I think you are faling into the same concept of "LOVE" which you expain in your post, you talk bout love being an ideology and nothing more than a masked murderer, maybe this is becaue this is the only kind of love you've experienced in life, in my opinion..and maybe i'm completly wrong (but hey, this is wat real love does to you, makes u feel and think in ways u never hd b4) once u have felt true love you will know because ur whole life will make a complete 360, and once this occurs your questioning of "LOVE" will never rise again the way you've brought it up...be patient, love will find its way.