules") to all who have had the limited experience of being prejudiced towards one race/ ethnicity : go join some Nazi outfit (they are into a lot of racial stuff). It is not the race that counts - it is how much and how easily a woman or man can give you love. Let us applaud people because they were kind and generous and giving when it came to love (NOT because of the color of their skin). Let us express our admiration for those who love other human beings and do not have religious, cultural, racial, national hang-ups (prejudices).

I am curious is it the water of New Jersey ? Is it the air ? Is it the food ? What is it about the people from New Jersey ? I notice so much hostility in most of them. We have the same problem with people coming from Brooklyn or Queens or Long Island. Why do you hate your fellow human beings so much ? The men use words like "fags" for their fellow men and worse words like "slut" and "whore" for their fellow women. If you hate men and women so much what are you doing on a club planet message board? I don't know about you guys but I would go to a club to meet different faces. Otherwise get a CD compilation and dance in your room. Don't you realize that if you say cocky things or if you insult someone by putting them down you lessen the flow of love. If you feel there is too much love then go to a mountain for most people go to public places like clubs to get more love. Don't use words that degrade or insult an entire class of human beings like women or homosexuals etc. Thank you...

The answer lies in words like :"slut" "whore" "easy" "desperate" "ffrustrated". When a girl is afraid of being called any of the above - how do you expect her to make the first move ? (even though she may be dying to do so) The same goes for guys. Priests , puritans and politicians have always used ways of denigrating sexuality by insulting those who want to express their love (so that they people are consequently without love, and ready for war or worship - it makes people more easily controlled). The solution is : if you ever hear one of your friends (or guys) back bite about a woman. If you ever hear someone call another girl "easy" (just because she shared her love and went for what she wanted and knew what she wanted) If you ever hear anyone put aggressive women in a bad light speak out against it. Speak out just like you would speak out against racism or sexism. Speak for the sake of your own love supply and your own future. Encourage and laud and appreciate women who are aggressive and sexual. If you cannot then the least you can do is : be courteous towards them. Thirdly make yourself desirable. Watch to what lengths women go to - in order to attract attention : they keep in shape, they may wear tight revealing clothing, they wear make up. I am not asking you to wear make up (the American male has not evolved that far but French men used to do that all the time and enjoyed a lot of pleasure and happiness). But you can look sexy in tight clothing, you can make yourself irresistable by standing out from the rest of the flannel-wearing crowd.

I definitely like the sporty spice look - I like sporty spice (period) - she is experssive and intelligent. When not dancing I do prefer the armani / versace / ann taylor / elegant look (loose backless dresses held up by strings, slits and lots of them )

I am disappointed in the responses from the "girls" (if I may assume that). NOT all guys have hairy arses - just like NOT all girls have hairless arses. I have seen women and teenage girls with moustaches and beards and hair growing between their chests. I did not go "ewww" or "yuck". I did not hate them for what they were born with. To hate them or go "eww" "yuck" would hurt their feelings and it would be being as immature as a 2 year old. Unfortunately some girls may be physically old but may be poor and prejudiced mentally. How would you feel if someone asked a question like : Do spandex shorts on girls look sexy or gross ? And then I responded : "ewww yuck! what a dumb question ! I once saw this fat old woman with lumps of dimpled, discolored, flabby fat, bulbous lipoids hanging from underneath ! " What a cruel thing to say! there are women who wear tight jeans when they should not be wearing them. But one must not look at the physical and throw up (or salivate). One must ask "why ! that woman wants to look desirable to us! we must be important in her eyes! she respects us and wants to look sexual and sensual in our eyes! so what if she fails to have that affect, it is the motivation and intention that counts" You girls sound crude and insensitive. You are the type who will grow up to become nuns or cruel mothers who will forbid their children from going to clubs. Why would you turn into that ? because you do not realize that the liberation of men and women can only be acheived simultaneously. When a woman is beautiful in a thong - when a woman is sexualized - a man must be allowed to do the same. A man must have permission to feel sexual in a thong also. A man must feel desirable in skimpy, tight clothing also! If you do not make that man feel desirable then you will lose that man/ woman to those who will make him/her feel desirable. Imagine your favorite male celebrity in a thong (say Brad Pitt or Leonardo Di Caprio) - would you not find them attractive in a thong ? why then must you greet the idea with such distaste?

