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That is one (two) choices. However, lots of people are doing this. SO, without passing any judgement on me or anyone, I'm still curious. They can't ALL happen by accident.

I'm a lifelong New Yorker but cant figure this out. There MUST be a subculture for married people that want to have discreet sex on the side. D/D free, not freaky stuff. Just affairs. Any ideas?