Ok Im going to just answer this all in the order of questioning. He does in fact follow me all around my house when Im on the phone and theres even times he just walks in the bathroom while I showering. I cant even go into my bathroom and be left alone peacefully. He has noone else he can stay with. None of his friends parents will let him move in becasue he cant pay rent....yep, he doesnt even pay my family rent. He doesnt have a good enough job. He has noooo money in savings, nothing. All he has to him is a few clothes and some shoes. The good thing is hejust got a second job...I told him last night he has 3 weeks and thats it. I myself cannot take him living in my house. As to what he did to get thrown out of his own house.....he decided to talk to me again. His mother hates me for something that happened a while ago...even though it really didnt she just a lying cunt...so she told him, Talk to her and you are out of my life. What a great mother huh?!?! So everything gets thrown on MY shoulders. I never told him to pick me over her. I never said we would get back but he decided to to take the consequesnces. Now its just a matter of pride for him...He wont go back home b/c then it shows hes just running back again. Great so I deal with him then. Well he will have to be out in 3 weeks. I already set that and Im not backing down. Thanks everyone for listening and giving your advice. ------------------ ~*~* You.....You gotta gift! ~*~*