I will start : Answer 1) I am motivated by people who want to share their love. It sounds vague but it is necessary that the other person has actually got love to offer (some people do it to prove somethings or to act out against other things) such people do not inspire me. Answer 2) This might sound odd but I am attracted to women who look older - who carry themselves with elegance , exuding power. My current favorite is the silver hair (or silver streaks). I like women who look like college professors, silver haired, mature, intelligent, kind and with deep warm voices. Answer 3) In my case : clothing is important. The right slit in the right place drives me insane with passion. Answer 4) Body type I am attracted to : well toned (not too thin) again the body type of middle aged women who keep themselves in shape. Face : softened features, the right eye glasses make me want to begin by take them off first. Answer 5) On a scale of 1 - 10 attitude was 9. Answer 6) I personally prefer an attitude that says :I know what I want and I want you. I like eagerness. I like passion. Answer 7) A comfortable couch, MINUS music that gives you a migraine, MINUS the smoke. Comfortable is the key word here. Answer 8) This might lead into a personal fantasy. But I am receptive to seduction in plush environments : opera house ambiance (large scale, velvet, glitter, deep rich colors) Answer 9) I am passive and only a VERY clear request from my partner would motivate me to be aggressive. My initial reaction to un invited seducers was nervousness and hostility - but I learned from a woman who said "I am flattered by your interest and it is very chivalrous of you, but ... " after heraing those words from a stranger nothing else mattered. Answer 10) a) I think successful seducers are thoughtful and have a deep psychological understanding. my sirens have expressed unequivocal desire, absolute approval and laughter.

I will start : Answer 1) I am motivated by people who want to share their love. It sounds vague but it is necessary that the other person has actually got love to offer (some people do it to prove somethings or to act out against other things) such people do not inspire me. Answer 2) This might sound odd but I am attracted to women who look older - who carry themselves with elegance , exuding power. My current favorite is the silver hair (or silver streaks). I like women who look like college professors, silver haired, mature, intelligent, kind and with deep warm voices. Answer 3) In my case : clothing is important. The right slit in the right place drives me insane with passion. Answer 4) Body type I am attracted to : well toned (not too thin) again the body type of middle aged women who keep themselves in shape. Face : softened features, the right eye glasses make me want to begin by take them off first. Answer 5) On a scale of 1 - 10 attitude was 9. Answer 6) I personally prefer an attitude that says :I know what I want and I want you. I like eagerness. I like passion. Answer 7) A comfortable couch, MINUS music that gives you a migraine, MINUS the smoke. Comfortable is the key word here. Answer 8) This might lead into a personal fantasy. But I am receptive to seduction in plush environments : opera house ambiance (large scale, velvet, glitter, deep rich colors) Answer 9) I am passive and only a VERY clear request from my partner would motivate me to be aggressive. My initial reaction to un invited seducers was nervousness and hostility - but I learned from a woman who said "I am flattered by your interest and it is very chivalrous of you, but ... " after heraing those words from a stranger nothing else mattered. Answer 10) a) I think successful seducers are thoughtful and have a deep psychological understanding. my sirens have expressed unequivocal desire, absolute approval and laughter.

What are the pre requisites for an encounter with a random ? 1)What is it about your partner(s) that motivates you to spend the night with them ? 2)What is it about him/her that first attracts you ? 3)What part did clothing play ? 4)How much weight did an attractive a) body face have ? 5)What role did the attitude play ? 6)What attitude attracted you towards them ? 7)What sort of an environment do you find most conducive to a seduction ? 8)What sort of an ambiance makes you receptive to seduction ? 9)If you are passive what would motivate you to become more aggressive in seducing people? If you are aggressive do you always want to be aggressive ? If yes what would allow you to accept seduction ? 10)What are the traits of the people you perceive to be a) successful as seducers (would you yield to them?) successful as sirens (would you seduce them) Dont forget to state your gender, your ethnicity, your income, your age and anything else that will help us all get a better picture of you.

What are the pre requisites for an encounter with a random ? 1)What is it about your partner(s) that motivates you to spend the night with them ? 2)What is it about him/her that first attracts you ? 3)What part did clothing play ? 4)How much weight did an attractive a) body face have ? 5)What role did the attitude play ? 6)What attitude attracted you towards them ? 7)What sort of an environment do you find most conducive to a seduction ? 8)What sort of an ambiance makes you receptive to seduction ? 9)If you are passive what would motivate you to become more aggressive in seducing people? If you are aggressive do you always want to be aggressive ? If yes what would allow you to accept seduction ? 10)What are the traits of the people you perceive to be a) successful as seducers (would you yield to them?) successful as sirens (would you seduce them) Dont forget to state your gender, your ethnicity, your income, your age and anything else that will help us all get a better picture of you.

I do not like it when you insult the very woman who made you happy by abusing her with epithets (like slut, skuzzy etc.) People like you are dumb enough to shoot themselves in their feet. How ? if you go around insulting such women and giving them a bad name - these wonderful women will stop being spontaneous, that same woman will stop sharing her love with you. Do you want an end to the love you are getting ? We as men should embrace and treat such women with kindness and affection and love - because they make us happy. If you are too foolish to care then don't ruin for the rest of us. Stop defaming women who are aggressive and whimsical and who get what they want. You make Exit sound like an awful place if it allows horrible heartless human beings like you inside.