"Every action generates a force of energy that returns to us in like kind...what we sow is what we reap. And when we choose actions that bring happiness and success to others, the fruit of our karma is happiness and success." Witness Choices Evaluate Consequences Listen with your Heart "Everyone has a purpose in life...a unique gift or special talent to give to others. And when we blend this unique talent with service to others, we experience the ecstasy and exultation of our own spirit, which is the ultimate goal of all goals." you must take responsibility for the situation. Don't blame anyone or anything or yourself. Have a creative response to the situation as it is now. Look at it as an opportunity. ________ I have become very spirtiual the last couple of years, well have become more conscious of my spirtiuality and beliefs....still do not think 'figured' out my purpose, but more aware of the journey!! I do believe everything happens for a reason and do not believe in 'coincedences' anymore..... i need to get back to thinking....great post